So I was casually dating a guy for several months.
We didnt have sex until we had been friends/known each other for 5 months.
We had sex 3 times and then I said if he didnt want to be serious we should break up because I am not wired to do casual relationships. Plus I had major death in family, job change, surgery and moved so I was stressed to deal with casual fling.
We broke up and 2 months later he said he just wanted to hang and maybe make out a little. I agreed in a weak moment.
He was pushy and wouldnt take no for an answer and we ended up doing it. I enjoyed it but was mad because i tried to fight him off me and said no 5 times before i finally gave up and gave in.
I then explained that was it and I care about him but unless he wants to commit to a real adult relationship (we're both 30) he better leave me alone .....
He said he understood. Well 2 weeks later he just told me he misses me and keeps staring at my pics. I cut him off and said i miss him but no casual stuff sorry. He responded so coarsely that he is all pentup and 'backedup N needed to cvm badly and could he just use my mouth.
Ewwwww.
He then added I could just lie on my sofa and not do much except lick him.
I didnt know how to respond so i lied and said I wasnt home.
Well he just IMd me that he drove by my house alittle while ago and could see my tv and laptop light flickering.
He said he only asked for a 'simple bj' and wouldnt have insisted on sex this time.
Wow thats stalkerish.
Eww should I just ignore him forever ? I see him in public a lot.
Plus even if he apologises I dont want a guy that crude. He had rotting corpse bad breath half the time we were dating. Gorgeous, rich, smart and an utterly smarmy weirdo underneath
2007-06-25 16:43:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wait..what part about this guy is even remotely attractive?
and since when is a "simple bj" not sex?
forced sex is not healthy. i don't care what "words" he says to get you there.
his being "pent up" is not your responsibility! it's signs of a weirdo, like you said and worse, he's riding by your house to see if you're telling the truth..you owe him nothing. but a restraining order. i think the guy is dangerous.
2007-06-25 17:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by shyanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is an oversexed stalker! If he is so gorgeous, smart and rich why is he bothering you? Why not move on to another?
You've got to make up your mind that you don't want him around and then tell him. Block him from your email, your IM, don't take calls from him. If he shows up uninvited, do not open the door. You can call through the door that if he bothers you again you will call the police. And then do it!
2007-06-25 23:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always want a jerk off and he wants that for sure. If you enjoy having s*x with him then why not but if you feel it is not right and he don't want any long term relationship with you then just move on and find someone else. But tell him again that you will not do this unless you are in relationship with him.
2007-06-26 00:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by samranelahi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police and get a restraining order. He will know you mean business, and you will have backup just in case. He sounds like a sleeze ball. Stay away!
2007-06-25 23:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Chris G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him a man should never PRESSURE or PERSUADE you to do anything you dont want to do you should do it because you want to not because you were forced to cut him off he sounds like a stalker if hes passing by and telling you sometimes its just better to let go
2007-06-25 23:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by mmedina96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sicko stalker, tell him to stay away or you will get a restraining order
2007-06-25 23:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sparky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalker...move on.
2007-06-25 23:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, call the police....
2007-06-25 23:49:19 · answer #8 · answered by Captn Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋