Marriage & Divorce - 3 July 2007

if for example a woman is married, the husband can't perform because of medical reasons but loves her enough to say he wants her to have a physical relationship with someone else, as long as she still loves him, is it wrong hypothetically for her to have an affair, not tell him, but she's also lacking in the cuddles from the husband which is more important to her, but finds all the cuddles she needs from another man who knows the score, that she also loves her husband, and she's also sexual. the affair makes her happier as she feels loved, and shows all the love to her husband still, is it wrong?

2007-07-03 09:31:41 · 46 answers · asked by chakra girl 7

I've been amazed at the number of women who cheat on their husbands. They typically have affairs before they leave the marriage.

I had always heard that men were "low."

2007-07-03 09:30:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 09:26:45 · 19 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

Ladies, is it true that if the woman's relationship is not going well (arguing all the time) that a woman may not be able to be affectionate at all. Even if both parties may start the arguments/disagreements. Now remember, no relationship or person is perfect.

2007-07-03 09:26:05 · 18 answers · asked by donald c 1

I LOVE them so much !!!

2007-07-03 09:14:33 · 16 answers · asked by Jenny 1

We do EVERYTHING thats in the book, any position he wants to try, we do, but its still not 'poppin' what do i need to do?

2007-07-03 09:08:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He won't get a job -- he said once we moved he would get a normal job, working 9-5 and start paying half the bills --- we moved and surprise! I am still the only one working -- he works average about 4 days a month, 5 at most with his friend who pays him what and when he wants to -- so I never see that money -- he just keeps taking money from his family (they don;t have it to spare though, really) -- I am very resentful towards him now every minute that I am working and I don't want him near me -- certainly do not want to sleep with him, his laziness is the biggest turn-off i have ever known -- I feel like he is white trash and I don't know what to do

2007-07-03 09:07:08 · 7 answers · asked by Bakes 2

My husband and i have been married 4 years are seperated 6 months.I have a daughter age 5 from a prior relationship but my husband and i have no children togethereven though we tried for 3 yrs with no luck.When i met my husband he seemed like the perfect guy everything i wanted including stability and i fell hard for him .But after we married something changed he became more moody ect.So I tried to comprimise more.He had a good job as a financial advisor so after 1.5 my husband felt my working was no longer needed(he's traditional) so i came home even though i did not want to mainly to avoid a fight.Then my husband started having anger managment issues nothing i did was right .He broke furniture,put hole in wall, and pushing me in fights.The fight that caused the seperation was when he came home late drunk.I locked him out of our bedroom he brought the door down he hit me across face took my hand dislocated some of my fingers.He came home last week and moved back wanting to try again?

2007-07-03 09:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 08:49:10 · 8 answers · asked by badunkadunkhunter 1

Okay, so I really hate getting so upset, especially at these little things, but it's frustrating when my husband does these things over & over...i.e.: breaking dishes and other nice decorative things in the house constantly, not knowing how to handle the crying baby, putting the kids back to sleep when they've just woken up from a nap, son carrying a knife around and husband says "he just didn't see him"....he can be so careless and we always end up fighting because i'm always upset at these things! How can we change? Is it normal for me to be upset at these things, especially when some of them happen over & over? My husband wants me to be happy and not so moody, but it's very hard when his carelessness continues!!! What should i do?

2007-07-03 08:48:34 · 14 answers · asked by amaus22 2

I am a filipina myself married to an american for twenty some yrs. but another filipina is trying to break my marriage. am not saying that she is the core of the problem but partially responsible for the fact that she knew the man she met over the internet is married...

2007-07-03 08:43:24 · 3 answers · asked by butterfly105 2

This may be very nasty to some, but my husband watches porn while im sleeping (i found this out because of our on demand) and the other day i found a "*** rag" in the living room! EWWWW!!! It bothers me so much and after i talked to him about it, it blew up into this long argument that went on till 5 in the morning. I just feel like i don't get enough love and attention as it is and to see that he watches porn on tv and online makes me feel SO insecure. He says he will stop since it bothers me but then acts like im still in the wrong for being so insecure about it. I dont understand how everything gets switched to being MY fault, all i did was simply tell him that it bothered me.

2007-07-03 08:33:08 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have had a bad feeling about my fiance Dan. I just can't say that I trust him. Something in me just keeps nagging on, I don't know what to think. It is really hard to just say "it's over", there is a little boy involved. I don't know if he is cheating, but, he is acting totally different than the Dan i used to know. Help me out.

2007-07-03 08:28:18 · 49 answers · asked by Skwerl (loves u) 1

What about an annualment?

2007-07-03 08:16:27 · 8 answers · asked by LuckyStar1984 2

Kids, sex, sharing housework, stable job, etc....

2007-07-03 08:12:04 · 35 answers · asked by I <3 my boys 5

do you count the time from when you left off, or does it start all over again? Like anniversaries. I hope you all know what I am saying

2007-07-03 08:10:51 · 18 answers · asked by Video_Production 6

i am a 26 year old healthy female . So about a month ago i decided to stop smoking marijiana for good! I feel better about myself and getting motivation back. There is a big problem though. I have completely lost my sex drive. I use to want sex all the time and now i feel indifferent about it and i want it back!! My husband is trys to be understanding aabout it, but i can tell he is getting fed up. when we start to do it. i sort of feel like doing it, but as soon as we start fooling around, i dont really want to. has this happened to anyone else?...what did you do to get it back?...thanks for your advice

2007-07-03 08:06:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend's wife divorced him twice and he remarried her when she asked him to take her back. Then he divorced her and thought he could move on and she asked him back again. He is contemplating remarrying her for the fourth time. Is this as odd as I think it is?

2007-07-03 08:06:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 08:04:09 · 15 answers · asked by Lima Bean 2

If you had sex with your lover earlier in a day, would you go home to your wife and have sex with her later that evening? Wouldn't you be afraid that she could smell or taste another woman on you? Or would you avoid sex with your wife? I know its wrong to cheat, but doesnt something seem awfully disturbing to have sex with both your lover and your wife in one day? Also, if you are gross enough to have sex with your wife after your lover, please tell me you would at least refuse oral from her...would you let your wife do that to you knowing darn well your 'thing' has been somewhere else? Just a curious question? Thanks. And no, I am not the lover, and no I am not being cheated on. Just a question.

2007-07-03 08:01:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you win 200,000 dollars how much would you get after taxes..Im from pennsylvania.

2007-07-03 08:01:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im with a man who is married, separated, but still married. He has 3 kids with his wife, who he was with for 7 yrs.. I am now just 2 mos. preg, and he is hoping ill have an abortion. He is in the military and would face steep consequences if he were to be caught in an affair. I do believe he is in love with me, and we are young. I am 21 and he is 24. What do I do?

2007-07-03 08:00:57 · 33 answers · asked by justme 2

hi frenz
any of u who has a libran husband...or had one.....
are they trustworthy....
wat makes them drool for u all their life??
i am gonno be with one....

2007-07-03 07:52:37 · 4 answers · asked by libran_beauty 2

My girlfriend is originally from Korea and is over here on a work visa that I help her obtain. We met on a Christian missions trip in Seoul last fall, and we fell in lust immediately.

Honestly, I've never had better carnal relations in my life, and I just knew from the start this was the girl I wanted to spend the next 18-48months of my life with. So I asked her to marry me, with a full prenuptual agreement protecting myself for the inevitable divorce.

Through no fault of mine, she let herself become pregnant with my child. Okay, that's fine I guess. However, 7 months into her pregnancy, she was diagnosed with probable MS.

Honestly, I didn't know that I was involving myself with a flawed woman. I did not sign up for this.

Should I just tell her it's not going to work out? Should I take the ring back? I was thinking about waiting for her to go to work, packing up and driving out to Seattle.

I also have considered having her work permit revoked. Would that cost me a lot? How would I go about doing that?

I'm a good man, and this is not something I deserve!


Good luck

2007-07-03 07:48:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Back to the Clinton/Lawinski scandal. I'm taking a poll. How many of you would consider oral as cheating?

2007-07-03 07:39:47 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

I started seeing this guy, he is absolutly perfect. I never felt like this before about anyone. The thought of losing him scares me, and the fact that its only been a month scares me even more. We both were recently divorced. I have never been in this kind of situation before, but I've noticed little signs that he misses her. He kinda talks about her sometimes, or if he sees something he will say "My ex wife had one of those". Then in his room in three days his and his ex's rings were in three different places like he was looking at them or something. I understand that he was with her for seven years and that it is our human nature to "Miss our ex's" but I almost feel like I'm being disrespected. But I want to be understanding and make sure he has time to become himself. But I also know she did him wrong and for the last two years of their marriage he was in Iraq. He got back in Dec. and they filed March. Should I give him time? Like back off? or what?

2007-07-03 07:35:05 · 27 answers · asked by B 3

2007-07-03 07:28:23 · 19 answers · asked by bjhillsy96 1

I'm unhappily married in Utah, I have kids and am afraid I won't be able to see them if I get divorced. I'm confused and would like to know what to do...what are the odds of a dad getting custody in Utah?

2007-07-03 07:14:40 · 11 answers · asked by Cupcakes Moosey! 4

she has a mental disorder and she doesn't think anything is wrong with her. she was on prozac and when we started having problems her family was asking me if she was on her meds. she wasn't. she verbally and sometimes physically abused me sometimes that I just couldn't take it. I figured one day i was going to lose my cool and do something i regret. she left after one of her mental episodes she has. it's been quit and nice for a change but I do miss her. i saw her in the store for the first time in a few months and she had to leave. she was frantic seeing me. she hints at wanting to see me even though we have attorneys hashing out a divorce. I'm not sure i can take her back but i did swear before god to be with her for the rest of her life and through good and bad. however should it be at my expense and the expense of my children seeing her abuse and yell at everyone and everything? it's a moral dilemma i'm having.

2007-07-03 07:10:24 · 10 answers · asked by survivor 1

how did you feel, how did you know, what were you symtoms. just curious to know others answers

2007-07-03 07:08:05 · 25 answers · asked by wisdom 3