Marriage & Divorce - 3 July 2007

I got married wen i was 16.yes,i know wat youll say but it was love. it was really love and also illigal. i went through so much to be wit this guy.everything about this relationship was absolutly perfect .but two years into the marriage things started to get rocky.comon,i was 16 what would you expect?and im in colege full time so i met this guy.i didnt want to do r say anything but i must admit i was attracted to him plus he was in my class for a semester so we became friends.he went through a divorce at that time also and after the semester was over he stated coming to my house,giving me rides, that led into kissing, and eventually islept with him. at this time he had another gfand in the short time i was wth him he showed me so much more love,affection and warmth than i have recieved in the 2 years i was married to my hubs.then recently he got his gf pregnant and said that he needs to be with his new family even if that ment being unhappy for the rest of his life. i miss him so much

2007-07-03 21:37:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

im supposed to get married at 2:30 tomorrow
should i run and hide or say i do???

2007-07-03 21:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by juggalo420jrb 1

It might sound silly but do you know in general people between age 35-45 are still interested in their sexual life? How frequent lets see in a week??

2007-07-03 21:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Nemo 1

Should gays and lezbians be allowed to get married? Tell me what you really think.

2007-07-03 21:06:23 · 14 answers · asked by anniemusgrove 2

2007-07-03 21:03:37 · 19 answers · asked by LYN 1

We have sex and sometimes she does not finish but says it was great is this possible?

2007-07-03 20:52:50 · 12 answers · asked by Pride 1

2007-07-03 20:31:53 · 26 answers · asked by dorai 1

2007-07-03 20:26:20 · 5 answers · asked by wanting2learn 3

plz do give decent and sensible answers.....

2007-07-03 20:15:51 · 22 answers · asked by sexy sush 1

2007-07-03 20:02:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So she says shes going to Prescott tomorrow to go to a Rodeo with some old friend from work who quit a while back. But then I heard her on the phone talkin to him askin him what their plans were for tomorrow and I overheard her say "Oh you naughty devil that sounds like fun." and "Don't worry my husband won't suspect a thing." I think shes cheating and I don't know what to do. I know I don't all the facts but it sounds like it right? So do I leave her or ***** her out and tell her I know.. what do I do?

2007-07-03 19:55:34 · 17 answers · asked by Brendan 1

never been down this road but i am really feeling antsy, got to do it.

2007-07-03 19:51:33 · 16 answers · asked by trainingday 1

my son friend been living with him and his wife and kids for almost a year his friend to lazy to work couse he smokes pot got my son doing the same now he treats his wife and kids bad what shouid i do to fix it with out any athordies son will go to jail his friend dont care

2007-07-03 19:46:07 · 5 answers · asked by fannie d 1

My wife and I have been together for 4yrs (married 2) and I made the big mistake a few days ago. She does not know about the incident and will MOST likely never know unless I come clean. The down and DIRTY of it all is that we (my wife and I) were at a party at some friends place, she left early and I stayed behind when it all happened a few hours later. During the heat of the moment I had the reality check and I said the classic “I cant do this line,” and drove home (another poor decision being extremely drunk.) I realize it was my fault for even being in the situation. I have never had a one-night stand or come close to cheating on any of my 3 prior partners. I am 26 and like to binge drink on occasion (not after this though.)

I considered myself a Christian up to now and have been reading the good book to find my solution. I feel like it is my sin to bear and that if I tell her it will only relieve me of my guilt and put an unnecessary burden on her. Any advice?

2007-07-03 19:41:07 · 10 answers · asked by Sam J 1

I've been think of a lot of foolish behavior this past couple of days because for the fact I just moved back with my wife after a 3 month Separation.

Strange behavior from wife mainly she wants sex at a drop of a dime.
Then their her uncle my friend who's marriage is falling apart after he confessed that they been in an open marriage for 3 years, and it's heading for Divorce!

I sat down with my wife last evening before I was told about the Impending divorce of her UNCLE and we had a great talk about what went through her mind before I left , the emotional Affair with her HIGH SCHOOL 1st love, and what she felt like when I suggested we consider a divorce, but instead worked out our problems and are still working on them now but for the 1st time I feel it's in a positive manner instead of one thats been fueled by anger, hatred, even VIOLENCE. Her 1st love and I had a few angry punches thrown at one another, he lost went home to wife who kicked him out! He's done this 3 times before!

2007-07-03 19:34:37 · 6 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5

Ok been happily married 16 yrs and im 38 and husband is 42 and we make love 2-3 times a week and he says he is always ready for sex whenever i want it and i love making love with him and i have never turned him down or rejected him and never would but i intiate most of time..He says he likes it when i do most of the intiating..Are other men like this?

2007-07-03 19:30:13 · 17 answers · asked by lauren s 1

2007-07-03 19:26:09 · 11 answers · asked by Ranjeeta S 1

married 5 years, have 3 young kids, yes he's done it before! i asked him he said NO! (not like he's really going to say yes anyway why ask) but i did!...now i cant help but ask him everyday more and more call him all day all night when he's not here heck he could be with her i look at his cell bill online every 5 minutes i am going insane any suggestions?

2007-07-03 18:57:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Your waiting in line at a store when I cut in front of you. After kindly mentioning to me that you where in line first, I tell you, to go shove it.
You reach into your bag and pull out a small remote control. With a push of a button you shrink me down to the size of a bug. I look up and see you towering over me, with a devilish look in your eyes. I start to run. What would you do?

2007-07-03 18:56:38 · 19 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3

with him. We have two dogs. The younger one is undeniably my dog. He picked me, you either know what I mean or you don't. We had the other dog longer, and she is close to both of us. We split up once before we got the younger dog and there was no question I would keep the dog we had, call her Lady.
Now that we have two dogs he wants me to leave Lady with him. At first I was going along with this, I don't want to be a you-know-what. I love my dog, but I know the younger one needs me more and if there is a decision to be made well... Thing is, I have 2 cats too, had them from before the bf. I moved out 8 days ago, and I took all the pets except for Lady. I think it broke her heart. I picked her up today and brought her to my place because the bf is going out of town. She is happy to see the pets, but I can tell she is mad at me, and I don't think she has been eating well. I really want to do the right thing. Do I choose my dog's feelings or my ex's. My ex has bad anger issues. more comi

2007-07-03 18:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by sage 5

my marriage is love marriage, 3 years back i got married, my wife doesn't know cooking and al. so i started cooking, washing and all householding words. Because i love her very much. before going to office i finish every thing. After my child's birth, we went to her mother's house and stayed there. her father is a slave to her mother, he doesn't speak even a single word against him. After going there, my wife started beating me, infront of her parents and friends. my friends are calling me as 'wife's servant'. what to do now, don't advice me to divorce. my wife is not ready to come out her mother house. i like to do anything for her. i like to be a servant to her. i am happy to be kicked by her, but infront anybody. How should i behave now?

2007-07-03 18:45:51 · 17 answers · asked by dorai 1

What percentage of married men even happily married guys does everybody think would cheat if a woman was standing naked in front of them and she wanted him to have sex with her.

2007-07-03 18:35:51 · 17 answers · asked by lauren s 1

the fact that the reporter, about 35 years old became pregnant is surprising to me. his wife has filed for divorce. what is you take on the mayors behavior. was he irresponsible? did he send the wrong message to young men and women?

the state of california has spent hundreds of millions of dollars on education programs to stop teen pregnancy.

do you believe teens will be influenced by the mayors behavior?

2007-07-03 18:29:22 · 4 answers · asked by ramni222 6

I wish to have your help to write a some words of encouragement. For the first time she will be leaving us to study medicine in the university. It will be 5 years of studies.
I want her to be to stay strong and focus and successful .
I will laminate and frame it as a gift.

2007-07-03 18:25:26 · 13 answers · asked by hwa g 2

I am not sure I ever want to remarry, but living with him is comfortable. He got everything in the divoirce, the kids, the house , the car and child support. I left because he forced sex. I am crazy for being here?

2007-07-03 18:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by Shadow8 1

My husband says he never wanted kids and that i "made" him have them. He loves our son, but doesn't want to put any effort into raising him...let alone our 5 month old twins! He says it's my job and that he makes the money. He always says i made him have kids whenever we get in a fight!!! I just want some advice so I can show this to him to make him realize what he keeps saying is terrible! I feel like if he never wanted kids, but loves them and keeps saying this he really doesn't deserve to have them in his life at all and that i should just take the kids away.....

2007-07-03 18:21:02 · 12 answers · asked by amaus22 2

2 years ago.we couldnt work so many hours6 am to 9 pm,we are 27 and 25, so i sold it 2 her parents for a real bargain,i also refinanced their home so they could get the loan for the restaurant,and got them a 5 % fixed mortgage,they are doing really well .they havent said thank you,for anything i done,i feel really bad about it,i dont know if i should say something ,my parents are really mad for all the things ive done for this family also,we come from different nacionalities,i dont know if thats normal for them,or they think because im married 2 her daughter they deserve that and more,please help

2007-07-03 18:13:21 · 10 answers · asked by LUI C 1

2007-07-03 18:05:17 · 12 answers · asked by lifescircle 5

I've been working a little over 20 years now. I went to college and chose a profession, which I've been working at now for 10 years. I chose a profession in the medical field because it is a tradition in my family.However, I've always been miserable in my career.
I've discovered that going out in the workforce is not partiicularly for me. I am married with 2 boys. My husband is just starting off in his career now, and since I pretty much support the family now, we would have to downsize in every aspect of our lives if I leave my job. I am very depressed now, because its a big decision. What would people think, my mom, brothers sisters? Would people look down on me for leaving my career? My husband supports my decision, he just tells me that it's going to be hard at first. I really feel the pressure. Its really scary because I haven't depended on anyone for almost 20 yrs now

2007-07-03 18:05:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married a year now. I know I satisfy him in every way possible. Why would he be so intrested in watching porn and then try to hide it from me?

2007-07-03 17:42:34 · 43 answers · asked by Nell 1