my parents are in there 50's my dad is 59 and my mom is 52 and my dad has been jackin it every few nights on our computers and then he doesnt delete it and when my friends come over we goto on the comp and its right there and them blames it on my brothers or "its for his friends" what should ido my mom is really pissed about it
2007-06-25 17:34:21 · 4 answers · asked by Turkey L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my parents are in there 50's my dad is 59 and my mom is 52 and my dad has been jackin it every few nights on our computers and then he doesnt delete it and when my friends come over we goto on the comp and its right there and them blames it on my brothers or "its for his friends" what should ido my mom is really pissed about it i mean we're all over 13 but you know its just not comferting when he wants me to say goodnight to him
2007-06-26 01:17:56 · update #1
i'm sorry that you feel that there is something you should or could do about this. you should never be placed in this situation. sadly, your father is an idiot. your mother should protect you and your siblings from this behavior even if it means kicking your dad out of the house until the day comes when or if he cleans up his behavior. he is being completely abusive to his children and his wife. this is a form of emotional/sexual abuse. it's disgusting what your father is doing, but it is no reflection on you. i know it's hard to not be embarrassed, but realize that your father is an adult and has chosen his path. you will chose your own path. hopefully, you will see that he is disturbed and you will find a way within yourself to distance your own self esteem from that of your father. best wishes to you. you are a good kid.
2007-06-25 17:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by diamond heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh how sick and rude at that. I think your mom should handle this situation. It's wrong but not uncommon. He needs to stop or at least clean up his mess.
If it were my husband the computer would be flying out the window, maybe on his head!
I think it's so sad that he doesn't care that his children know. What kind of roll model is that?
Counseling is definitely needed here.
I'm sorry but this makes me so mad and sad for you and your mom.
2007-06-26 00:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by gabeymac♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on the ages of the children. If they are minor, then there is a problem. Or if he goes to sites of child pornography, he could be arrested and the children taken away.
2007-06-26 01:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Richard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to anything. Your mom needs to request that he clean up his actions!
2007-06-26 00:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋