but you know my wife and I know your boyfriend?
Or our significant others know each other.
Or if I just wanna get close to other women so as to have a back up.
sorry for the brutal truth.
2007-06-26 15:47:09 · 26 answers · asked by 1978 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce not being an option ladies come on now!
2007-06-26 15:50:07 · update #1
Taking applicants and as for size I got it so dont hate.
2007-06-26 15:54:17 · update #2
I was just curious thanks ladies for not helping, I mean come on tell me some great seductions!
2007-06-26 15:56:23 · update #3
Um...just go down town and offer $40 bucks to the lady with the fishnet stockings. Sicko.
2007-06-26 15:51:33 · answer #1 · answered by Moo Moo Mair 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Touching and harmless flirting. That is what works for me. You can pick up the signs pretty easy when you give a little shoulder massage, or tell them jokingly they have a nice *** r something funny. Then see if they are playful back. If so then you can take a bit further.
If not, then move on.
Just make sure you dont appear to be avoiding the significant other. that would make me suspicious. If a guy were hanging out with my wife and never talking to me I would think he was trying to get her in the sack.
2007-06-26 23:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that the moment you open your mouth.. it's all over. Why don't you try being brutally honest and telling your significant other..that you aren't happy.. instead of cheating on her?
And to answer your question, if you need advice on how to seduce a woman.. you have no business even tryin to go out and get you some. Lack of experience in a grown man is SO unattractive to a WOMAN. Feel me?
2007-06-26 23:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Christine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is absolutely the WRONG forum to discuss this type of thing.
You're saying the ladies are "not helping"? That's because they don't want to get involved with a married guy who obviously has NO respect for his wife or his marriage! It doesn't matter if everyone knows each other or not, it's still cheating.
You need to grow up.
2007-06-26 23:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a woman who doesn't like your wife or her boyfriend very much and would think it was funny to sneak around, oh and you better be good in the sack otherwise it's not going to work. That type of woman would definitely only be in it for the humor and the sex. Of course, when she gets bored of you, she'll either blackmail you or start dropping hints about what you two are doing around your wife to watch you squirm.
2007-06-26 22:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So apparently it is ok to be selfish, allowing yourself to have something on the side while your wife is expected to be faithful only to you, thereby you expect a double standard, which means, of course, that you disrespect and don't value your wife at all.
In which case she is better off without you so go ahead and cheat away. She will find out, leave you, and finally have a chance at a real life herself. What is amazing is that you will be totally shocked and have absolutely no idea why she left you!
2007-06-26 22:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
way to be honest. I know a lot of women like married men because then they don't have to worry about all the hassles. Probably a lot of the women answering on here would do a married guy if the opportunity and time was right and they knew they could get away with it.
2007-06-26 23:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What a shame, no honor and respect for marriage. You both need counseling. Why even be married? You an have your 3-somes without messing up such a sacred act.
2007-06-26 22:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the attraction is mutual, I'm sure you both know it.
Not quite clear on why you think divorce is not an option ... your wife (poor thing) may think otherwise.
Why exactly did you get married?
Let me guess ... you were lonely, all your friends were doing it, the girl you initially wanted got away, you didn't want to be alone forever ... all crappy reasons.
2007-06-26 23:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon M 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People just don't fall out of love. You got to work on it. Love is an everyday decision. Decide today to love your wife and to Cherish her. If you need to read some books about how to get a better marriage do so and go to marriage counseling, she is worth it.
2007-06-26 22:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by Margie B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋