It would still hurt but it would be more civilized and not so low class. I am very curious as to why you cheated firt rather than just simply divorce.
2007-06-26 09:33:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I thought I wouldn't get caught
2007-06-26 10:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first my cheating never hurt anybody but myself, no actually I take that back. My cheating never hurt anybody. As I painstakely took precautions to insure that he did'nt find out. Not because I actually cared whether he hurt or not, but because I was scared for my life. He was a evil hateful man who certainly didn't deserve me.
I'm just shocked that I actually followed through with the affair, huge risk on my part and an eye opener at that. Realized I had to get away from the husband no matter what the cost. And trust me it cost me alot to get away from him. And the affair and I no longer sleep together but we are still really good friends and I will always be grateful to him for opening my eyes and saving my life.
2007-06-26 16:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BIG difference between cheating and flirting.... I talk to other men but do not consider that cheating but some people consider that flirting.... I would never cheat on my husband, I told him I would divorce him if I found out he was cheating and if I was unhappy enough to cheat then I would divorce him first... Why other people don't do it that way is beyond me...
2007-06-26 16:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by Karlee bug 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cause then it woulden't be cheating... nah, going through a divorce is too much trouble when you are in heat... you can't wait,, and it happens real fast... I'm not saying it's the right thing to do, I'm just tired of some of you women, thinking that it could never happen to you...... I hope it never happens to you, cause if it did, it will crush you.
2007-06-26 16:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in some peoples warped sense of reality they think that if they leave first there the bad one and if they cheat and the other person leaves the get sympathy till because they got left instead of being the other way around
2007-06-26 16:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by rage6996 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish my soon to be ex would answer that question for me, he just doesn't seem to have one, guess he thought he could have everything, but eventually his girlfriend threatened to tell me if he didn't. Wasn't the way I expected my 30 year marriage to go.
2007-06-27 00:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by tannerlady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD QUESTION!!! That's exactly how I feel if you really want to cheat on your spouse then you obviously don't want to be with them so why not divorce.
2007-06-26 16:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by KH 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It would be to much of a moral thing for people to do. I think they like the attention and excitement of cheating. I agree 100% with you, but like I said its to logical.
2007-06-26 16:37:43 · answer #8 · answered by How can I help? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some people dont believe divorce is an option. so they cheat, and hope for their spouses to leave them first.
2007-06-26 16:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Sweet_Addy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Some people are like monkeys. Grab onto another branch before letting the old one go so you dont fall to the ground.
Men are stupid!
2007-06-26 16:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by mable3691214 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I did. I informed my hubby that we were done. Then I filed. Then I started dating. Cheating is wrong no matter how miserable you are.
2007-06-26 16:48:20 · answer #11 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋