I am having a serious problem. I am married, 4 years now. Have had a "best guy friend" for about 2 years now. I am really falling in love with my best guy friend. He thinks I have left my husband, which I have before but stupid me, went back. My husband has told me that he married me for money and he doesn't do anything I ask of him, affection, helping with the house, etc. He wants to do what he wants, when he wants, where he wants and with who, talks to other females intimately, proven. It's like my husband and I make each other miserable. My best guy friend, I know loves me and wants an intimate realationship with me and will be there. He has told me he wants kids with me and my husband does not. My husband makes me feel low and I dont' have any self confidence anymore but when I am with my best friend, I feel pretty, wanted and have the attention I need. Another problem, my family, they will never talk to me again if I leave my husband for this other man so I don't know what to do.
2007-06-27 04:12:35 · 3 answers · asked by Misery 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't leave your husband for this other guy. Leave your husband because he's a jerk who can't and won't make you happy and because you deserve better than that. It doesn't sound like you're in love with him either. Why stay in a loveless, miserable marriage? Your family will respect your decision, as long as you're not leaving one for the other. Leave because you want to be happy, but don't say you're leaving for someone else.
2007-06-27 04:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Special K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart!!! And keep yuor pocket book too!! And your family may pout for awhlie, but if they love ya (and I'm sure they do). They'll give over it-----in time. Just enjoy your life!!!
2007-06-27 11:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well divorce the bum and then put him into your life slowly and then whether the family like sit or not you are happy
2007-06-30 23:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋