Alot of people called me gay because i said i loved my freinds more than mi life, but of course the lord n family come first, but now im irritated because im sensitive, not like im cryin, but now im bothered!! Am i gay because i love my freinds and always worry about them n think they r pretty? I LIKE A GUY THOUGH! please help now im kinda scared, i wanna live a life for jesus i dont wanna be a lesbian! Why do people say this?
2007-06-26 17:18:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because you are a good friend does not make you a lesbian. People should feel lucky to have a friend like you. It is also nice to think your friends are pretty. There is nothing wrong with this. Unless you are romantically or sexually attracted to your female friends you are not a lesbian. If you like a guy then it should be obvious right there - you like guys. Just ignore what everyone is saying. There will always be someone that is saying something negative about you. Be the bigger person and ignore it. Stay close to Jesus and the people that love you.
2007-06-26 18:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't worry about what others say, it is gossip. Do what makes you happy. If you want to live your life for jesus, then you must read the bible and learn all you can. Pray for God to help you through this troubling time and he will. Being gay is a sin, no matter how people want to justify it. So you can't be gay and serve the Lord. What is more important? You should love your friends, but as friends only. You need to seek help on this, talk to a priest.
2007-06-26 17:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sexually attracted to your friends? If so, you may be gay. However, I love my friends and would do anything for the select few people in my life that I call friends. I would give them a kidney if they needed it and may even lay down my life for those select few should I have to. I think my friends are smart, pretty, wonderful women and I worry about them when things aren't going well in their lives. Am I gay? No, I am 100% attracted to men, particularly my husband.
I think you are a caring individual and your friends are lucky to have you as a friend. If you are still concerned or scared, pray about it.
2007-06-26 19:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by eunosgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will alway be people saying these things to someone. I've even been told that, but the truth is that I know the truth and they are just being ridculus. If they even really thought it was true they would be saying it behind your back not too you in person. Since they are telling you this in person it just sounds like they are trying to bother you. It is really a issue with them not you.
2007-06-26 17:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Peggy Pirate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a lesbian.I find nothing wrong with gays and lesbians. You can love your friends. Ask them next time if loving your family makes that incest?
2007-06-26 17:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋