Marriage & Divorce - 26 June 2007

2007-06-26 16:55:36 · 19 answers · asked by MOTO 2

I just want to add a little spice for her to think about until I get back. It is a short trip - few days.

2007-06-26 16:42:45 · 15 answers · asked by Ryan_Hood 3

2007-06-26 16:41:21 · 26 answers · asked by pk80203 2

Which should this responsibilitie fall on?

2007-06-26 16:40:34 · 26 answers · asked by newtonman 2

why should I care if I sleep with your hubby? If you were a good wife he wouldn't want me

2007-06-26 16:29:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

but you know my wife and I know your boyfriend?
Or our significant others know each other.
Or if I just wanna get close to other women so as to have a back up.
sorry for the brutal truth.

2007-06-26 15:47:09 · 26 answers · asked by 1978 2

2007-06-26 15:37:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 15:04:21 · 13 answers · asked by cutiewitabuttie 1

2007-06-26 14:18:59 · 9 answers · asked by Susan T 1

Say he's really attracted to a woman and is in a position where he's spending more time with her. His marriage has been going through some ups and downs, and he's dissatisfied with important components of it - sex, emotional support. I've always figured that I'd be married by my early 20's, but now I'm kind of glad I'm not because of so many marriages I've seen fall apart from cheating (from the men, though I know women cheat too). I found out one of my old friend's parents divorced after 20-some years of marriage. They always seemed like the perfect couple to me, happy and suited for one another. The marriage broke up after an affair. I often hear people say that most men cheat - it's in their blood to not be monogomous. I'm not sure if I believe this, but as a young woman, I've had several married men come onto me. I've also worked w/someone that was the other woman, and she was intelligent, kind, just an average woman - you'd never suspect. Is this something everyone's doing?

2007-06-26 14:03:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

A friend just confided that her boyfriend of 30 months just slept with her this weekend for the first time in many weeks. She's cute, petite and seems nice. Also, she supports this guy - literally. Of the time they've been together she says the last 19 months he has avoided or refused to sleep with her. She's talked with him many times, but he claims morally he's not comfortable, but he continues to live with her. She asked me why and I don't have a clue...unless he's gay or seeing someone else. Any ideas??? She's really hurting.

2007-06-26 13:52:51 · 17 answers · asked by ms g 1

them?

2007-06-26 13:49:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

how great a span in the difference can be successful

2007-06-26 13:03:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 12:54:55 · 24 answers · asked by Seph2 5

how important is marriage when u r in love because i really want to marry my love but am still a little scared because it is a very large commitment.....

2007-06-26 12:45:12 · 18 answers · asked by Kimmy 3

Help

2007-06-26 12:37:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

generally give their husbands sexual pleasure on a regular basis? Is it too much to ask for a little kinkiness? How about greeting us at the door in lingerie, or even naked? And I know you don't like to "fill the blank", but how about once in awhile without complaining or reminding us that you don't like it?

2007-06-26 12:22:00 · 14 answers · asked by David S 1

I just got done reading a question posted by a guy about a lazy wife. Most of the female responses were, "Remember the marriage vows 'for better or worse', or maybe she's depressed, or she should see a doc, etc...."

Now how come some of these same folks would (and have in some cases) answered that a lazy husband needs, "to be told clean himslef up, or your gonna leave him. You have to train the man. If he's messy, 'I give him an area of one room he can be messy in, he has to keep the rest of the house clean.'"

Why is it that when the man casues a problem in the spousal relationship, most women (and some men) insist that he must correct it, that his feelings are insignificant, and his needs (sexual and otherwise) are baseless.
Yet when its a woman causing a "problem" or "issue", she MUST have her feelings taken into account, then she might be depressed, her thyroid might be out of whack, etc... ???

Why man = ultimatum but women = you must try to understand Double Standard?

2007-06-26 12:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by aa889d 5

If your wife worked a full time job, cleaned the house, did the laundry, took care of the finances, cleaned the yard and did the gardening, cooked you nice meals every night... what would you think of her? And part two of the question.. What is your wifes role in the marriage (what does she take care of and what do you take care of)?

2007-06-26 12:08:52 · 12 answers · asked by luv2help 5

Why do MOST married men cheat? Even if it is just every once in a couple.few months? Like say a man is married..but he has this woman on the side that he calls every few months to come and hang out with him...but he doesnt want to sleep with her..he just wants to talk and pleasure her orally..but hedoesnt ask for anything in return...what the hell is that? and what does that mean?

2007-06-26 12:00:40 · 25 answers · asked by Shannon 1

free spirit....my husband isnt.AT ALL...how do i change to be more of what he needs.can i change?what are some ways he can cope w/ me like this?

2007-06-26 11:48:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 11:47:35 · 15 answers · asked by makavelli405 1

As I blocked his exit
[His easy ecape, from his guilty concience]
He wrapped my hair round his fist
Holding my head back to appearence
Then using my delicacy to advantage
Bruising my face with his furious punch
Pulling out my hair as he throws another
Finally throwing me semi-concious to the floor
I crawl to the door to stop him
He pulls at my limbs and throws me down
He bangs my head against the door
Over and over
Slapping my face
Punching my body
My head
{& My mind]
He leaves me battered and bruised
As he walks away out the door
When i have finnaly given up strength
I shout, I beg for some ice
To cover over the pain he's inflicted
He passes me the ice
Aplogises then leaves.

This was the guy who loved me
The guy who wanted only me
But then fell out of love
And hated me

2007-06-26 11:44:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-26 11:16:38 · 20 answers · asked by Alisha 3

2007-06-26 11:13:47 · 5 answers · asked by richelle pattison 1

your wife will never stop spreading the big Herpes

2007-06-26 11:09:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

OK so I think my husband has something going on on the side. He likes to say out all night. But I need proof, what do you all think about putting a gps tracker in his truck before he goes out to track where he is. I would follow him but I have two small children at home can't just leave. so.......

2007-06-26 11:08:06 · 24 answers · asked by momoftwo0110 1

Explain why it is or isn't.

2007-06-26 11:07:04 · 27 answers · asked by Spanglish 2

I've been with my boyfriend for four + years now. We have been looking for an apartment to move in together first... He wants to wait another 2 or 3 years before we even get engaged.... which would mean about 4 years the earliest before the actual wedding... & I'm ready 2 settle down now. Esp. after 4 years..

It feels like we are on different pages. I love him very much, but it hurts when he takes his frustration out on me (mentally/emotionally)... He also neglects my needs and puts his needs first...

I grew up in a house with abuse, and I'm not sure (as dumb as this sounds) what a healthy relationship is supposed to be like. I am ready for marriage. And while I'm not happy in this relationship... I would love to marry him. Why i dont know sometimes.

But based on the above over view... Would i be "right" for ending things with him? Or is it wrong 4 me to desire some of his time, wrong 4 me 2 be upset about the delay in marrage? Thanks

2007-06-26 10:55:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have a 6 year old daughter. Although I don't want to split up, he does. We still care about each other and love our daughter sooo much. We we're just very young when we got together and I guess we want different things. We have agreed to work together and always put her first and remain friends. I would just like advice on how to handle this in the best way possible. Also if anyone who has experienced this from a child's perspective and had an experience that is as good as can be under the circumstances, what did your parents do that really helped? Thanks for any advice.

2007-06-26 10:54:37 · 7 answers · asked by nicmoon 2