Cheating with the therapist? Lets take a vote!!!?

Question

You probably already seen a similar question....Your wife has been seeing this guy for 8 months...during witch your time in bed with her gets shoot off all together.

When I asked why she was comfortable with hime instaed of a female, she exclaimed that we really must know, he was gay. WOW. We were all taken aback. A Week later, she says he isn't gay, but likes guy people.And she said, he has two little girls. This guy does hypnotise my wife.

MY WIFE SHAVED HER PUSSY LAST NIGHT...SHE SEES HIM wednesday.(this is tuesday night)

I want to get ahold of her panties when she takes them off and have then tested for sperm. Any ideas?
In the mean time, I, her husband, gets nothing, nothing nothing.

She has been tanning everyday, and is starting to look hot again.

Is she cheating or not. ???????????????????//

I just wanted to let you all know that I have asked my lawyer about getting evidence, and in Colorado, it really does not have any influence on the divorce creed. We are seeing a therapist together on Friday(july6) if we make it that long. Then we are seeing our Pastor tomorrow. She has a separate computer she keeps locked out, and a separate e-mail box (she quit using our joint account when she found out I was reading her "sent" & "trash" boxes) And of course, there is the MY SPACE box, where my wife has told everyone she "knows" how a rotton husband I am. I will have papers searved to her next week. Her lies and unwillingness to come to our bed(even for a snuggle) has come to an end.

Thanks for all the responces. Right now she is so doped up on prescription drugs, I have no idea who she is. Did I say she was BI-POLAR?????? Well, that just adds to the fire!!!!

thanks again!!!!!

By the way, my heart is aching so bad even if I do not have solid proof. I just need to know.

Answer 1

She might be cheating but unless the therapist was a complete tool he wouldn't sleep with her for fear of being brought up on disciplinary charges, sued and ultimately losing his license.

Answer 2

Let me share my experience with you. My husband went back to work after being off for some time, I know this is not the same as seeing a therapist but cheating is cheating. Anyway after a while of being back at work all of a sudden he became extremely interested in his appearance. Always had to have on cologne our daughters car seat was always out of the car and in the trunk, his cell was always ringing with calls he couldn't take in front of me. When we were in bed I would make it clear what I wanted he would actually tell me he wasn't in the mood (what man doesn't want sex). Stopped coming home for lunch, made excuses for not coming home at dinner the list goes on and on Long story short I became suspicious finally checked cell 98% calls and text to one number ( Another Woman ) I confronted her then him. So I say you have a lot of reasons to be suspicious of her activities. I trusted my husband too.

Answer 3

If you can't discuss it openly with her the relationship must be pretty far gone. When the marriage goes so does the sex. Maybe that's why she doesn't want to have sex with you. Maybe she likes the therapist because he listens and tries to understand. That doesn't necessarily mean she has romantic feeling for him. She would probably rather be listened to and understood by you. To me it sounds like you are jealous and that is driving your suspicion. Instead of driving your wife away with your suspicions draw her in by being the man she wants.

Answer 4

I don't quite understand what your asking, but if you suspect she's cheating, she probably is. You would know better than a bunch of strangers on yahoo answers the answer to that question. Just think about it and go with your gut feeling. If you can move on from it, then move on from it and try and reconcile with your wife. If you can't forgive her and all you'll be able to think of is her with the other man, then move on from her. It's not fair to either one of you if you cannot forgive her and you stay with her.

Answer 5

I'd say there is a good chance she is cheating on you. But you say she is starting to look hot again? Did you make her feel ugly before, did you ignore her, did you ever compliment her? Women go looking elsewhere when they can't get it at home, just like men do. But why sneak around, just confront her. If your marriage has come to snooping, dna testing, etc, is it really worth keeping?

Answer 6

Why is she seeing a therapist in the first place? Maybe you both can attend marriage counseling with the money she is spending on the therapist and this way you can begin to increase your communication skills with her and stop the guessing.

Answer 7

Yes..........if you can't discuss your leery feelings about losing your trust in her......there is a huge problem. If she is cheating with this guy though, he is setting himself up for trouble. If is against the law for a therapist to have sex with their patients. If you have enough time and money......have the panties tested and have her followed. Sorry guy,,,good luck

Answer 8

its sounds like cheating and it sounds like you are trying your best to find out or catch her why do this just ask her up front some will admit it and then if she does she probably wants out and give it to her i mean go your separate ways and go there is no love lose there and of coarse there is no turst at all

Answer 9

I would ask to go with her to the therapy sessioin. be interested, involved, ask her to allow you to go. or wait for
her outside the therapist. you wouldnt need to check her undies if she does it inside his office, you will probably hear them. hopefully, you dont. maybe she is really doing these
changes to see how you will react. be the loving, kind, sweet husband I think you are.

Answer 10

yes, she is cheating, if not with him, with somebody

send her sperm laden panties in for some testing