Here is my theory; women who don't happily give oral, probably also prefer not to be on top. Put those two together and you are obviuosly just lazy, which is why so many men are unhappy with their sex lives (and why some women have trouble getting a man to marry them).
2007-06-27 00:25:48 · 15 answers · asked by SvetlanaFunGirl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think people don't even read questions before they answer. My point was that not doing one thing, plus not doing the other thing, demonstrates a pattern. I didn't say all women are like this; I was asking to see if that pattern is common, if not doing one thing means you proably don't do the other, either.
2007-06-27 01:26:04 · update #1
... and if you DO one, then you probably do the other...
2007-06-27 01:27:16 · update #2
My fiance and I just had the opposite of this a few nights ago. He gets oral every time we have sex and I'm on top about 75% of the time. I do love giving him oral sex and I enjoy being on top but I feel like I'm doing all the work!!! I enjoy receiving oral just as much as he does and I love being on bottom. Something about his masculine weight on top of me really turns me on!!! Any way, he said he'd work on it!!! lol
2007-06-27 03:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are you taking pyschology courses? Obviously not! If you're not comfortable with doing certain acts, you don't have to do them! If your man loves you, he will not force you to do something you don't want to do. If he cheats on you because he says you don't do certain things, then he should've never married you. He should love you for who you are. If not, then he's not the right one for you. Too many people, and this includes women, know absolutely nothing about true love. True love is not about doing acrobats in bed! You should both feel comfortable with each other enough to try new things. But using that as an excuse to cheat or to leave is a cop out. Most likely, there are underlying problems.
2007-06-27 00:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have got to be kidding! Is that why you think men have trouble getting married? Because she doesn't want to give oral or get on top?
You better grow up and stay the hell away from even the thought of marriage. If you get married for reasons as stupid as that, your getting a divorce.
2007-06-27 00:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nice that you have it worked out for everyone else. While woman can be stupid about their sex lives, in most cases its because they have the wrong partner. A good partnership would grow in sexual maturity and that takes both people. Alot of men complain about their wives when they are cheating and girls who cheat with married men usually have such low self esteem that a lying cheating loser looks like a catch to them.
2007-06-27 00:40:57 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 01:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by teters 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great theory. I doubt many will admit to it, but I bet there are alot of girls who expect their men to do all the "work." They proably also think their men are prefectly happy with it, too.
2007-06-27 00:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I agree because my husband says that when I want to, I could be real good in bed, and sometimes he feels like he is doing a corps LOL... I have three kids and when I'm tired I don't feel like preforming worth a damn..so I think is true what you saying so every now and then I make it my business to let him know that sometimes I can make his eyes roll to the back of his head..LOL..
2007-06-27 00:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Wrong theory! I can happily do all the things you have mentioned and possibly more. Men are just never satisfied.
2007-06-27 00:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
lol
what a theory!! ha ha ha
um.. no i'm not lazy, we do whatever we like and have a lot of variety and we're equally happy with our sex life
xx
2007-06-27 00:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by chilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your on to some thing here. I don't think your gonna get many women to agree to it though.
2007-06-27 00:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Big Red 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋