It just so happenned that I answered my phone during intimacy with my wife... It happenned accidentally, you know when you do something without thinking... So whats the big deal?! But she would not let it go and still upset... Its not like I was making an outgoing call... So what is your advice? Apologize or divorce?!
2007-06-25 06:01:33 · 28 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
kind of kinky....if my GF answers I use all the best moves so that she's not even able to hold an actual conversation....it's like a contest.
2007-06-25 06:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chris O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand the impromtu move on your part to answer the phone, but it is rather rude when you are in the moment with your wife. I know that "I" would not be answering the phone at that moment - nothing else but our time together is important. Sometimes couples don't know when they are going to be "intimate" but you have to know and realize how important intimacy is. I am sure your wife felt that the phone was more important than she was. Another thing - depending upon how long it had been for the two of you - Sometimes when couples argue and then make up afterwards - if you answered the phone during a 'make up' time - you just put yourself back in the dog house. Buy her some flowers and have them sent to her job or to your home. You have to let know that you were sorry about the incident - AND that does not mean divorce! Come on now -
2007-06-25 13:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think it was a good idea for you to answer your phone during this time. This is supposed to be a special time and for you and your wife to have alone time. It will upset a woman when something like this happens. Women have strong feelings about this kind of thing and it can make them feel as if they are not really cared about. Next time just let the phone ring until you are through with your alone time!! Apologize to her and tell her how you feel.. Hopefully things will get better! Good Luck!
2007-06-25 13:11:59 · answer #3 · answered by J'Fer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
APOLOGIZE!! i would be VERY upset if my hubby answered the phone during intimacy.. you should of just the phone ring.. they would have left a message or just called back later.. no phone call you could get in this lifetime should be more important than being intimite with the woman u married!! id be pissed and tell you that you gotta make it up to me.. u may want to cut the ringer off on the phones the next time, maybe she will cut you some slack... maybe i don't know
2007-06-25 13:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so stupid! Dont ever answer the phone during sex or sex acts! That is like a slap in the face to your wife. By answering the phone you are telling her by your actions that anyone else is more important than her. That even a telemarkerter is worth more than her. That she doesnt matter to you.
Apologize immediately! And why would you even say the word "divorce" over 1 fight?!
2007-06-25 13:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize- You answered the phone as if you had been doing nothing. You acted as you were only doing the deed to pass time instead of passion, love or true intimacy, which is private time with you partner. You treated someone else ( who you didn't even know) as the priority.
2007-06-25 13:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bud...in the days of answering machines and voice mail why would you even interrupt a lovemaking session over a phone call.
I think you saying you did it 'without thinking' would piss off even the Pope. that means (in her mind) that your mind wasn't where it was supposed to be.
I think divorce is pretty extreme unless the situation has been deteriorating over the years. I'd do more than apologize. i'd lay the groundwork with dinner or a nice lunch. Anything to make amends. In the future...think before you do that again.
2007-06-25 13:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really should apologize. And when you and the missus are having a moment of intimacy, you really should let the answering machine take a message next time.
2007-06-25 13:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ronnie, Ronnie, Ronnie! That was very tacky! Tacky, yes, but divorce? NO!
She is certainly entitled to a BIG apology. Leave the phone at home, and take her out shopping, (I recommend lingerie and shoes, myself) Then out for a romantic dinner. Kiss her and caress her like it was your first date.
Take her home (place the phone off the hook) and give it to her like never before! Make sure she has multiple OMG O's.
Each time thereafter, whenever you take the phone off the hook, wink at her--she'll laugh, and know what's coming next!
2007-06-25 13:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by Julius4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind should've been far from the phone ringing: that just do not happen you should have so far gone outta your mind If it had to ring 50/11 times it would not have mattered!!!!Yes...................... That was totally wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How would you feeled if your wife was total giving you pleasure and you were at the peak of pleasure mountain and she jumped up and said "OH I GOT TO PEA"...........................and it would not be like she would be making an outgoing call either........................I think you would agree an Apology is definitely appropriate.
2007-06-25 13:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Tricey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. It's not the best thing to answer the phone.
2007-06-25 13:10:09 · answer #11 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋