Marriage & Divorce - 25 June 2007

2007-06-25 23:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

there are so many divorces and separations and adulterors out there,so why bother? dosent living together without papers accomplish the same thing?

2007-06-25 23:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by mojo569 4

It's obviously about sex. Doesn't it devalue marriage? When people say why get married when you're already having sex? Getting married solely for sexual purposes doesn't make sense to me! Besides, it's rather degrading when it comes to female sexuality, don't you think?

2007-06-25 22:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-25 22:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by lara y 1

I feel ill everytime i think of my ex going behind my back and introducing his gf to our son,this is the girl he walked out on me and our 4 year old for,he promised me he wouldn`t do it until i was happy with it and she wouldn`t go against my wishes but i then find out through guess work that they done it on saturday anyway.He knows my son wouldn`t be able to tell me as he cant speak and that makes it even harder,like he was using the fact my son couldn`t drop them in it.he`s only been with her a few months and the thought of knowing my son was in the same room as the woman his daddy left us for is tearing me apart,i met her once when me andmy ex were still together and she was horrible,we disliked each other instantly so i know she`s spiteful enough to try and twist the knife in even more by trying to play step mummy to my child,to make things worse i know he didn`t take our son last week so he could help her move her stuff into his flat and he hadn`t seen him in 3 weeks,i feel angry?

2007-06-25 21:54:25 · 14 answers · asked by onlyme 5

Okay, well, my sister's husband has 2 kids from an ex-wife. I feel bad for them because I feel like the family treats them differently than the other kids that aren't steps. For example, they spend "half" on b-days as they would the others in the family. Is this fair? Should stepkids be treated equally??

2007-06-25 21:28:53 · 15 answers · asked by mom of 2 3

I was just curious to know how many people out there would marry someone that did not have any money.

2007-06-25 20:26:43 · 28 answers · asked by Amenity 3

2007-06-25 20:13:15 · 9 answers · asked by VISH3 K 2

Be more attentive to people even at work? and please don't say shut up because I alway listen to the person but somehow i get the message screwed up!

2007-06-25 20:04:31 · 12 answers · asked by from_me_to_you 3

we want to get married but SSI said the will cut my kids SSI checks 300 a month but he maks about 1200 a month.but his dad says y get married if they are going to to that i told he for 1 i love hime w/ all my heart 2 i want to be w hime for life 3 my famil love him like family love him like family and 3 my dad would love to have him for a son in law if thats not good for him i dont know what to till him.

2007-06-25 20:02:51 · 13 answers · asked by lil mama 1

After catching my husband cheating by text messaging to a married younger woman at his work, we separated and we
are seeing a therapist. I see some strange bills in his
bank account for lunches and dinner, breakfast. I called the
other woman and she told me that she had committed a mistake and that she;s only human and she wants to make
her marriage work and has not seen my husband or talked to him. The school they work out of is very big and their jobs
as a computer specialist and her job as a security officer don't
meet. Would you believe her? My husband sounded very
much infactuated by her since she's 30 and he's 47. Some
times I've heard that cheaters chill when they get caught and
after 5 or 6 weeks continue their affair. She told me that she
has never gone out with my husband and that she knows that
I hurt alot as a woman and that nothing's going on. Would you
bellieve this?

2007-06-25 19:46:11 · 30 answers · asked by Mrs. Naive 1

My husband and I met 9 yrs ago, he moved in with me after living with a roommate for 5 yrs. When he met me he moved out of the apartment they shared shortly after, & left her with all the expenses to pay. She was livid. She was so angry.
she vowed to him that she will mess things up with his new
relationship. Obviously she didn't succeed, but during that time, it was a nightmare.She actually did the same thing to
her ex husband when, he left her, she actually used to go to her ex husband's apt to plant her panties under his pillow so his new girlfriend would find it or put her hair from her brush on his bed. A few months ago I was messing around on myspace trying to locate people. i found her on myspace, after that all the memories of what happened came back causing me to ask my husband questions. My husband thinks its weird that I would even think to check for her, when it wouldn't even cross his mind. I even thought of sending a nasty email. but I
didn't.

2007-06-25 19:41:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay you have kids but arent working.Your man is the bread winner and is supporting you and the kids that arent his.He lets you know 1 month and a half in advance that he wants to leave.He pays all the bills up and leaves you with enough money to hold you for at least another month.When he leaves he tells you that you are still his best friend.Would you believe this.Would you even want this guy to keep coming around.You have been together for a year.Are the kids affected by this?Would you allow this guy to still see your kids?What are your thoughts?

2007-06-25 19:12:49 · 35 answers · asked by I got the answer 2

How many of you guy's think ,that if it was not for us, women would still be riding side saddle on donkey's

2007-06-25 19:10:28 · 18 answers · asked by TUFF AS IT GETS 2

Ok this is starting to bother me. I got married last February but I lived with my now husband for a year. Well at the begining we used to have sex sometimes twice a day and then everything is going down the hill. He wants to do it once a week and because I bug him until we do it. HE IS NOT CHEATING ON ME! I know he is not since we spend so much time together and I know he loves me, he just do no feel like it anymore. He literaly goes to work, pick me up at my job and we come home together. I asked him if it's me if I should lose weigth or wear sexy cloths but he says that he stills wants me but not all the time. I am 24, he is 21 so, this is something I should be concern since we are so young. He works a lot but still, I want sex because I do enjoy having sex a lot! How can I decrease my sexual drive?

2007-06-25 19:00:52 · 24 answers · asked by dianndeltol 2

I feel if a man or woman cheats and they decide to stay together they should have another ceremony, maybe private> What do you think?

2007-06-25 18:55:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should I do? My kids are grown...but we are very close.

2007-06-25 18:53:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we plan to marry this year.

2007-06-25 18:46:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend has kids.I want to leave because I know I have no future with her.The only thing is that she isnt working and I dont think she can handle the bills.She is 10 years older than me (I'm 23).Should I be feeling guilty about leaving her?How can I make sure she'll be okay and still move on with my life.I feel so bad that I want to leave.

2007-06-25 18:26:20 · 13 answers · asked by I got the answer 2

wow, this is kind of involved. my husband of 4 years has turned out to be a liar about his past (pathological wild stories that i've discovered are not true--everything from war hero stuff to movie star stuff). i found out AFTER MARRIAGE that he is completely devoid of sex drive, impotent and does NOT want to have sex ever again. he was diagnosed bipolar 3 months ago (meds don't seem to be helping--anger, paranoia, micromanagement, can't sleep, is on 4 bipolar meds)..etc. we decided we are going to go our separate ways with kindness (13 year old son involved). just when i told him that i have completely given up on trying to be in a marriage with only myself--he is now telling me that we need to go back to our old church and start praying together more. he thinks that will fix his attitude, which is resentful, hostile, and unpredictable. i've been accepted to law school. should i postpone a year and leave the marriage now before something terrible happens? need your thoughts.

2007-06-25 18:12:54 · 7 answers · asked by diamond heart 4

Back in Feb, i dropped everything I was doing... A good job, school..To relocate to be with a female who is bipolar. She told me about her disorder as soon as we met, and being the understanding and psychology major that I am, I did not shut her out. I thought we could work. It was sooo good in the beginning. She was sick, and had to have major surgery. She didn't want to do it becuase she had noone to be there for her and her kids. i dropped my life to be here for her. It's been a few months now and physically she's doing better, but her bipolar is out of control. She is so mean to me. After all I do for her, it seems like she doesn't appreciate it. Also, are bipolar people compulsive liars? It seems that when it's time to do something responsible she lies and says she's sick, so that she won't have to do it. She lies about her doctor's appointments when she doesn't want to go. And it's like she doesn't remember being mean to me when she's mean. Is this normal?? Someone please help!!!

2007-06-25 17:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by mesofemme 3

She was going to school 16 hours a week and started fooling around with a guy there. I trusted her completely, she told me she was only talking to him so much so she could help hook him up with my sister. She came home and was the perfect wife, the perfect mother to our child. One day she asked me to check her email to see if she got her class sched. The guy had replied to one of her emails she had sent him that morning after I left for work. I didnt know what it was and opened it up. hmmm how to describe the feeling of your heart dying...first she told me it was only a crush, and a couple days later she told me she only kissed him and then the next day she told me how much further it went. she still wont tell me why she did it, she doesnt know why I would want to know. We had an argument and she started f***ing defending the other guy. We signed up for counselling but the first opening isnt until Sept. I'm in love with my wife, I just cant tell if she is the person I'm sleepingnextto

2007-06-25 17:56:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

In Texas, my friend married a man that had purchased a home several years prior, with his first wife. Three years after the original purchase, be had another Deed and Deed of Trust done, releasing his ex-wife from all responsibilties for the home. About eight years later, after he and my friend were married, he told her he wanted to refinance the home and have his ex-wife removed (which we find out later had already been done) have my friend put on the home and refinance to get cheaper payments. A Deed of Trust, but no Deed were issued in both their names when they refinanced. Now they are getting a divorce and he is telling her that even though she is on the Deed of Trust, she has no ownership in the home. She has talked with three different divorce attorneys who tell her that this is possible. How could this be. My understanding was a Deed of Trust was held by a Trustee until the note is paid in full, at which time the Trustee releases the home to the borrowers, which she is.

2007-06-25 17:56:22 · 1 answers · asked by Birdlegs 5

My mom lives in Texas and I live in California... I recieved a call from my little sister ( who also lives in Tx ) on Saturday and she told me that my moms boyfriend beat her up. A few days before that, I told my sister something was wrong with our mom cause I had been having really bad dreams about her and I thought she should go see her! But my sister lives a lttle far from her and had to work. So when I heard this ( it had been almost 1 1/2 months since we both spoke to our mom) I got ahold of my mom and she said he choked her, gave her a black eyes, bruised her tailbone and skinned her knees up. He had been drinking and she called the police but he wasn't arrested. She won't leave cause she said she had no where else to go.... How do I get through this emotionally when I'm so far away and have no means of going to see her ( not that it would help cause I'd probibly hurt the jerk ) I can't stop stressing that I might get the call one day that she is dead! Please help me someone!!!!

2007-06-25 17:50:04 · 17 answers · asked by kyrs069 1

I was angry so I sms and email his ex wife and told her everything about our relationship...including the emails he sent to me. I ended the relationship with him recently and he is really mad at me of telling his ex wife. I felt guilty too, am I wrong? Your advice please.

2007-06-25 17:47:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's a weird question.My ex, who was a woman,is now a man.The laws vary from state to state whether "she" existed.
I'm thinking about moving in with my long-term girlfriend(she knows about this)...any hints on what I should do about my past mistake?

2007-06-25 17:41:29 · 10 answers · asked by ozwol 3

Ring finger on left hand riight?

2007-06-25 17:35:08 · 36 answers · asked by XD 2

my parents are in there 50's my dad is 59 and my mom is 52 and my dad has been jackin it every few nights on our computers and then he doesnt delete it and when my friends come over we goto on the comp and its right there and them blames it on my brothers or "its for his friends" what should ido my mom is really pissed about it

2007-06-25 17:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by Turkey L 1

My sister's husband treats her badly to me, thee other day she went out with his aunt to the mall, why he was at school when she told him he started to treat her like the bottom of his shoe, every time she goes somewhere he gets an attitude, the thing is she never goes anywhere maybe once every couple of months, to me if he can't control her he gets mad, how can I tell her he's not worth it without hurting her feelings. when he drinks he says mean nasty stuff to her, he looks at her as tho he hates her sometimes help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-25 17:26:22 · 10 answers · asked by Nice isn't it 1

Can a Husband go through a wife's cell phone and question who she speak with?

2007-06-25 17:23:45 · 49 answers · asked by Robots 4