I was angry so I sms and email his ex wife and told her everything about our relationship...including the emails he sent to me. I ended the relationship with him recently and he is really mad at me of telling his ex wife. I felt guilty too, am I wrong? Your advice please.
2007-06-25 17:47:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think your wrong, sounds like he is playing you and his ex wife at the same time. I dated a man like this once, it would of been so much better if I'd talked to her, we would of realized what he was doing a lot sooner. Would of saved a lot of heartbreak. Don't feel guilt, he brought this on himself. Stay away from him, he'll try and get sympathy from you when she kicks him to the curb.
2007-06-25 17:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 05:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definately hard up for a relationship that will never work the second time around because it didn't work the first time. I would say that the two of them deserve each other and his ex is a glutton for punishment. He will never learn anything in life about how he treats people when his ex is always there to make him feel better. She is one desperate lady that needs counseling and he hurt your feelings. Why is he mad about what you told his ex is he that brain dammaged to not think she already knows? He is living in some kind of LA LA land sweetie. Takecare ...you can do much better.
2007-06-25 18:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you sure showed him! And probably humiliated her! Yeah for you!
That woman knows he is a cheating liar. He's mad at you because he had to swallow the truth again and like most cheating liars he isn't going to take the blame for his behavior. No, it must be your fault, not his. What a sleaze, be glad you showed him the door.
You did something that makes you feel bad because you are not that kind of person. You feel bad because it was a pretty low life sort of thing to do and you have better character than that. Take a shower, wash his stink off of you, apologize to yourself for doing something you don't approve of, and never ever do anything like that again. You are a better person than that.
Do I have to say don't ever have contact with either of them again? No, didn't think so.
2007-06-25 17:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a social moray about not telling but that's cr*p. I think she needs to know that he's cheating on you with her. That way she knows what to expect. He's mad? Who cares? He's a jerk and his ex needs to hear it again. He probably cheated on her, that why he is her ex. If she takes him back and knows that he cheated on you, then she deserves what she gets. However, if they split up and are trying to put their marriage back together, he should have broke it off with you before he tried to get her back. But guys don't seem to do that. A woman will just get busy and tough out a break up but a guy will just get another woman-any woman and I'm sorry if that is you. But if his ex is just a gf, just get rid of him and why are you bothering talking to him? Kick him to the curb. He's playing games with you.
2007-06-25 17:56:51 · answer #5 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, NOW YOU KNOW:: IF A MAN WILL CHEAT WITH YOU, HE WILL ALSO CHEAT ON YOU...too bad it was with the ex-wife. Did you get him from her? If not, he clearly was not finished with her when he met you. If so, read the first line again and STAY AWAY FROM MARRIED MEN.
2007-06-25 18:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should feel guilty, but it is over now. Be glad instead that you dodged a bullet and are no longer with him. Be thankful. Move on and move forward. We all do things that we are not proud of from time to time. This wasn't your best time. Just learn from it and move on.
2007-06-25 17:59:29 · answer #7 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was the right thing, you need to confront them both.
And once a man cheats on you , they will keep on doing it, its wrong to break your heart, but they wont know how it feels, because they don't have a heart .
don't beat your self up over this he is not worth it.
Good luck.
2007-06-25 19:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by margie j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually,he cheated on his wife with you and finally he made a choice and decided to go back
on track and stays with his rightful lady.
2007-06-25 18:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by massimo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were being vengeful when you did those things and yes, they were wrong. Learn from this. It is our nature to want to hurt those who hurt us, be the better person next time and instead of spreading your pain deal with it and leave others out of it.
2007-06-25 17:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by az_mommma 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋