generally give their husbands sexual pleasure on a regular basis? Is it too much to ask for a little kinkiness? How about greeting us at the door in lingerie, or even naked? And I know you don't like to "fill the blank", but how about once in awhile without complaining or reminding us that you don't like it?
2007-06-26 12:22:00 · 14 answers · asked by David S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not referring to not having sex. I'm referring to things beyond the missionary and cowgirl style. I'm saying make it less mechanical, and throw fun. Ask for oral, provide oral, and offer other things too. I'm talking about some good Porno sex.
2007-06-26 12:33:50 · update #1
i would love too but it is him that is a "sex crasher" and i would love it if my man asked for some kinkiness lol
2007-06-26 12:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I great my husband at the door, normally naked all the time. I would say 3-4 times a week. He works late and by the time he gets home I already have the kids in bed, so I take this time to enjoy is company. Weekends are a different story, we both have them off but we spend time with the kids, so we are restricted to either late, late at night or first thing in the morning before they get up. But yes I find that having an active sex life is important, where some women/men don't feel that way. Or maybe I just have an over active sex drive who knows, I just know my husband loves it, and most of the time can't wait to get home to be with me.
2007-06-26 12:28:34 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are other people's sex lives really as dull as it sounds here?
My husband and I have a wonderful sex life. There is nothing ordinary or boring about it. I don't understand why ours is so different then what other married couples post on here.
We are very open with each other and communicate quite well, perhaps this helps.
I do not meet my husband at the door as you suggested because we have kids, but he knows after they go to bed there is a pretty good chance of getting lucky.
My husband receives sexual pleasure at least 4-5 times a week and that's minimum. Of course there are times when one of us is tired or not feeling well,but we do not seem to go through the dry spells I have heard of.
2007-06-26 13:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on the relationship. Personally my husband and I have a very hard time keeping our hands off of each other. We get pleasure out of making the other feel amazing. I cannot imagine not being highly sexual with the man I adore. A couple should be very open with each other. If my husband ever felt neglected sexually or emotionally, I would hope he would come to me. If you are married, I would talk with your wife about this. Communication in a marriage is vital especially with regards to feelings...sexual or otherwise.
2007-06-26 12:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God, I hope so!! My fiance' and I have been together about a year and a half, and we're not getting married till Aug '08. I hope I never get tired of the "kinkiness", or stop with the several-times-weekly "fill the blank" that we perform on each other!! I hope we continue to slam each other against the walls, and wake in the morning to find our clothes in the hallway.
I also hope that he continues to be as sexy with me as I am with him. Sexiness begets sexiness. The more he lets me know I am a goddess, the more I want to please him. And I mean "please him" in a way that does not allow me an opportunity to open my mouth just for talking.
2007-06-27 05:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by hrh.sassypants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always greet my husband with a suprise at the door,or later that night i suprise him with something. i love to see him get turned on by me.I dont complain about pleasing my husband i enjoy just as much as him, i need sex at least once a day or i feel neglected!! nothing feels better than buying sexy lingerie, spiked heels and thigh highs.maybe you should talk to your wife and tell her how you feel she may need a little push
2007-06-26 12:33:47 · answer #6 · answered by MarineWife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the fill in the blank is kinda questionable.
I can not relate to this because after 10 years of marriage we have a rocking sex life.
I don't know what you do that would a woman say that. So if it includes ropes or blind folds well she has a point.
2007-06-26 12:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Me and my husband agree that sex needs some spicing up every once in a while we treat each other with something different... surprise him in the shower sometimes... Its good because you keep the excitement alive...
2007-06-26 15:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Cess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the person, what their into....whether their male or female...If their not into that sort of thing, your not going to get it...But maybe if you do something she likes, she'll do it for you...but forget about surprises....Bieng a man, at least you have that to your advantage....cause a little aggression and perssuation...will get you what you want...It's harder the other way around......
2007-06-26 12:35:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, hmmm, have you asked her to do these things? some women wont do it if they know you are looking for it, may be due to shyness or self esteem, etc. but you also have to give hera reason to want to. do you ever surprise her with anything along the same lines? my husband buys me tons of lingerie, and other things, and yes i wear them. but sometimes iwish he'd do something like that for me.
2007-06-26 21:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. My sexual drive is bigger then my husbands so little things like that have been tried many times
2007-06-26 12:40:22 · answer #11 · answered by Melissa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋