since my husbands got the new laptop for christmass he spent he's most time on the internet. I know i shouldn't be suspecious of that but its the fact that everytime the kids or I come near him when he's on the computer he'll close it. He never let us use the laptop he so possessive of it that i'm begining to think he's cheating. also i wrestle some word out of his best frieds mouth and he told that he's doing porn on the internet.
I can't brake into the computer without a password and very keen about privacy. I don't want to go to a P.I. Isn.t there a way i can brake the password without having him being suspecious of anything. He has and HP model and he's the administrator. May be there is a password I can type to brake and investigate.
He also won't talk to me about anything.
2007-06-26 09:49:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you're not putting out like when you were dating or before your kids, it's most likely porn. why would he hide chats or messages from kids? you're being paranoid. you should find out if you're satisfying his physical needs. you may be able to answer this for yourself. think about how often you have some good crazy sex with him and then make a determination.
2007-06-26 09:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You have a right to know just who you are married to. I don't agree with the people, especially men, who think that they can have a portion of themselves that they spend toying with other women when you aren't around. They're sneaky, and definitely not gentlemen.
So I believe that you should communicate with your husband on this issue. Tell him that he is making you suspicious with having a password on that computer, and that you have noticed that he often shuts it down whenever you come around, as if he has something to hide.
If he says that he doesn't have anything to hide, then ask what the password is. Now what is he going to say to you?
You don't need to know exactly what he is doing, you already know that he is doing something secretive. If you can tolerate the porn use, then tell him that, and if you can't tolerate it, then you have to tell him that too.
He may be looking at sex hookup sites, or have email accounts you don't know about, who knows? The question you have to ask yourself is where do you draw the line at his interest in other women, and where will he draw the line on being honest and open with you?
That's why I suggest you start with a good conversation.
I don't know how to bypass passwords, but a professional would, like a P.I. or computer doctor.
2007-06-26 17:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing something on the Internet he is not proud to share with you. You need to have a good talk with him and find out what it is. If you break or break into his computer you are being as dishonest as he is. He could be into something worse- gambling or child porn so you need to convince him to get some professional counseling. Good luck.
2007-06-26 16:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rafael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Download a linux livecd and boot the computer with it and look around the hard drive. Only if you know how to use computers and not if it has Vista because Linux Live cd's tend to mess that operating system up.
2007-06-27 06:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lee P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him and let him know up front that if it is porn it would be okay with you. Or even try looking at some of the porn with him, it might make him less suspicious acting.
2007-06-26 16:56:25 · answer #5 · answered by Miya Miya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-06-28 08:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can anyone else do porn on the net? Do you do porn?
Honey if it just in the cyber world, leave it there.
And I don't like other people on my puter either, they may not be as neat as I am and download crap and otherwise mess up my desktop and leave my puter sluggish or crashing.
Him not talking to you is a bigger issue deal with that.
2007-06-26 16:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take the computer away from him and sell it or trash it. It is ruining your marriage and isn't worth all the problems it is giving you, him and your children. He lived without the laptop before and he can live without it again.
2007-06-26 17:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by Stefka 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. I would not like this if i was going through this with my husband. I would almost want to break the computer. WOW this is hard.... Pray and ask God for guidance
2007-06-26 17:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably is definitely chattin up the ladies, my best advice is drop the thing on the floor by accident....lol Believe me him being on those sites are very addicting and it can ruin your marriage.
2007-06-26 16:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋