why should I care if I sleep with your hubby? If you were a good wife he wouldn't want me
2007-06-26 16:29:04 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this just proves that people on yahoo answers have no sense of humor
2007-06-26 16:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think most men are dogs and will sleep with Anything that is available to them. Those who say "MY husband wouldn't cheat" or "I'd Leave my husband if he EVER did that to me"... haven't been there before. I've said both. I've been through both. I was mad at both the woman AND my husband, because I think a woman should have enough self respect for herself to say "YOU are married and I am not your TOY! Take care of your marriage and leave me alone." Not always as easily said as done, I know, but I think it's up to the woman to say no just as much as it is the man not to come on to her. (For the record: I know EXACTLY how hard it is to say NO when all you want in the world is to say yes.... Have some self respect and think of others, not just yourself...) Good luck with all the married men you seem to have lined up. Maybe you'll find one that's yours one day. LOL
2007-06-26 16:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by c w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you care who you sleep with? I think so. Whether he is married or not is all about morality. Obviously the guys are looking for sex only and you give them that with (Im guessing) no strings attached. The guys are more at fault than you IMO. They should say no and not disrepect their wives. However, morality is a lost concept in this day and age.
If you want to constantly use your body for men's pleasure that see you as nothing more than a temporary toy, then go ahead. As for me, whther my wife is "good" or not is not the question. I have morals and a respect for her.
2007-06-26 16:39:19 · answer #3 · answered by MrMyers 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On the one hand, you might think that if you don't sleep with him he'll just find somebody else . . . but what if the shoe was on the other foot? How would you feel if your hubby fooled around with somebody else and the other woman doesn't care if she slept with your husband?
Does it make it right simply because you don't care?
2007-06-26 16:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Brain Tickler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man or women strays it is both of their faults so your theory of being a good wife doesn't really work. If you cared about yourself and understood that what goes around comes around you would never treat any relationship so disrespectfully. It will come back to you.
Personally I wouldn't have a problem with you if my husband chose to sleep with you once or ten times. He would be the one breaking our vows. I would leave both of you far behind.
I hope that you learn to respect yourself a little more, you don't deserve someones leftovers.........
2007-06-26 16:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by New England Babe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually, it's not the wife's responsibility to control the actions of her husband. If the husband were a man worth being married to, he would control himself. I really could care less if you're sleeping with scuzzy men. You're probably just trading sexually transmitted infections. Collect them all!
2007-06-26 16:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
My husband would not cheat on me in the first place! I do want to let you know that these men that are coming on to you will never love you! In fact their opinion of you is probably easy,and cheap.Just remember what goes around comes around.So when you marry your husband is going to find a tramp like you,and sleep with her.
2007-06-26 16:37:09 · answer #7 · answered by Gin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are what the bible calls a whore. Some men have great relationships w their wives but women who dont care enough about themselves and that think nobody cared about them go looking for validation by trying to get mens attention. You need to get over yourself. Some men are just weak or trying to get over society's worst addiction, porn. You think this kind of attention makes you valuable, you are only making yourself worth even less. the more you divide yourself up the smaller you become. Sorry for you.
2007-06-26 16:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by answerteam 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get a life, and no not one that revolves around your p**ssy ya fat ****!! haha, also a reality check! all men fantasize of picking up a cheap whore, didn't you know that? and after they get it, they're done wtih you and go home to their wives. well that is the low-life cokcsuckers in the world. those are the hubbies that are sleeping with you. its not because a wife isn't good to her husband sweetheart, its because there are scum husbands who will actually pick up trash such as yourself. and you'll learn one day that speading your legs wont catch ya a nice dependable and loyal husband.
until then stay safe, and for gods sake WASH YOURSELF!!
lol
2007-06-26 20:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by *** 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this would be something that a person would say that obviously does NOT feel good about themselves.....First off - why on earth would you want someone elses hand me downs? Wait dont tell me....him and his wife just dont get along good anymore...or they are sleeping in seperate beds....what ever it is dont fall for it.
If you want to sleep good at night trust me someday you will regret ever doing this.
2007-06-26 16:52:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and if you weren't a home wrecker you wouldn't feel the need to fill someone's void. because that is all you are ... a fill in the blank. just a bang. and i know it hurts you that you will never truly be able to have a good relationship with a man. you must have some daddy issues. otherwise you woudn't seek the attention of a taken man...
2007-06-26 16:32:57 · answer #11 · answered by pwrgrlmanda 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋