We do EVERYTHING thats in the book, any position he wants to try, we do, but its still not 'poppin' what do i need to do?
2007-07-03 09:08:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its called the Silver Bullet. It will solve all your problems.
2007-07-03 09:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? What fanntasies do YOU have that you would like to try?
Go one a couple of porn sites (free ones) and just see if anything looks intriguing. Check out some of the how-to books (you can get them cheap on amazon), and maybe read some erotica too.
But also make sure that you are both in the right frame of mind. It tends not to "pop" for anyone if they are tired, stressed out, or not feeling well.
2007-07-03 16:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could raunch it up with some videos or your could use seduction. If it "popped" at the beginning of your relationship - then recreate...the unknown or the newness made the "same sex " moves exciting.
Go on a "date" just you two... Get him to go somewhere and actually pick you up. Let him (or whomever is going to be in control) pick out the "date agenda". Come home - find another place to be - a bathtub that you both can fit in (-didn't say have sex) be blind folded. Let him bathe you, relax you - get out let him 'pat you dry" ... you have to trust him and wait for his next touch or whatever...let him tease you and build up the anticipation...you may start making the "good ole" positions...pop again.
2007-07-03 16:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by baseball mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it may be two things, If he is very interested and no other signs such as changes in behaviour then Its a problem with him which you both can discuss how to solve it. If not there may be someone outside and by the time he comes back he is not interested and its not as good as where he is coming from. So your work is cut out for you. Try and win back his heart.
2007-07-03 16:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by Layixter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go somewhere different like away to a romantic spa or try tantric sex hey even try mind sex without touching until you can't stand it. Make a video by yourself in something he likes or thinks there is something he wouldn't do around him hey ya never know.
2007-07-03 16:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by exoticflava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need a new "book" - LOL
Have the two of you tried going to the "adult store" together and seeing what new things you can find?
2007-07-03 16:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're doing the sex but are you handling the romance? Sometimes romance is what you need. Nice quiet evening, nice dinner, perhaps go park like you did in high school.
2007-07-03 16:12:01 · answer #7 · answered by rothe_jabbuk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try things you want, take control. Tell him he cant touch you, you do everything, if he touches you gently push him away. The control factor is a huge turn on as well.
2007-07-03 16:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop trying so hard, let it come to you. Enjoy the moment instead thinking about how to make it good. Half the mind that you spend trying to make it good you love the spontaneity.
2007-07-03 16:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a position that YOU want. That's how YOU get to the "pop".
2007-07-03 16:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by aa889d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋