what is the worst thing imaginal? Being with the same sex!!! After 22 years, you would think I would have known better! I should have listened to my instinct. Thank you--all of of you--for not only your answers, but your support. Now, how do I tell this person's children and family. Plus, the one this person cheated on things they r the only 1.
2007-06-25 15:37:08 · 2 answers · asked by k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tough situation at best! Talk straight with your partner of 22 years, let them know you saw them. Ask them for honesty as to their true orientation.
Request counselling so you have the best and least damaging way to explain the current situation to the children, and so you can get some help at sorting out your own feelings as you move forward.
It is not up to you to tell anyone else. If asked I would not lie, but I would not go out of my way to "spread the news" for revenge. Deal with what is in front of you and help the kids as best you can. Best of luck to you and remember, this too, shall pass.
2007-06-25 16:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would not tell his family or kids! he may be bi adn not ever come out. i know your hurt but i wouldnt make it worse. i would just go on and not say anything.
2007-06-26 15:32:05 · answer #2 · answered by princessfionafantasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋