There has been talk about making it physical. I think he more than she, but she certainly hasn't stopped it. He is trying to find a way to get away for a night with her. Is this considered cheating?
2007-06-27 21:03:30 · 10 answers · asked by Millie C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes and don't blame it all on him if she wanted it stopped it would be. You need to talk to your wife and tell her you don't like this see where her head is at because she's already cheating emotionally now there both going for the deal breaker.
2007-06-27 21:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by sky g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's not cheating but just as bad because she is planning on it or at least toying with the idea. What is she thinking? YOu need to have a talk with her, actually that would be the calm and collected way to handle this. Why don't you call that guy??? I would. He has no respect for you or your marriage and neither does your wife! Some serious changes on her part are gonna have to be made if you want to continue your marriage with her.
2007-06-28 04:12:39 · answer #2 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. It is definitely cheating. This is the same way I lost my husband. The texts, e-mails and cell phone calls even though they saw one another every day at work was bad enough, but then they took the plunge and started a sexual relationship.
2007-06-28 04:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are 2 kinds of cheating---physical+emotional
what your wife is doing=emotional...does she text this guy behind your back? does she call him? tell him secrets that she doesn't tell you? buy him gifts? etc..then yes she's cheating on you...
but may be to her this is not cheating...so may be you should just talk to her about it.. not HER cheating.. tell her "hey do you consider this and that cheating?".. bring up some of the examples i gave you.. if she asks why don't tell her she's cheating.. don't go off subject...just ask her :)) i'm sure she'll answer.
2007-06-28 04:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by pokerface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are making plans to get away for a night..and you don't know if that's cheating? Ummm.. bone up and put a stop to it.. Or, tell your slutty wife to leave.
2007-06-28 04:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by Christine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you know. But be prepared to hear stuff you may not like. Also be aware that she won't stop even if she says she will.
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2007-06-28 04:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Ratsoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you consider it cheating? IT doesn't matter what we think, we don't have to live with her or divorce her.
2007-06-28 04:06:38 · answer #7 · answered by JNS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-06-28 04:05:26 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh i would say so and before anything happens and you need to confront her and see what has brought her to this point, and go from there....
2007-06-28 05:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't trying to stop it either they have, or they will eventually.
2007-06-28 04:08:05 · answer #10 · answered by sams2rule 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋