Some men think that they're women should be conservative after marriage but before marriage they wanted to see a little skin...what's up with that? What is your take on it?
2007-06-26 04:15:07 · 14 answers · asked by All the way live! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It happens both ways, for men and women. They like the hot and sexy dressing when they are single and dating, but when they get married, many times they want the other to tone it down some. Why? Well, they are now in a committed relationship called marriage and people tend to think that the body of their spouse is no longer for public display. Many people do not have a problem with this, but many do. You will see it in guys more than women, because guys know that seeing skin on a woman causes guys to lust and get hit on. Women take it is a complement to get hit on and guys see it as a threat to their marriage when someone hits on their wife. It is a protection of their marriage that usually causes this kind of reaction and change in behavior.
2007-06-26 04:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No it's fine. But it's probably best if you don't ask outright. She could be pissed or flattered...but I wouldn't risk it. Instead give her lots of compliments on her body and that might build her confidence enough to wear more revealing cloths. You could even point out things you think would look good on her if you shop together. Just point out stuff that's classy sexy (like slightly snug pants, a v-neck top, or a short but appropriate skirt) not hooker cloths. She won't wear those and I hope you don't want her to.
2016-05-21 00:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a husband I am a wife to a husband who prefers I dress sexy with him alone and in public. He always asks me why women who are married cut their hair and dress like old ladies. He said they have their guy I guess they just give up. I am glad he is like that because I love being a sexy mama in my 40's it makes me feel good and it makes him feel good. He always says eat your hearts out shes mine. It makes for a great relationship.
2007-06-26 04:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When our wives dress sexy, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. After all, they feel good about themselves in doing so. There's nothing wrong with a little pride and self esteem. Plus, the compliments we give in noticing their appearance also lets them know we really appreciate them and the efforts they make to look good for us. It's certainly tells them that we love them and find them attactive. Our wives should feel loved, wanted and needed every day. Even if we're having a bad day.
2007-06-26 04:30:01 · answer #4 · answered by clabou81 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think women should be able to dress sexy no matter what. Obviously it needs to be classy and not slutty. I wish my wife felt more confident to dress sexier. Its a turn on for the husband too.
2007-06-26 04:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I wish my wife would dress more sexy. But if she were to dress sexy and flaunt herself to or for other guys yes I have a problem with that. Dress sexy but make sure all appearances show your husband is the man it is for and the one you love.
2007-06-26 04:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by Some Dude 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be so hot to have a girl that likes to dress up sexy. Definitely would keep the spice in your marriage. ;-)
2007-06-26 04:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by spirit_gothica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely like it when my wife dresses sexy. I wish she would more often....or ever for that matter. My wife has no self-esteem and therefore wil not wear anything that even resembles being sexy.
2007-06-26 04:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by s1lvermidnight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lame and dumbest behavior ever displayed by men. It's sense less to think tis way. It's like the thought that when a punk graduates from colleges, he must leave his music and clothings to get into a tux
2007-06-26 04:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by pro_gustavo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is something wrong if she doesn't dress the way she prefers to dress.
2007-06-26 04:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by UnderwaterTomato 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋