for those of you who have fallen in love, really head over heels in love?

Question

how did you feel, how did you know, what were you symtoms. just curious to know others answers

Answer 1

when you can't imagine yourself without the other person

Answer 2

Falling head over heels in love feels a lot like it sounds. Your world is upside down. Everything reminds you of the person you’ve fallen for. Every time the phone rings, you hope it’s her. Everywhere you go, you hope she might be there. Every time you touch, it feels like electricity courses between you.

Alas, and I hate to bring reality into this lovely phase of life, but those feelings don’t last forever. If it’s real, true love, all that emotional nonsense gets replaced by REAL things about the person. She’s always there for you. She takes care of you when you’re sick. She sticks up for you when you’re not around. She remembers what you like. She treats you the way you want to be treated, the way you should be treating her. You look forward to seeing her at the end of the day, not because she’s hot, or new, or crazy in the sack but because she’s the person you tell about your day, and who gives you a hug, brings you a drink, does whatever it is. And you do the same for her. And you do it because you love each other. You do it because that is the only way to make it work. And in the end, after all the sacrifices and tears and laughter and joy, you realize you have someone that you could not live without.

That’s love. All the silly emotional stuff in the beginning is fun, but it does not and can not last. It’s the base for more important things to come. And those things, while not as viscerally exciting as the butterflies-in-the-stomach phase, are REALLY what love is about.

Answer 3

It was an all encompassing feeling of bliss. Everything else in the world flipped to a positive state. Music, food, people, family, even worms and dirt all took me to a higher level of happiness. There were times that I just burst out laughing, or developed a tear in my eye because I was so happy. It was a temporary moment in time when suddenly everything in the world was just as is should be and I was floating through it content. Goose bumps and giggling. The whole world opens up.

I wish humans could experience that all the time, but it's just not possible. I have memories and I loved the experience and the person that I shared it with until the end of time.

Answer 4

I couldn't stop thinking about him. I smiled to myself all day long remembering the last time we talked or just remembering his face. It was hard to go to sleep because I wondered what he was doing. My stomach felt nervous at the prospect of seeing him again. I wondered if he thought of me. I felt a comfort when I was around him that was foreign to me -as if I had come home for the first time in my life. My laughter was genuine when he made jokes. My skin burned where his finger tips touched my arm. I never doubted for one second that I could love him for a life time. I wanted to listen to all of his stories. I hung on every detail. I thought more of him than I did of myself. I carried hope; hope for a future and for dreams of us being together and sharing a life time together. I wanted to share in every moment and I had no desire to leave his side. He made me feel complete and whole. I felt passion and excitement. The world was moving so fast and we were standing still. I remember knowing that one day I would look back and life would have taken over. The new would of evolved into the old and yet I would still be glad for having those moments and that with Jesus' help I would always remember them no matter how the end of the story evoved. When he asked me to marry him I didn't hesitate. I didn't wonder if it was the right thing. I just knew. My soul new before my mind new. I still love him 10 years later after all the realities of life and love, after the first hurts and the first fights and the first scars. I've never regretting alowing myself to feel.

Answer 5

I was divorced for nearly 20 years. During this time I dated ALLOT of females. Now I don't proclaim to be the best catch for a woman, but lets just say that I was being chased by allot of fakes and wanna Be's. They all seemed to want me, not so much for me, but for what I have accomplished and wanted a part in it. Until I met her. A woman that was so disinterested in (making a name for herself or taking advantage) that I felt drawn to her in some way. After dating over 1 year, I asked the ultimate question and what did she say? Lets talk again in a few days! That was her answer and I was impressed to say the least as this told me that she was wanting to think on it. We've been married over 15 years now and I haven't regretted one moment. From the time that I wake up with her arm around me (or visa verso) to the moment that we say good-night is always my thankfulness that we found each other. In between this time, she enjoys being at the studio with me, being at the shop or just sitting alone in the park. This puts more of a sense of accomplishment within our lives than anything that I've ever done before. Sorry for being just a bit vague, I just won't put it all out there for everybody. Email me for any other information.

Answer 6

It's hard to explain how I knew, I just knew. I had no doubt that I was crazy, head over heels, truly-madly-deeply, in love. He was all I could think about 24/7 and honestly, after 3 years and 3 months, it is still that way. I still get butterflies when I think about him and the feelings his kiss gives me is so awesome I can't even describe it. I have never doubted my love for him and it is stronger than any love I have ever felt in my life. He is my one true love, my soul mate. Being in love and the person you are in love with being in love with you is the best feeling in the world.

Answer 7

My first love I could not stop thinking of her . I had to leave for the Service and met her at the reception station for the first time . She was just so beautiful to me I mean was just a coincidence we met and all . I fell head over heals I would look at her pic every day and call her on the weekends when I finally got home . I remember my heart was beating faster in anticipation . When she met me at Airport It was heaven . I remember how it felt to put my arms around her after so long . It just felt right .

Answer 8

From my experience it feels like when you're with that person it feels like there's no other place you'd rather be. When you're away from that person you think about them all the time. Being in love is a really great feeling & to experience it even just once in your lifetime is a beautiful thing. I know this might sound corny, but it's true. But real talk, just be careful who you fall in love with. Trying to find that special person is another story. My best advice....don't rush it. God has a plan for you. Don't settle for just anyone. Because it's going to really suck if you get your heart broken.

Answer 9

I think the first time I realised was when I was driving home from work and I was stuck in traffic. I was thinking about her and the conversation we had had the night before.

It suddenly occurred to me that for weeks...she had been all I thought about. That talking to her was all I cared about...

She was the love of my life without any doubt...and yet I had no idea what she looked like! We had only spoken on the web.

Six months later we finally met each other in Dubai.

Six years later...She is my life. I couldn't even begin to describe how beautiful she is.

Answer 10

I knew when I couldn't go 5 min without thinking about him. He told me he loved me after dating only 20 days we both were in love from the start. He was the only person that ever made me feel like I was important and truly loved and I know i couldn't live without him. He was the only person that I felt safe with I could tell him anything with out him judging me I told him thing I never told anyone else. He said he never knew he could trust someone like he did me and would tell me things that he never told anyone not even his ex-wife he didn't feel like she would understand. Also I never felt happier with anyone else. He could always truly bring a smile to my face. I would do anything for him as long as I knew it would make him happy. He is the best husband I could ask for. More importantly I know he loves me as much as i love him because he tells me all the time :)

Answer 11

I fell in love when i was 14, i am 19 and im now living with him. I knew it was love because i got butterflies thinking of him and even though i lived in london and lived in liverpool we met every weekend and spent the day together, the memories i have from back then are magical and i wouldnt trade them in for anything. I love him because i know nobody would ever be able to make me feel the way he makes me feel, he is my best friend and although we have our ups and downs, we still stick together and when im not with him i long to be back with him. This is how i know its love.