He said he wasn't but it was quite obvious does this mean he is tired of me and he wants someone new? He gets pissed if a guy looks at me why is that? If i look he don't like it!
2007-06-25 05:32:09 · 30 answers · asked by little lou lou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Guys are like dogs chewing on a bone, Its ok for him to want to chew on another dogs bone, but if one tries to chew on his, its on! Its mostly a biology thing going back to the time of cave men lol.
Guys are going to look, it is natural and mostly harmless. It does not mean he is tired of you. You look sometimes, does that mean you are tired of him? I believe not. After all he is with you.
I personally believe that as a guy, if you are with a woman, you should try very hard not to look at other women.
What I do when an attractive woman is close by, is look at my GF, and ingage her in conversation. If she says something about the woman then I have a look.
Hope this helps a little
2007-06-25 06:13:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He looked at another woman, that proves he has a pulse. What is wrong here is that he did in a way that made you angry.
If he did it on purpose, then he is a jerk.
If he did not mean to offend you, then maybe you need to loosen up a bit.
AND of course, the next time you eye a guy, make sure to remind him about the hottie he was eyeballing. What is good for the goose is good for the gander.
2007-06-25 12:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Raster T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's totally natural to look at attractive people, try not to take it too hard..altho if i were you, I'd be letting him know how much it bothered you! Also, I think it's totally natural for guys to get jealous when they see their wives doing the same kinda looking at an attractive man! Absolutely a double standard...but true nonetheless. Talk to your husband...if he finds it that hard to let a beatiful girl walk past with OUT looking...the least he could do is NOT do it while you're standing right there!
2007-06-25 12:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be afraid if he didn;t look to be honest lol... Everyone looks and it doesn;t mean anything more then we are human. I drool over Johnny Depp but that doesn't mean I am not in love with my husband it just means JD is sweet to look at nor would it mean I would cheat, like that would ever happen LOL.. Now the fact that he gets pissy is that he is insecure about himself for some reason. It isnt you.
2007-06-25 12:47:55 · answer #4 · answered by caligal68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should not be insecure because your husband is looking at another woman. If he acts on it that is another story. Should like he is a little jealous which is a double standard. He should not do that in front of you. but you should not try and confront him on that it will only make things worse.
2007-06-25 12:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by abstract_alao 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are like kids in a candy store. they look. it doesnt mean that he is unattracted to you or anything like that. Thats just how men are programmed. Some men are good about trying not to do it in front of their significant ther.
but i mean us women look to. We notice the cute sexy guy or even the cute chick that walks by.
if he looks, you look, if you look, he looks. its a small thing to get upset over.
our rule, look but dont touch.
THere is always going to be someone else in the world better than you. whether it be sexually, beauty, cooking, intellect, all those thing. Same as with your guys, there is always going to be someone a better than him
but its the things that you love about eachother that makes you stay with one another. You are the "best" to one another.
you need to be confident hun.
2007-06-25 12:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 8 years and one of the things i've learned is men can't help to look at other women I think it's in their blood ha...ha... but if he loves you , and shows you affection I would have no worries but if he's distant from you and constantly flirts then i would say he's an a** ,And guys are Territorial if they think another man is trying to get your attention they will pounce ha...ha...ha but you should have no worries!!!!!!
2007-06-25 12:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by txgrl82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus. Because he looked your pissed, and he the same? If my wife didn't look at another guy, I'd be worried she was a lesbian. To look is one thing. To ogle, and get hard, or wet is another. I always tease my wife for checking out some guys butt. But, I also know it's my butt she has, and her mine.
So long as he looks, but doesn't touch or says something to her. Let it go, and he should do the same to you.
Enjoy life and your marriage, at least he's with you at the end of the day.
2007-06-25 12:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't get so upset. It is inevitable that men will look at other women regardless of their relationship status. They are more visual while women are more emotional. Yes, it hurts but think of it as them admiring something that caught their eye. My Dad told me to think of it this way: He loves cars but his favorite will always be his favorite. In between, he will check out different cars but is never willing to part with his favorite.
You should feel flattered if he gets upset if another man looks at you. It reflects his love and pride in you. I don't think he has any intentions if he is merely looking at another woman. His heart belongs to you.
2007-06-25 13:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all notice beautiful people.
It's a matter of class and respect. A classy guy doesn't ogle and stare when he's with his wife. He notices a beautiful woman, but he doesn't get a look on his face like he just went brain dead, and he never turns around so he can see the other side of her.
Same goes for classy women.
2007-06-25 12:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋