whom he is with 9hrs 5 days a week..they drive around some very isolated n beautiful countryside daily...whenhe comes home i ask him how his day was..he is careful not to mention his partner...as he defended her 1 day saying that the guy he took over from gave her all the **** jobs...this did not go down well with me..as my job is backbracking...he has started wearing aftershave n looking smarter..(.not for me)...i had a dream that they are getting very close..i cant get rid of this feeling...what do u think???should i worry
2007-06-26 01:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't worry to much about this unless you have concrete evidence that he is doing something. Nothing will make him get closer to her than you acting different or accusing him of doing something he hasn't done. I would just wait it out. Unfortunately if he's gonna do it, he's gonna do it and there is nothing you can do to stop him. I would sit and ask him and tell him about your dream..etc....see how that goes.
2007-06-26 02:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by mtcmmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is very careful because obviously you have some serious trust issues and knowing that you'll make a mountain out of a mole hill, he takes the easy way and doesn't feel open to discussing anything outside of your relationship.
And if he's traveling around during the day, I imagine its safe to assume that he's in some sort of sales or comes into alot of contact with different folks throughout the day. And wearing aftershave is a good way to stay smelling nice throughout the entire day, instead of developing a midday funk that would turn off some clients.
2007-06-26 02:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said it once and I'll say it again. Most men not all men but over 80% of men will cheat if the opportunity is there to do so.
Especially in your particular situation, I mean it's a post card for cheating. No grown man is going to turn down a situation like that. He's going to have to get a new position with the company, get a new job or get a new wife.
2007-06-26 02:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by bettercockster1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you work with men? Does your husband accuse you of cheating if you say one guy did a good job? You can push a man away by being jealous, nagging and accusing him, if nothing else it could give him ideas of doing just what you are accusing him of doing. Maybe he is having an affair, maybe hes not doing it with his partner, it could be a waitress, or someone else. But one thing I can assure you of, no man ever cheated because of the scenery.
2007-06-26 02:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until and unless he gives you more evidence that something is going on I wouldn't worry about it. Wearing aftershave may be a sign something is going on...but how does he look smarter?
2007-06-26 02:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are funny creatures they can be lead bery easily. I say stop by unannounced if you can and express your love for your man infront of her and gauge her reaction. Try not to jump to negative conclusions without proof. It is out there go get the answer. Good luck to you.
2007-06-26 02:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry unless the the partner is really hot.
2007-06-26 02:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by aresfury1939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say partner ummm give me more details ! If your not married I suggest you kick him out .
2007-06-26 02:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by wishingstar5555 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your concerned about it.......see how he reacts. If he doesn't do or say anything to truly make you feel better about the situation then I would worry.......good luck!
2007-06-26 02:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by nesschap77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry i dont interpret dreams, there's another section 4 that
2007-06-26 02:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by nap11t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋