What is the one thing you would most like to change about your significant other?? You can be honest here. It can be anything.
It might be something physical about them, or it might deal with some aspect of there personality, or a habit they have that annoys you, or a belief they have you don't subscribe too, or anything at all.
2007-06-25 14:02:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would simply like my husband to care about what I say, and give worth and value to how I feel.
2007-06-25 14:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing I would change about my spouse is the fact that he NEVER listens to me. I always have to scream and fight for him to even recognize my opinion.
We had a huge fight just Thursday about the way he treats me (like always taking advantage of me) I say that I am just his employee and he tells me what I want to hear, but never changes. He is asleep right now and has been for the last two hours; the worst thing is it only 8:15 my time. HE came in and ate and went to sleep. No conversation no nothing just straight to bed. I even gave him a ******** before he went to sleep!
You tell me am I just an employee?
2007-06-25 21:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish he stuck to his projects. He gets these ideas- even simple things and he doesn't always follow them through. I've been waiting for a bookshelf for 2 months. And that's one of the projects that he remembers. Sometimes he'll get ideas and be really excited about them for like 2 days and then they dissapear completely. It's frustrating that there's no rhyme or reason wo which projects get finished and which don't.
2007-06-25 22:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife has PTSD (Post Tramatic Stress Disorder) from the 1st Gulf War. She was in a medical unit there. It has put a strain on our marriage. I would change her back (pre-ptsd) and take on all the pain I ever caused her.
Other than that. She's the love of my life.
2007-06-25 21:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are a few things one is how he work for 5 hours during the night and sleeps most of the day or watches tv and doesnt hardly do any of the housework next it would be him getting bigger i wish he was smaller like he used to be!
2007-06-25 21:51:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you go into a marriage thinking that you can change them, then there's your problem. There will always be things that annoy you or test you, but that's marriage. You have to learn to accept your differences and grow.
2007-06-25 22:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by amandajensen87 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I read the question nothing came to my mind. So I thought about it longer and read others answers still nothing. I would not want to change any thing about my husband. Nothing bothers me about him in any way. I am so blessed to have a husband like him. I think he is perfect. I love him so much.
2007-06-25 21:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would like my wife to be more open minded and try new things. She is very conservative and somewhat shy. I would luv to have her show more affection toward me and others as well.......maybe even consider an more open relationship to include others.
2007-06-26 08:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask that he spend more time with his children and I and cut the apron strings that bind him to his family.
He is over there all of the time and they are pestering us etc. etc.
I mean I only see my folks maybe once a month...he sees his practically everyday!
That is the one thing..
BLESSINGS
2007-06-25 21:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
disputing what I say. Not that I am an important person or a know it all, it's just when I know what I am talking about, I don't like what I say being disputed even when I prove what I am saying to be exact.
2007-06-25 21:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by bro_ken128 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋