we plan to marry this year.
2007-06-25 18:46:44 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so after you two get married, he can find another girl JUST LIKE YOU to fall in love with, divorce you and then marry her. happily ever after for all.
2007-06-25 19:25:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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you feel that you and your lover are drifting apart
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How painful to know that the person you love is giving all their love time and devotion to someone else.
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else
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2007-06-26 02:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by bylovemagic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey... you're following in the footsteps of the untold millions of women who've done the same stupid thing. And you'll end up letting yourself be strung along just like they all did, because you desperately want to believe he isn't just using you.
1. He doesn't love you.
2. He won't marry you.
3. Even if he does marry you, he'll cheat on you too.
You're not the exception, you're not special, you're just like every other girl who falls for this.
2007-06-26 02:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you looking for reassurance here? Not sure of the question. But if he's going to marry you within 6 months, he better have filed those papers some time ago.
Just a quick question: How does he explain breaking faith with his wife in a way that you are comfortable with?
2007-06-26 01:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lili Montegue 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He loves you and he loves his wife. He really wants you and e really wants his wife. He wont leave either of you, he will just see who leaves first or keep both of you forever. He wont divorce his wife and he wont tell you to leave. Most women I know want just one special man, and a lot of men have the capability to be involved with and love more than one woman. Its not like everyone says, your not just sex, he does love you but you have to know he loves his wife too and this is an impossible situation for him. Society is definately against you, many of the prophets in the bible practised polygamy, take prophet Abraham he had two wives Sarah and Hajar. In judaism polygamy used to be allowed until recent times, in islam it is allowed. Unfortunately for you, you cant both be his wives because of society prejudice, law and maybe your religion. It means that if you choose to stay with him, you will always have him but you will never have that legitimate life for youself or your children where you can say this is my husband to your neighbours, your family, your community. You can try but your life will be full of sacrafice and I dont think his wife will give you any concessions such as half the week with you/half the week with him. It could be managed but unfortunately for you it is unlikley to happen because of societal pressures. Its really painful, you can stay but sacrifice a lot and live a life that if your family becomes aware of might not approve of or you can leave and face a lot of pain, but I promise one day you can love again and when that time eventually comes you will slowly be able to think about him less and not with pain.
2007-06-26 05:35:27 · answer #5 · answered by justvisitin' 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How are you going to get married this year if he isn't even divorced yet? Did you know it's nearly July. Believe me, you will not be married this year. I wouldn't marry someone fresh out of a divorce. If there are children involved it's going to be very messy for a long time. Let him and his ex get things straightened out between them, get to know this guy better. He's getting divorced for a reason, and don't tell me it's all her fault!
2007-06-26 01:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by gma 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Planning to marry but he isn't divorced? You do realize alot of divorces take 6 months or longer right?
If he loved you he wouldn't still be married and he wouldn't have messed around on his wife. He would have respected you and left you alone until he was single again.
You have set yourself up for heartache and pain. Why would you do that to you? Do you not realize that you deserve a REAL man who isn't using you and playing his wife. You should think better of yourself.
2007-06-26 01:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
There's much of that going around. I'm wed however I know scores of girls in love with me. I realize they are my fans ; I love many of them too. I have no intentions of any marriage however. I will enjoy their devotion & benefits on the side. I did not marry to follow it with divorce. There are Vows. So I slip.. Hey, remember, nobody's perfect !
2007-06-26 08:58:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. what's ur question?? does yahoo ppl think he luvs you? we can not answer that....
2. get out ur BIBLE and read about cheating and ppl cheating with the married and sex b4 marriage... it is ALL a sin...
3. if he's cheating on her, then ur probably #5 in line with the other women.
4. he can not marry u w/o a divorce and that will not happen in a zippy.
5. you believe all the bull if u wanna.
6. if i were his wife, i'd be hunting ur sorry butt down!!!
7. u just don't mess with another woman's man.....
2007-06-26 02:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by hunniebuggs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So what's your question?
Anyways...you sound too young to understand marital vows. IF he's cheating on his wife honey..with you...you better be better looking and better than a perfect super model...or you will be next in line to be LEFT in the cold...and belive me..I mean...I know....you will be next!
Have fun while it lasts...if you plan on marrying an already married man (hopefully with children) ya gots a long road ahead...worryfree...trouble free...court free...and of course support free.
2007-06-26 01:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lovely 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋