I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We live togther, have a good relationship with ups and downs. I have always thought of getting married with him, but has anyone here ever felt as though all of a sudden you eyes were open and your lookin down on the situation....you are really thinking twice about it? And if that's what you REALLY want?? It's almost as if I'm heading in another direction personally. Not with someone else by any means...just you feel like your eyes are open now??
2007-06-26 08:41:13 · 9 answers · asked by lizbabe01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was engaged twice before I found my husband and with both the first two I questioned it with my husband I never once questioned if he was the one.......... I knew he was the one.
What I am saying is marriage is one of the biggest decisions you'll ever make and you need to be 100% sure that the person you are marrying is the one you want for life with no hint of doubt.
2007-06-26 09:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.G's wife 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that sometimes happens when you live with someone before you marry them and it's not always the best choice to make. i lived with with my husband before i married him but we both knew how we felt for each other and that our love would withstand anything we had to endure. it really is best to know what you want in your relationship and take note of things like you did when you choose to live together before marriage. good girl! hope things work out.
2007-06-26 08:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my paetner for 20 years , we are not married and never will be . i am relly happy how we are , i did check out the legal side of things and as long as you are living together as man and wife for 3 years its the same as if you are married but i relly do not think that marriage is important these day s
2007-06-26 08:56:59 · answer #3 · answered by sprookey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
2good2btrue, Sweetie yes I did and I wish I would have listened ! My mom and others tried to tell me but I was young and headstrong so now here I sit paying the price ! I hope you are smarter then I was !
2007-06-26 08:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have ,and thats when you have to ask yourself why u feel this way???and if you truelly feel you can't marry him you have to tell him.Its only fair and no need to carry something on when your heart isn't there..also good thing you have these thoughts now before the marriage and possible kids in the picture.. good luck
2007-06-26 08:49:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've met a lot of people that's been in your shoes. It's nothing uncommon. It is God's way of nudging you and giving you a message. Trust your instincts.
2007-06-26 08:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by Shrimpboat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good to realize that before you make the vows.
2007-06-26 08:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyday but then you look for a reason to want to marry him. you sound like a quitter
2007-06-26 08:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
better that you realized this before you say your I DOs
2007-06-26 08:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋