I am not sure I ever want to remarry, but living with him is comfortable. He got everything in the divoirce, the kids, the house , the car and child support. I left because he forced sex. I am crazy for being here?
2007-07-03 18:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by Shadow8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I did the same thing after my break-up..I was afraid of leaving the support I had..I never had 2 work nor worry about anything..but after awhile I was ready 2 be on my own especially when ur ready to date again..forcing himself on u is not right together or not..times will get better as each day passes..be strong
2007-07-03 18:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think things have changed? NO. If it didn't work out the first time, its not going to work out this time. Stop wasting your life going back to what was and move forward. Going back to what was never works out, so put all your new found energies into finding someone new. Cheers and good luck.
2007-07-04 01:29:25 · answer #2 · answered by Live_For_Today 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, yes you are. He raped you, and will continue to do so. You're trading your dignity (and ultimately, your happiness) for material comfort, because you're afraid of the unknown, and because you doubt yourself.
Move out immediately and start creating a new life for yourself - it won't be easy, but it will be inherently better because it's on your own terms. Seek therapy immediately.
2007-07-04 01:27:24 · answer #3 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course your crazy if your going to live with the nut at least remarry him so if dies youll at least get his social security, life ins etc etc if you don't remarry him all you'll get is a crazy messed up life.
2007-07-04 01:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to open that can of worms. What is done is done, and I would be more than open for a new relationship without him being part of my life anymore.
2007-07-04 01:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by pitch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now he gets everything from you with no strings attached.
2007-07-04 01:32:27 · answer #6 · answered by t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-07-04 01:37:08 · answer #7 · answered by kystik83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want to do it myself, but, whatever works for you is ok, I guess.
2007-07-04 01:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by ncgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you explain it to the children???
2007-07-04 01:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really many live with there.ex.s . my opion?
2007-07-04 01:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋