Marriage & Divorce - 25 June 2007

When my wife and I were married, she used a last name that she took from her stepfather but she never had it legally changed. Can I get an annulment because of this?

She used this last name in her high school records but her step father never legally adoted her.

2007-06-25 17:17:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-25 17:06:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know how to do this! I have been so frustrated, stressed out, unhappy and miserable for a very long time! I can never enjoy what my heart pleases in life. We have very little in common with each other. I would like to find someone, who enjoys the exact same things that I enjoy out of life in general. But I absolutely don't know what to do! This is my very first marriage! I got married to young at 25 yrs of age. At that time, I was not experience enough to know women in general. I know that I did something very stupid, in marrying the wrong woman and my wife knows also, she is very stupid too! We are both stupid for marrying each other at a very young age! Now I know exactly what I want out of life in general. I don't want a marriage counselor. I want absolute out, of this big mess, that i got into from the very begining! At the same time, I am extremely scared to get separated, because of loneliness AND very afraid of finding someone who will accept me for who I am

2007-06-25 17:03:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I was casually dating a guy for several months.
We didnt have sex until we had been friends/known each other for 5 months.
We had sex 3 times and then I said if he didnt want to be serious we should break up because I am not wired to do casual relationships. Plus I had major death in family, job change, surgery and moved so I was stressed to deal with casual fling.
We broke up and 2 months later he said he just wanted to hang and maybe make out a little. I agreed in a weak moment.

He was pushy and wouldnt take no for an answer and we ended up doing it. I enjoyed it but was mad because i tried to fight him off me and said no 5 times before i finally gave up and gave in.
I then explained that was it and I care about him but unless he wants to commit to a real adult relationship (we're both 30) he better leave me alone .....
He said he understood. Well 2 weeks later he just told me he misses me and keeps staring at my pics. I cut him off and said i miss him but no casual stuff sorry. He responded so coarsely that he is all pentup and 'backedup N needed to cvm badly and could he just use my mouth.
Ewwwww.
He then added I could just lie on my sofa and not do much except lick him.
I didnt know how to respond so i lied and said I wasnt home.
Well he just IMd me that he drove by my house alittle while ago and could see my tv and laptop light flickering.
He said he only asked for a 'simple bj' and wouldnt have insisted on sex this time.
Wow thats stalkerish.
Eww should I just ignore him forever ? I see him in public a lot.
Plus even if he apologises I dont want a guy that crude. He had rotting corpse bad breath half the time we were dating. Gorgeous, rich, smart and an utterly smarmy weirdo underneath

2007-06-25 16:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been telling me that he is having very strong sexual thoughts about other woman that are thin, blonde and big breasted. Him and I have been having issues and I want to try anything I can to make him think of me in a more sexual and loving way.

2007-06-25 16:25:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-25 16:16:48 · 16 answers · asked by Harry 1

Do you think it's right for your ex's to come to you and your new family's family gathering, such as thanksgiving day or Christmas or any other family get togethers? Do you get offended or welcome them?

2007-06-25 16:15:01 · 14 answers · asked by oliveoil 2

he lets his family tell him what to do, (they hate me) I used to let them live with me too, they are moochers my boyfriend gives me $30 a week I provide lights, water, laundry, electricity, and food. He is an alcoholic and chain smoker, and when I ask him if he wants to marry me he blows me off. We have been together over 2 and a 1/2 years. He tells me he loves me but I am starting to even doubt that. Any advice?

2007-06-25 16:14:36 · 57 answers · asked by Jenny D 1

2007-06-25 16:06:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you accept to do whatever he wants you to do to appreciate all the things that he has done for you? Would you accept to give him a great big hug sitting on his lap and letting him snuggle on your breast?

2007-06-25 16:04:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

in my country it a 2years separation before you can file for it,,,

2007-06-25 15:42:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the worst thing imaginal? Being with the same sex!!! After 22 years, you would think I would have known better! I should have listened to my instinct. Thank you--all of of you--for not only your answers, but your support. Now, how do I tell this person's children and family. Plus, the one this person cheated on things they r the only 1.

2007-06-25 15:37:08 · 2 answers · asked by k 1

The kids are from a previous marriage. The girl is 20. The man is 41. His kids: son-9 and daughter-7. The lady is mature for her age. She wants to marry the man. The man is divorced from his first marriage. The girl wants to marry him because she loves him, cares for him, and her personality matches with the mans. She also feels this man is the real deal. She wants to spend the rest of her life with him. She wants him to be her lifetime partner and she feels safe with him and trusts him. What to do? How to handle this?

2007-06-25 15:26:23 · 23 answers · asked by BeautifulGirl 2

2007-06-25 15:21:45 · 22 answers · asked by The Asker 4

I adopted my ex husbands daughter. He left me and she is living with his mother. Can I sign my rights to his mother? She has lived with his mother since she was atleast 8 months old except for the 3 years she lived with us while we were married. He has custody of her, but she does not live with him and he does not support her.

2007-06-25 15:16:56 · 13 answers · asked by cloudlady 1

If given an ultimatum...who would you choose?
Your wife...who you began a life-which includes your child(ren), a woman you trust your life with, make love to, enjoy days with & can kiss and hold hands with anytime day or night, see your child(ren) anytime with no hassle or visitation schedules, all who love you unconditionally----OR
Your mother, who gave you life, who helps you when you need help, who is probably the only woman you can trust, who will never let you down, and will always be there for you and loves you unconditionally?

2007-06-25 14:54:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend is do heart broken, she is married and her husband betrayed her, she was still with him when she met another guy who made her feel love and special, he tell her so many sweet lines and she believed him he was also married, he told her he does not love his wife he feels sister - brother love for her he told her he is in - love with her all of a sudden his wife started getting suspicious of him cheating with her but she had no proof and he started protecting her so much so she cannot find out, he stop staying out late and started going home early my friend hurt so much because he change the things he did with her so she asked him for a time frame when they will be together he told her give him three more years with his wife he will leave her to be with her he wants to make sure his wife is straight and she won't have to worry about bills or nothing but my friend could not accept the three years, so she was more fustrated because she believe it was unfair to her.

2007-06-25 14:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-25 14:36:22 · 19 answers · asked by Reported Abuse 2

this sucks, I need to get a vasectomy.

2007-06-25 14:24:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 1 year (age 50) has in his top drawer a big glossy picture of his high school sweetheart and an envelope with more pictures of her. He also has a small portfolio of wedding pictures that have him, his ex-wife of 10 years ago, and family members in it. I know he really loved the high school gf, he detests his ex-wife. I am not jealous or even bothered by them, really. I just wonder, is it appropriate that he hang on to them now that he has remarried?

2007-06-25 14:24:44 · 25 answers · asked by Annie 6

My 15 year old daughter just added me as a friend on her new facebook page which is good. She is getting closer to forgiving me. I do feel sad for any pain that I may have caused her.

Her Dad has sole physical and legal custody of her. He moved due to job reasons and is now going to take her with him.

I guess that I don't have any say in the matter because when I gave him custody, I lost any say in my daughter's life.

I do think that he should send a letter to the courts notifying them that he is changing the child's legal address.

I won't be able to contact my daughter by phone though. He does not have a home phone and she does not have a cell phone.

I feel removed from the decision, but I guess I have to give up hope that he would even consult me or send her to me. I live in another state and am willing to have her come live with me.

I have to learn to accept life as it is.

2007-06-25 14:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

What is the one thing you would most like to change about your significant other?? You can be honest here. It can be anything.
It might be something physical about them, or it might deal with some aspect of there personality, or a habit they have that annoys you, or a belief they have you don't subscribe too, or anything at all.

2007-06-25 14:02:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

If technically, you're married / separated... Do you have to put your husband's name on birth certificate or can you leave it blank? In tennessee

2007-06-25 13:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by apn2005 1

2007-06-25 13:39:38 · 18 answers · asked by cathy h 1

I cut him down and saved his life. He was hanging in my garage. I am tramatized. We see a conselor tomorrow. It happened 4 days ago. He said I nag him and things are unbearable at home.
I will add he drinks a 12 pack a day and refused recovery. They didnt even make him go to the mental ward. Any advise would be helpful.

2007-06-25 13:30:53 · 24 answers · asked by shania3949 6

18 months of that was very happy for him. He found out she had been seeing someone for the past 7months of that two years. They have a child who has just turned 2.I am of the opinion that she purposely got married to have a baby so she could get maintenance and what ever else from this marriage. as he bought a house seven months into the marriage. He also bought her a vehicle and has a very good job. He is a tradesperson (Electrical Engineer) and obviously makes very good wage.

She moved out of the home after a somewhat pitiful argument
We have since found out she has been seeing someone for the past seven months.
She went home to mother for the two of those months nd has now got herself a unit.
The relationship has become more involved and unfortunatly found out in a most alarming way. My sons 2yr old was spending the night with him and we there for dinner and she just happened to mention this persons name who was
staying with mummy in her room.
What do you say to her. HURTS

2007-06-25 13:29:35 · 10 answers · asked by aotea s 5

2007-06-25 13:12:49 · 21 answers · asked by Happy Go Lucky 1

My boyfriend just went down on one knee a few nights ago and pulled out a ring...and I said yes!!!!
For the first night, I was soooo happy and content to be lying there in bed in his arms...but then I started thinking. I'm only twenty, and he's 21, and we don't really have stable jobs.
I live in a puny apartment across from him , and he wants to buy a house where we can live together. I don't know if we can afford that.
Then there's kids to deal with...no we don't have any yet but when we do...I'm just kind of feeling lost right now. Any encouraging words?

2007-06-25 13:11:50 · 16 answers · asked by sonder 3

My marriage is currently on the rocks and this song suddenly popped before me while i was driving home one day - Brian Mcknight - One Last Cry

2007-06-25 13:01:06 · 17 answers · asked by dingdingdong 2

2007-06-25 12:56:33 · 15 answers · asked by mushymushroom88 1