Marriage & Divorce - 26 June 2007

My soon to be ex phoned me last night to inform me that he wants to serve me with divorce papers. Is this it or will I need to sign anything else to make this marrage end? I am in Alberta Canada if it matters any.

2007-06-26 10:51:51 · 7 answers · asked by blackcatmingus 3

2007-06-26 10:35:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Three or four months after we were married, I told my husband that I hated him. It was during a heated argument and I know that my actions are not justifiable in any way, shape, form or fashion. The reason I said it? I was very frustrated because he used to give me the silent treatment when we got into an argument. I would have to literally beg him to speak. He would run into another room or leave the house, and no matter how hard I tried he would not budge. One evening he was watching a football game and I was trying to talk to him about an issue in our marriage. He kept putting me off and said I would have to wait until after the game to discuss anything. I got really upset. He ended up flipping off the TV and going into the other room. I followed him and because he was getting ready to leave out the house I said, "I hate you, I hate you, I hate you" over and over and hit him in his chest several times. To date, he insists that this caused his feelings for me to change.

2007-06-26 10:31:57 · 44 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

My long distance boyfriend moved here to be with my in March. For the first month, our sex life was great, however since April, it has just gotten worse and worse. From every day, to once a week. Recently I discovered that I have genital warts. I have never had them before.. My doctor has said it is a very common std, lots of people have it and never actually get the warts. Men cannot even be tested for it. I left the doctor's office accepting the idea that either of us could've given it to the other unknowingly. Then I come home and he blames me right off the bat and uses it as a reason to completely end our sex life, despite the fact my doctor said we could still have sex.. I am so depressed over all of this and I do not know what I should do. I do not want to be in a sexless relationship but I care about him :( Do you think he will get over this? Is there something I can do to help him get over this? I am lost :(

2007-06-26 10:13:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

should i shower? just say yes or no?

2007-06-26 09:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

since my husbands got the new laptop for christmass he spent he's most time on the internet. I know i shouldn't be suspecious of that but its the fact that everytime the kids or I come near him when he's on the computer he'll close it. He never let us use the laptop he so possessive of it that i'm begining to think he's cheating. also i wrestle some word out of his best frieds mouth and he told that he's doing porn on the internet.
I can't brake into the computer without a password and very keen about privacy. I don't want to go to a P.I. Isn.t there a way i can brake the password without having him being suspecious of anything. He has and HP model and he's the administrator. May be there is a password I can type to brake and investigate.
He also won't talk to me about anything.

2007-06-26 09:49:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Been seeing a guy since April. He invited me to his friends wedding in July. I was so happy he asked me because I was wondering where the relationship was heading. We've been going out almost 3 months and haven't talked about being exclusive. Now, I'm getting nervous about it all. I don't know wth is wrong w/me. First I want this, now I'm scared.... am I worrying for nothing? Going to a wedding w/him doesn't mean I'm his girlfriend right? ugggggggghhhh

2007-06-26 09:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you find that person who is just as naughty and conniving as you are?

2007-06-26 09:44:25 · 28 answers · asked by Spanglish 2

lets say a married couple around 23 who has 2 small children under 2.....he likes to watch porn all day in a locked room now since i had back to back pregnancies things well dont look the same with my body is that why he wants to now watch porn because he doenst think im beautiful anymore orhe wants someone else .....the first time i walked in on him playing with it to these beautiful ladies its like burned in my head that thats what he wants im ashamed of my body now and i close my eyes when touches me and see her is there something wrong with me or am i abnormnal and crazy

2007-06-26 09:41:03 · 18 answers · asked by shawty_from_fl 2

That is the amount some make. Just dancing not side line activities. WOW. That is alot of money. $240,000 a year. I bought my wife an workout video to get here ready after seeing that on TV. Just kidding , I think???

2007-06-26 09:37:33 · 18 answers · asked by Brian 5

Okay this is a really silly question. I just watched Sweet Home Alabama and I was just wondering. Do both parties need to consent for a divorce to happen? Like in the real world, could a girl really not divorce a guy simply because he would not sign the papers?

2007-06-26 09:34:56 · 13 answers · asked by ashley b 2

It would still hurt but it would be more civilized and not so low class. I am very curious as to why you cheated firt rather than just simply divorce.

2007-06-26 09:33:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He so cute when he begs for it lol

2007-06-26 09:32:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a former smoker myself (9 years) who quit COLD TURKEY upon finding out I was pregnant 4 1/2 years ago. My husband has tried umpteen times to quit. He is currently chewing the gum but sneaking cigs at the same time. I know it's not healthy to nag him- so you don't have to advise me not to. Just help me think of some ways I can show him how much I believe in him.

2007-06-26 09:21:24 · 9 answers · asked by ecstaticdevine 4

Do you like being a woman?

2007-06-26 09:07:23 · 14 answers · asked by Indiana Jones 6

I'm wondering if married women "check out" other men. Like are attracted to them and/or feel like they want to flirt.

OR

Do you just have no interest in anybody but your husband.

2007-06-26 09:00:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 08:59:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going through a divorce and I was wondering if I can take legal action against my future wife for marriage entrapment. She married me on the notion that she would be invested in the marriage and that it wasn't just about having a wedding. Shortly after returning from our honeymoon she completely cut me off from every part of her life and that lasted for eight months until we refinanced our house and got some equity. For about 4 months she seemed invested, until the money ran out. I found out she had been seeing someone so I filed for divorce. And she has the nerve to tell me, she didn't want to get divorced, that it was my idea (she's manupulititave). Anyway, can I sue her for alimony or something based on the fact that she wanted to lock me into a marriage while she did whatever she wanted to do. She knows I've been divorced once and didn't want to go through another one. And no...I don't know why I married her. Love is blind I suppose.

2007-06-26 08:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1

I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We live togther, have a good relationship with ups and downs. I have always thought of getting married with him, but has anyone here ever felt as though all of a sudden you eyes were open and your lookin down on the situation....you are really thinking twice about it? And if that's what you REALLY want?? It's almost as if I'm heading in another direction personally. Not with someone else by any means...just you feel like your eyes are open now??

2007-06-26 08:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by lizbabe01 2

we have been together for almost 2 years, married only 5 months. At first he was this great loving guy, but now he is verbal and physically abusive. I have told him but he became irate so I am keeping it low. He refuse any help, but really I am tired of TV's being thrown at me & I am tired of hiding my bruises that he leaves me. I kinda feel like I have to line everything up and ESCAPE! I am secretly appling for an apartment, looking for a better job, slowly buying things and storing them either at work or at a friends house and I will have to tell my father and I hope that he puts me on his cell phone account.
Has anyone done this or helped someone get out of a very bad relationship? Is there anything else that I should do? Something that I am forgetting? I am scared and excited at the same time! Any help would be great!
I really have been patient and I am out of options, this is what is best for me and my kids - so please don't tell me tell me to stay

2007-06-26 08:34:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married on March 6, 2007. On May 14 we found out I was pregnant, on May 18 I miscarried. 2 week s later we found out that I have a rare blood disorder that cused the miscarriage and now have to take Lovenox injections daily. Since the miscarriage all we do is fight, about everything. We can not seem to find any common ground. I love my husband, but I do not know what to do anymore. Should I throw in the towel and call it quits?

2007-06-26 08:33:19 · 26 answers · asked by sasheppard 1

Hello everyone. I've been dating this guy and we have talked about marriage, what the name of our first two child will be (which we plan on having children two years from now), where were going to move to, what type of house we want, we talk about everything together. But I'm leaving to go to Iraq in a month (which I just found this out a week ago). I'm going for a year as a contractor. He's in the military he going to Iraq in January.

I'm scared that he will cheat on me and i dont think I want to be in a relationship while I'm over there. He always assures me that he wouldnt cheat on me.

The time that I've known him he's always been honest except for once. I told him I didnt want he talking to this female anymore cause I knew she liked him and he continued to talk to her behind my back and I found out one day when my phone was dead and I used his phone. It turned into a big agruement and I almost decide to leave him but didnt.
Just wants someones opinion on us staying together

2007-06-26 08:32:25 · 24 answers · asked by fiestylady 3

She has no libido, there is no passion, romance, intimacy or sex in our marriage, I have laid it all out on the line with her, either she gets help or I am asking for a separation. Is it fair to anyone not to be in love or want to be loved or want to have some kind of intimate relationship especially with the one you are married to? I need more. Any advice?

2007-06-26 08:25:54 · 59 answers · asked by k.ronic 1

My husband and I have a son, he is about 9 months old now. I was thinking about maybe having another baby in about 3 years. The problem is tha my husband doesn't want any more children. He says that they are too big of a hassle (don't get me wrong now he loves this little boy to death) but he says that he is glad that we got through all of the late nights and early morning cries, and he doesn't want to go through it again. What should I do? Will my son be okay "by him self"?

2007-06-26 08:15:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

to get my husband to realize i do more than change diapers why do guys think that the only thing stay at home moms due is sit on there asses

2007-06-26 08:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by hotmomma2 3

my parents don't "approve" him. They think that he isn't husband material and all that. It's not like I am young or anything I have my whole life planned out and I am 27 (28 next month) years old. I am planning to be a doctor. I told them if I wait any longer I would be told old to get married. I think its a decent age and everything. My parents don't like him because he is 29 and they there is a huge difference. I personally think its not a big difference. I want to keep connections with my parents because they're important to me. What should I do to make them like him or "approve" him?

2007-06-26 07:34:28 · 24 answers · asked by Kristyn 2

2007-06-26 07:28:32 · 16 answers · asked by prema p 1

i was informed that siblings have been speaking to officials on my behalf do i need to get an attorney he was in the military years ago (desert storm) he got dishonorable discharge because of mental issues how do i find out if he had assests the family is not getting along with me

2007-06-26 07:24:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a younger cousin who is 20 and her bf now fiancee is 19 yrs old.They plan to wed this September she plans to get pregnant soon after to become a stay at home mom and let his rock or heavy metal band pay the bills to support them.My family is less than thrilled about the marriage and arrangement.I gave her the same advice our grandmother gave my older sister.Which is to have money in your own name because you never know what could happen to take a little bit of money each week to put into savings account .My cousin flipped and said i was making it sound like her marriage would not work?

2007-06-26 07:22:45 · 20 answers · asked by Andromeda M 1

Do you think it should be aloud ? I mean whats wrong with it anyways!?

2007-06-26 07:12:33 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous