My girlfriend is do heart broken, she is married and her husband betrayed her, she was still with him when she met another guy who made her feel love and special, he tell her so many sweet lines and she believed him he was also married, he told her he does not love his wife he feels sister - brother love for her he told her he is in - love with her all of a sudden his wife started getting suspicious of him cheating with her but she had no proof and he started protecting her so much so she cannot find out, he stop staying out late and started going home early my friend hurt so much because he change the things he did with her so she asked him for a time frame when they will be together he told her give him three more years with his wife he will leave her to be with her he wants to make sure his wife is straight and she won't have to worry about bills or nothing but my friend could not accept the three years, so she was more fustrated because she believe it was unfair to her.
2007-06-25 14:43:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have two questions for you. Why do women always believe guys when they say they are going to leave their wives to be with them? Secondly, what makes them think that they are so darn special that they won't do the same thing to them. A man who cheats on his wife (and his family) is a dog and women like your friend have to remember is that a dog always has to find a new place to bury his bone. Peace and God bless.
2007-06-25 14:56:11 · answer #1 · answered by cave man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
NO, 'SHE' WAS UNFAIR TO 'HERSELF'~~FORGET ABOUT WHAT HE IS ABOUT!
She is married and should get out of that relationship before finding another. Much more, she should have never 'involved' herself with a married man either!
Where is the MORAL BASE HERE! Why is it so hard to leave a man you do not love. Take care of yourself and learn what you 'want in a partner' before going off and seeking another? I TELL YOU WHY: SELFISH PEOPLE! I WANT, I NEED, I,I,I,I,I!
No wonder she jumped on the first man who told her WHAT SHE WANTED TO HEAR! Tell your friend, IF A MAN WILL CHEAT ''WITH'' YOU, HE WILL ALSO ''CHEAT'' ON YOU!
HE IS NO PRIZE AND FURTHERMORE, HE DOES NOT PLAN ON 'EVER' LEAVING HIS WIFE TILL HE FINDS A WOMAN WHO LOVES HIM SO MUCH, THAT SHE WILL ALLOW HIM TO COME AND GO AND SEE OTHER WOMEN AS WELL. This guy knows himself well and he knows he needs a FOOL to be with daily...so he can have freedom and she will still be there waiting.
So, tell her to go on and wait the 3 years, possibly replace the wife and I GUARANTEE YOU, IT WILL NOT TAKE 3 YEARS AFTER FOR HIM TO FIND SOMEONE ELSE TO CHEAT WITH. I KINDA FEEL AS IF THIS MAN MAY NEVER LEAVE HIS WIFE...ESPECIALLY IF SHE IS CLUELESS!
DON'T SHE KNOW THAT ALL SHE KNOWS ABOUT THIS MAN ~~ IS WHAT 'ONLY HE' HAS 'TOLD' HER? WHAT IS TO SAY THAT HIS LIFE AT HOME IS AS HE PAINTED IT?
HE COULD MAKE UP ALL KIND OF EXCUSES~~INCLUDING THE WIFE BEING PREGNANT~~FOR HIM NOT TO LEAVE HOME~!
(I truly hope he did not use the line that his wife and he do not have sex). YOUR FRIEND PROBABLY FELL FOR THAT ONE TOO!
W A K E H E R U P!
GET AWAY FROM THE MARRIED MAN! GET A DIVORCE IF YOU CANNOT LOVE YOUR HUSBAND AND ''''GET A LIFE WITH SOME MORALS''''!!
2007-06-25 22:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this is what happens when you mess with a married man. If your friend did not want to be so heart broken....then she should have never began seeing a married man. More than likely, he is not going to leave his wife and he was just using your friend for a good time, and he figured since she was married then she would not get serious. so anyway, your friend needs to either fix her own marriage, or move on. She need not wait for the married man, his intentions are pretty obvious. I hate he used her in this way. but men will say anything such as all those sweet lines just to get in their pants, and it worked like a charm. She just needs to move on.
2007-06-25 22:00:45 · answer #3 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well it was unfair to your friend and the guy that loved her, if he really did love her he would have gone and divorced his wife but he could still have supported her, by giving her money and stuff, so tell your friend that if she did have a relationship with him it woujld have ended because he truly didn't show his love, his love was not "love" but like.
2007-06-25 21:51:05 · answer #4 · answered by lovsummergirl94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend is having issues with the men from her past, tell her that you and her need to take a 'break' for a while until she 'gets over it'.
She cannot drag her 'emotional-ex-boyfriend-baggage' into YOUR relationship.
If she does, it is headed for doom.
2007-06-25 21:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by NC_Pianist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend really needs to stop falling for the wrong kind of men it seems like. Have her watch this:
http://video.ivillage.com/player/?id=79017
2007-06-26 16:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to seek some professional help. She is seeking attention from whomever gives it and that will never lead to a successful relationship.
And Please (Please), use some punctuation next time. Little things like capitalized words, periods, and paragraphs make reading questions so much easier.
2007-06-25 22:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by JJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess he didn't love her like he should...or like she loved him.... ..Off to work now ... single life is so hard.......
2007-06-25 22:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋