Ladies, is it true that if the woman's relationship is not going well (arguing all the time) that a woman may not be able to be affectionate at all. Even if both parties may start the arguments/disagreements. Now remember, no relationship or person is perfect.
2007-07-03 09:26:05 · 18 answers · asked by donald c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What if the woman is doing things deliberately to irritate the man????
2007-07-03 09:49:53 · update #1
I think for the most part it's true. I know I get like that with my husband. If we start arguing a lot or having trouble, I emotionally start to put up a wall and affection is the last thing on my mind.
2007-07-03 09:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Amy L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people have disagreements, but it's not always what is said it's how it's said, then it could be just the opposite. Instead of trying to stop the arguing, just don't start. Make your own holiday, and allow each other to cater to each other, in the most simplest way to the most pleasurable way. Learn to listen, we love a listener and if don't understand tell her you don't understand what she's saying, then when she is trying to tell you for The 3 or 4th time reALly try to listen. Being affectionate does not start when the lights go off, it really starts at the beginning of the day, as you both are walking out the door for work, tell her to have a great day, with a small light blow behind the ear. It al starts with the small things
2007-07-03 16:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is definitely true. You see if a woman feel any hurt or feel slighted in anyway whatsoever, she will become withdrawn from not only you but the relationship. Believe it or not alot of woman don't really like to argue alot, it takes away from all the love that she is willing to give.
2007-07-03 16:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by LuvAll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think that is true. if you are constantly arguing over everything then why would you want to be affectionate to that person you are arguing with? i would be affectionate after the argument but not if it's happening all the time.
2007-07-03 16:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a woman who has found inner peace; someone who wants to share that with you & not be wasting precious time arguing.
Both of you are probably not right for each other if you have these disagreements all the time.
2007-07-03 16:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because I may argue with my spouse doesn't mean that I won't or may be affectionate with him....Being emotional is who I am and if I am upset it doesn't conflict with my feelings....I don't put up a guard to hide how I feel or not to show it either....Sometimes in life you have to leaen how to separate your emotions...One thing usually has nothing to do with another**
2007-07-03 17:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't put fighting dogs in a cage and expect them to play with each other, do you! A woman has to be in the right frame of mind to make love. she has to have good feelings for the guy she is going to make love to. Otherwise, hit the door Jack and don't come back!!!!
2007-07-03 16:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by The pink panther 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship is rocky all the time you don't feel affectionate; even men are like that. How can you feel intimate with someone who is always fighting with you?
2007-07-03 16:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am like that. Women have VERY long memories. And anything that is said in an argument will stay in my memory forever. It makes it very hard to be affectionate.
2007-07-03 16:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't say if it's true or false but i think that would depend on how deep the woman is scarred. not being affectionate could mean she's become really bitter or insecure or something like that.
2007-07-03 16:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by Dalm8ion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋