I feel if a man or woman cheats and they decide to stay together they should have another ceremony, maybe private> What do you think?
2007-06-25 18:55:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
While most want fidelity in a marriage there is much more to a marriage. I think it is up to the individual couple. For some a renewal of vows may help them let go of the past and give them a fresh start.
2007-06-25 18:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by Epona Willow 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If the spouse cheated on the partner after the first ceremony, what good do you think the second ceremony is going to do? Still, if the partners have grown from the experience and are choosing to stay together in what is hopefully a more loving and supportive relationship, then a private (rather than public) ceremony could be a good idea.
2007-06-26 01:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by Russell F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read an article on cheating about a month or so ago and basically if a man cheats in a relationship and the woman forgives him, he is likely to do it again because he got away with it in the first place. It also has to do with his character and what he feels is worth losing. So-no, I would not take him back and surely not have another ceremony. But that is just me,
2007-06-26 02:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is nothing more then an outward sigh of disharmony in a marriage. Weather people want to admit it or not. IT TAKES TWO people to ruin a marriage.
Husbands and wifes seeking quick sexual gratification instead of facing the challenges that are a natural part of marriage. and what help build the relationship between husband and wife.
People today want "QUICK" answers, instead of learning to work for delayed gratification. and top it off with Feminist saying all men are pigs, and using the gifts god gave them to destroy manhood, instead of being the anchor that their husbands need to meet the challenges in today's society.
While men have forgotten about that Code of Honor, and the fact that He is placed on this earth for a purpose. And as Men face a Society that does not want them. Women can have babies and not include a man, they promote open sexuality, without consiquences, and they forget that they work best when they have someone to love, something worth fighting for, and a purpose greater then them selves.
So to answer your question NO they should not have another ceramony. They should get off there *** and WORK at repairing the damage they have created, and begin acting them the adults they are.
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2007-06-26 02:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sully 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage or any relationship is whatever the people involved in it agree it should be. I knew a couple who both went out with other individuals, don't know if they called it cheating, but they got along fine because they were in agreement as weird as that seems.
If you both agree that a ceremony is what you want then do it. If it is imposed by one member and not supported by the other it will only lead to greater division.
2007-06-26 02:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by stedyedy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If anyone cheats there is no need for another ceremony...they have decided to stay together...thats enough....they have forgiven one another and thats all they need. Cheating doesnt dissolve a marriage...People do......When you let the act of "cheating" become the basis of every argument you have allowed the act itself to take over..Instead of letting it go talking about it and then agreeing to never bring it up again.
2007-06-26 02:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by hotchotlver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to the couple. Cheating wouldn't be such a good thing to tell the whole world to gather for a ceremony. I personally think that if a spouse cheated that they should keep it between the couple and not let otherp eople know as much as possible
2007-06-26 01:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Stephie is here to help 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Willow has a good idea behind her thought.
While counseling is first and foremost and a couple is able to forgive and move past the infidelity, a renewal ceremony would be a way for a fresh start---a new beginning.
2007-06-26 02:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The marriage should end because of lack of trust(lack of acting trustworthy). Once you forgive and say it's okay about the past, this becomes acceptable behavior to the cheater.
Anyone who states otherwise, has probably cheated.
2007-06-26 03:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by Nep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You MUST be young to have even asked such a question.
Cheating DOES NOT dissolve a marriage. It takes a Judge to do that. My wife cheated on me about 10 yrs ago, I forgave her... but it did take time for me to get over the hurt.
2007-06-26 04:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋