My husband and i have been married 4 years are seperated 6 months.I have a daughter age 5 from a prior relationship but my husband and i have no children togethereven though we tried for 3 yrs with no luck.When i met my husband he seemed like the perfect guy everything i wanted including stability and i fell hard for him .But after we married something changed he became more moody ect.So I tried to comprimise more.He had a good job as a financial advisor so after 1.5 my husband felt my working was no longer needed(he's traditional) so i came home even though i did not want to mainly to avoid a fight.Then my husband started having anger managment issues nothing i did was right .He broke furniture,put hole in wall, and pushing me in fights.The fight that caused the seperation was when he came home late drunk.I locked him out of our bedroom he brought the door down he hit me across face took my hand dislocated some of my fingers.He came home last week and moved back wanting to try again?
2007-07-03 09:06:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I came home and he had moved back in without my permission?He claims he has changed been in therapy and wants to try again wont take no for an answer?I want a divorce though and am unsure how to tell him i am afraid of him?
2007-07-03 09:09:55 · update #1
What do you want him to kill ya next???? Get out of the relationship, before it happens. What makes you think he is going to change? Sorry to tell , it's easy to say, then to do.
2007-07-03 09:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by boozer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel bad for you. Sounds like you need to get out of that relationship as soon as you can. No man should ever have the right to put their hands on a woman like that. I would get family or friends to help you get out. He will know what he is missing when you are gone. Good luck to you!
2007-07-03 09:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by love_my_kracker! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's clear that he is getting more abusive. I would not let it accelerate any further particularly because you have a child I am assuming in the house if not full time but part time. That child doesn't need to be subjected to that kind of violence whether it is directed at you or God forbid her. Get the hell out of there now!
2007-07-03 09:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by christinerene118 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you file charges against him with the Police*... I believe you need to terminate this relationship ASAP*... Contact Shelter for abused women*...
2007-07-03 12:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. He's already hurt you - what makes you think he'll stop?? He hasn't changed.
Cut your losses and move on.
Think about this - what if he ever did that to your daughter? Would you want that to possibly happen??
Move ON!!!
2007-07-03 09:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave now call the law now
2007-07-03 09:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋