Marriage & Divorce - 25 June 2007

It just so happenned that I answered my phone during intimacy with my wife... It happenned accidentally, you know when you do something without thinking... So whats the big deal?! But she would not let it go and still upset... Its not like I was making an outgoing call... So what is your advice? Apologize or divorce?!

2007-06-25 06:01:33 · 28 answers · asked by Ronnie 2

2007-06-25 05:55:27 · 21 answers · asked by HAPEE 3

2007-06-25 05:47:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think it's because it's new, unexplored territory. We have a GREAT relationship but it's still kinda scary. Tell me how you feel/felt.

2007-06-25 05:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by naturegirlkole 5

He said he wasn't but it was quite obvious does this mean he is tired of me and he wants someone new? He gets pissed if a guy looks at me why is that? If i look he don't like it!

2007-06-25 05:32:09 · 30 answers · asked by little lou lou 3

My wife has deserted me without any significant reason and has filed petition under Hindu Adoptions and Maintenance Act, 1956 Clause 18 & 20 and demanding excessive maintenance of 15 thousand per month(Rs.7000 for daughter of age 1.5 years and Rs.8000 for herself) claming my income as 35-40 thousand per month, I work as a free lancer and my real income is between 15-20 thousand and i cant afford such high maintenance.

Till now i have done all possible things to bring her back but she is not coming back by treating me cruelly, abusing and making false allegations and not even allowing me to meet my daughter,before desertion she has reached to a stage of physical abuse also, so considering threat to my life, at this stage i cant take chance of bringing her back. My in-laws are also not co-operating and not forcing her for medical/temper management treatment.

2007-06-25 05:11:32 · 8 answers · asked by Tushar 1

I cant have any friends at all

2007-06-25 05:10:30 · 18 answers · asked by ARACELI T 2

My ex-husband knows the judge and I believe has pulled some strings he is only ordered to pay 32.95 per week, and doesn't even pay that. Any advise?

2007-06-25 05:02:05 · 7 answers · asked by VAL 2

his in the navy has a wife and baby, lately it's been getting worse his been hiding money from his wife even says his working but his not. he comes home sloppy drunk puking black tar, and as soon as he feels better he starts drinking again. His wife his worried that he'll kill himself she has no idea where to get help, he says that he has a problem but never changed. His been using alot of money and he doesn't think it's going to get worse. He keep saying he knows what his doing that they will never be homeless...I feel for my friend what can she do. Every time she tells him she want to just walk away he does alot to make her suffer like by taking more money, she use to work but now a stay home mom so right now all she count on is his check. He wont even let her managed any of their account. How can I help her.

2007-06-25 04:54:34 · 13 answers · asked by juliegaldones 1

And still love their partner?
I ask this question because it seems that I have more and more days where I have to find a reason to stay.

More and more I feel as though we are just two people who are 'together' because that's all we've known for so long.

I feel as though I am already alone.

2007-06-25 04:53:22 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

i found my husband cheated and now took off with her n spend the wknd 2gether in our place where we just to spend our summers. why is it that i dont get angry so i could get the streght 2 say ENOUGH! Instead i get hurt n want to go n look 4 him to beg him 2 once again try 2 make things work.....we have been seperated for almonst 6mon but he is been on/off we me, i know i have allowed its my fault but im so afraid of loosing him, i dont want 2 loose him n i have settle 4 so little. Why can i move on? why do i stll have hope hell come back why can i not let it go? i love him so much he is my one only never been with no 1 else, but i know that this isnt what i want 4 the rest of my life n our 2 girls. i feel so desperate to leave work n just stand outside his house 2 see when he gets there, 2 see what face he has on, 2 see if he is really happy with her 2 see what is it that she has that i didnt? why do is it hurt so much why can i move on.....he did!!

2007-06-25 04:47:26 · 24 answers · asked by HelpmeFast 1

My husband's van was totaled by a woman who fell asleep at the wheel and rammed it from behind. Because she was a single parent with quite a few kids, my husband worked out a settlement with her to give him $60.00 a month. Here's the dilema: Because she stays in the same community where his mother lives, he arranged for her to just drop the money off over his moms. His mom seems to feel its ok for her to just take whatever money she wants and then tells my husband about it after the fact. I am totally pissed off because my husband is so tight when it comes to me asking for money. I told him i was going to say something to his mom about doing that. What she takes from him impacts me too, seeing that he is now married. He told me he didn't care if i said anything to her. He acts like he can't say no to her. How should I handle this. We are struggling just like she is. By the way, she has a husband too.

2007-06-25 04:46:17 · 14 answers · asked by stella 2

My husband and I split up temporarily and now he is seeing this other person. She is nasty. She has no problem posting innapropriate pics of herself on the net in compromising positions and this is the type of person I do not want around my son. My husband and I were fine, and working toward reconcilliation when she came into our lives. Now he doesnt want to pull our family back together. Does anyone have any ideas or techniques learned to convince him to stop this separation? We do belong together but I dont have faith in god or karma anymore. Any suggestions?

2007-06-25 04:42:05 · 31 answers · asked by Ms.Take 1

My husband is going to be deployed in the near future. I am working now. I have an opportunity to do an internship while he is gone in a field that I am very interested in. Internship = free, so my income will be nil. His military pay is plenty to support us.

Do you think it is selfish of me to do the internship while he is deployed? Honestly my job now bores me to tears and this internship would probably make the time go faster.

Thanks in advance!

2007-06-25 04:37:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

and if you are not married, would you expect to change your name when you do get married?
What are the pros and cons of taking your husband's surname?

2007-06-25 04:34:05 · 18 answers · asked by SLF 6

**Men**: What would you do if you were married and a couple of lesbians wanted to have a threesome with you so one of the would get pregnant with your child? Would you say maybe? Yes? No?

**Women**: What would you do if you found out that your husband told the lesbians that he would think about it and never told you about any of this?

hehe =P

2007-06-25 04:32:57 · 17 answers · asked by Zarahel 3

I am an African American female that has been married to a slightly younger Lithuanian male for almost two years. We never really dated (we have been together a total of three years and this is NOT a green card marriage) so we are still learning about each other. I have sought an online relationship to make up for the missing elements in our marriage. I have found a Russian man, seven years younger, and 225 miles away, that makes me feel alive again. He has an African American girlfriend but we have discussed having a discrete intimate relationship. I love my husband, but I can’t get this new man of my mind. I have been incredibly needy as well as jealous of his girlfriend. How do I contain these feelings and move on? How do I effectively communicate with my husband that I would like him to give me what the “other man” does without emasculating him and destroying our marriage?

2007-06-25 04:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and his 3rd cousin are really close......i understand there relationship hes like her big brother....my problem is that sometime he will choose her over me and im his wife......this has been going on for about 2 years now.....how would you handle it????

2007-06-25 04:28:49 · 30 answers · asked by ~Blondie~ 2

My husband tells me all the time that his girlfriend said hi or that she would like to met me...He will say call before you come home so I can run my girlfriend off...(sometimes I let him know and sometimes I dont) but he is a joker so I take it as a joke... He works alot of hrs and I know he is at work becouse I hear him on the radio that he uses for work. But my thing is should I be worried and maybe he is not joing with me... so I be concerened? he been togther 10 yrs and married 7 yrs. we have 2 beautiful kids and i dont want to get hurt or dont want them to get hurt!!! mostly i dont want them to be hurt!! so do u think hes joking or is he beening for real!!!

2007-06-25 04:26:31 · 20 answers · asked by mlscsp2 1

Is it ever o.k. to have a "one night and then its over" -- thing? Like -- we are both attracted 2 each other... both want to... both are hesitant, for obvious reasons. But she's suggesting an "our night" type thing - and then it'll be over.

What do you think?

2007-06-25 04:25:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a jealous co-worker(Sue) who talks negatively behind my back. She tries to recruit as many allies by talking bad about me and she recruited a new ally - Jen.

Jen is trying to match me up with her best friend Matt, who I suspected to be her boyfriend for months. She claims she wants to match us up cause I’m a nice person and new to the area. She also mentioned she is trying to get back with her ex and he is a jealous guy but doesn’t want her Best guy friend to be left alone. So she wants to match me up with him.

Of course I said no. Out of the blue she mentions Sue's name as a good match. She mentioned it as if she didn’t really know her. I smell a scam. Do you? What is Jen trying to do? What should I do?

2007-06-25 04:19:18 · 4 answers · asked by Black Hair D 1

Couple working in UK

2007-06-25 04:18:41 · 10 answers · asked by Raj S 1

2007-06-25 04:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by Lue R 3

A few months ago, I would try to call my husband when it was well after when he should have been home, like 7:30 or 8:00 just to see if he was okay and working late. However, I would keep getting his voice mail on his cell. I found out from his sister that he was ignoring my phone calls and lying about where he was. He's traveled out of town (about 100 miles) a few times to finish up at his old job. Every time he has said he'd be home by dinner, but when I call to see if he is okay (because of the long commute) his voice mail immediately comes on each time from around 6:00 to 8:00. He finally calls me after 8 to say he's just started on the way home. The last time he said he was finished and didn't have to go back, but then all the sudden he had to go back today. I can't help but think he's lying to me again. Really, I keep trying to trust him but it just keep happening over and over. Am I a fool?

2007-06-25 04:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by StormyC 5

I know too many women who are paying alimony, lost their kids more than half the time and/or are getting NO child or Spousal support from exhusbands.

2007-06-25 03:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1

My husband and I are separated and I just found out that he is having me followed and someone is spying on me. I am really freaked out, but i don't know what to do. I don't really want to get police involved, what options do i have?

2007-06-25 03:47:18 · 29 answers · asked by no name girl 5

Before me and my husband got married, there was a lady who use to call at home to speak to my husband. So one day i asked my husband jokingly if he has ever dated the lady, he refused and said she was only a friend. He had even dined with this lady while he was away for work in London and while we were together. All i knew was she is his friend. They met during one of his holidays before we ever met each other. One day i was in the study looking for some documents when my eyes fell on a plastic bad tied in a bundle. I pick it up, untied it to fine out what it was, It was a collection of letters and the first one i could lay my hands on was a letter from this lady, telling him how much she loved and missed him. In short, love declaration. I was shocked, and i thought why would he lie to me especially as its his past? I confronted him, and all he said was that, its the past and its nothing to worry about. I'm angry and worried that he lies about something so small..........please help!

2007-06-25 03:44:37 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married to a pakistani and I've noticed pakistani people dislike girls. I have three girls and they really look down on me for not having a boy. when you give birth to a girl no one even congratulates you, infact they commisserate you. I'm pregnant again and the pressure is on for me to give birth to a boy, if I have another girl they are going to hate me even more. Even my husband wants a boy this time and he said if we have a girl again he doesn't know what he'll do. I dont know what I'm having as I'm only 5 weeks pregnant but I feel so stressed out and I keep dreaming that I'm having a girl and I wake up feeling so anxious. I love girls and to me all that matters is that you have a healthy baby but I feel so stressed out and worried, I just want a boy so that they get off my case!

2007-06-25 03:23:27 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are you friends? Do you call each other to talk everyday? What if you have kids...do you talk more than other couples? What seems to be the normal after a divorce?

2007-06-25 03:09:56 · 25 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

So can a person cheat on their spouse even though they love them. Or do you think they have to stop loving them to do it...My husband cheated on me while he was stationed in germany (we were seperated for a long time before i could get here) He says he loves me and always did, that he was just lonely and she was always there when he got drunk and she reminded him of me (bs if you ask me) I just don't get how you can love someone and still do it...I mean i was lonely but i only wanted him, not any guy with his build/coloring would have worked for me...He was suppose to want me and only me, i shouldn't have been replacable! So what do you think, did he/could he have still loved me while doing this?

2007-06-25 03:06:59 · 45 answers · asked by mrs.DJ 1