Marriage & Divorce - 3 July 2007

I have been having unprotected sex with another lover for the past 6 months. Is there any way I can find out who the father is without my husband knowing? Specifically I was hoping for a fetal DNA test. I love the other man, but he doesn’t possess the financial or housing support for my impending baby, so I would prefer to stay with my husband. I think my husband has been having sex with other women so I don’t feel that bad about cheating on him. The other man looks like my husband, so do you think my husband will notice the difference if he is not the biological father?

2007-07-03 17:40:49 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

and he has been divorced twice and the third lady has left him because he is sterile does that mean he is "gay"?

2007-07-03 17:32:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't think he likes me very much. I try to include him in all of our family activities but, he never has much to do with me. I don't know what else to do. Any ideas?

2007-07-03 17:30:58 · 20 answers · asked by ncgirl 3

2007-07-03 17:20:57 · 4 answers · asked by pgrinvands 1

I now know 8 couples 2 ( my sister & wifes Uncle) couples are family members all of witch have been in either an open marriage or swinging and all are now divorce or getting divorced!

Is it me or don't people think about what the the "WHAT IF" part of the equation?

MY ADMISSION I'M AGAINST THE WHOLE IDEA AND WONT HAVE FRIENDS IN MY HOME WHO SWING OR HAVE AN OPEN MARRIAGE BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPEN TO MY NEPHEW, HIS SAFETY AND OUR KIDS WILL ALWAYS BE FIRST!

My questions are these:

1) If your in a SWINGING or OPEN MARRIAGE why?
a) what do you get out of it?
b) If you family found out and strongly objected would you stop or continue your way of life?

2) Does anyone know of a successful couple who swing or are in an open marriage? __EXPLAIN PLEASE__
a) Have tried to get you to participate?

3) Does anyone here know of a couple, friends or family that tried this and lost everything family included?
Like my Sister or uncle? __EXPLAIN__

Not trying to throw stones.
Want explanation.

2007-07-03 17:20:29 · 8 answers · asked by Free-Lance 5

If so, what is it?

2007-07-03 17:16:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He already knows how compassionate, charming etc. she is..
He has a high inclination that she likes him.
He had flirted with her.

2007-07-03 17:09:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

..YOU Love him when he has had a bad wife in the past, and he isn't ready for a relationship..How do you little by little keep showing your interest in him???

2007-07-03 17:07:21 · 7 answers · asked by franj 2

2007-07-03 17:05:13 · 10 answers · asked by firestriker 2

I am in love with a man that has been seperated for over a year, but the divorce is not final. He cheated on her, then she cheated on him. They say it is over, but he is still in love with her. She recently started seeing someone new. Is there any hope for me with him? Or am I being naive?

2007-07-03 17:02:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok....If ur a virgin when u get married then ur husband dies(based on the bibble)are u considered a virgin(christ wise) again n therefore have to wait untill you're married to have sex again or are u eligible somehow to just sleep with whoever you choose????

2007-07-03 16:57:36 · 9 answers · asked by shanaycain2000 2

2007-07-03 16:57:05 · 16 answers · asked by broken heart 2

2007-07-03 16:55:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 16:50:14 · 24 answers · asked by broken heart 2

I had 2 babies pretty much back to back (Jan '06 and Feb'07) and I find since I've had the last one that my self esteem is shot. While I was pregnant with him I found out that my husband was "cheating" online and over the phone with his ex gf (who lives in another province) and would do so the minute I left the house to go to dr's appt's that he would never go to and close to the end of that pregnancy he had called one of my friends and approached her on having sex. Since all of that I am always paranoid about my looks, body image etc. I wont get naked in front of him or let him see all of me if we are having sex. I find I am very moody, paranoid and also CONSTANTLY checking his cell, emails, IM chats etc. He swears it'll never happen again (yeah right). Whenever I try to talk about my feelings he either changes the subject or walks away. Has anyone ever encountered this and how do you fix this type of situation? Please help, it's ripping me apart! :(

2007-07-03 16:39:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and I have been together for 3 years. I live in the US and my partner lives in another country that does not allow for registered partnership of the same sex. We would like to register our partnership in the US but we are not sure if it is possible, since my partner is not a US citizen. Can some one advise (if, how, and where).

2007-07-03 16:38:13 · 2 answers · asked by s w 2

I'm concerned because my husband said to me the other day (after I asked him why he didn't come to me for sex any more) that he has just matured and doesn't need it as much anymore. Is that actually possible? Or should I be concerned something is wrong? He claims, he's just tired of being turned down, so he doesn't want to try anymore. Although I rarely, if ever, turn him down. So I want to know what's up. By the way, we've been married 5 years and he is 28 and I'm 24.

2007-07-03 16:29:31 · 26 answers · asked by mommyem 4

my girlfriends son has his girlfriend knocked up, sorry for the harsh wording but its a very touchy subject with a lot of frustration. Is she being my girlfriend, still responsible for his actions. He has already been in trouble with the law and so on she is worried that if he gets out of her house and gets into trouble, will she get in trouble for him being a minor or will he be considered a adult

2007-07-03 16:29:23 · 6 answers · asked by caryrg72 1

hey guys, i was wondering how long you have been married, what is your secret that makes your marriage work...and what is the biggest obstical that you have ever gotten over, thank you ....

2007-07-03 16:29:00 · 16 answers · asked by justajewelll 2

So I'm a US Marine. I was just in the field doing training for 18 days. And during that time my wife was raped by one of her friend's friends. Now she doesn't want to be affectionate or have sex, or even barely touch me. I have been nothing but a great husband to her. What do I do to help her? She doesn't want anyone to know, and probably won't seek counseling. What can I do to ease the pain she's feeling, and how do I ease her back into having an affectionate relationship with me? Hopefully I can do it before August 27th, because I head to another base to train for 4 months, then I deploy to Iraq for 14 months.

2007-07-03 16:22:42 · 31 answers · asked by kevin 1

2007-07-03 16:20:31 · 27 answers · asked by wisdom 3

She was depressed from her childhood, I guess she was sexually assaulted, because of that she was always an ego maniac and a very angry person, Her husband was so nice trying to get her treated , but she threatedned him with suicide attempts ,and she threatened she would even kill her kids when her husband is not at home., she was physically and emotionally very abusive to her kids and her husband... the poor husband in this case looking for the kids safety left her alone ......after that she went thru psycho therapy and lived for last 2 years without being allowed to meet her kids..... she still loves her husband and wishes she could get her life back on track as she wsa sober for last 2 years ...... what do you think she should do, there was no any legal action in the family separation just happened without any doctors or cops involved and the husband took sole responsibility to support her so far.... but he doesnt contact her anymore ..... she is sober and wishes to get her family

2007-07-03 16:17:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

the reason why i ask is because he always thought he was too old to have another kid when he's daughter is 25, and 29 yrs old.

2007-07-03 16:17:32 · 29 answers · asked by lynda 1

My husband recently went on a trip to Shanghai (with his MBA class group) and several of the nights he was out REALLY late... like 2-3 a.m. late.

I was totally cool with it the 1st night, because I understand he was with a group and wanted to have a little fun. But I did tell himt that I hoped he wouldn't do it again... but he did, 2 days later.

I tried to explain to him that it wasn't that I didn't trust him. It wasn't like I think he was cheating or anything. But he is a married man, with a young child and he is a business professional. I just don't think he has any reason to be out drinking at bars in China at 2 a.m... it is irresponsible. What if he got mugged, or got his passport stolen, or was just in the wrong place at the wrong time?

After the 2nd time I was really angry - but instead of being sorry he was angry at me. Saying I was miserable at home without him... therefore I must want him to miserable too. He said I just didn't understand... am I wrong?

2007-07-03 16:12:21 · 14 answers · asked by Heather L 2

2007-07-03 16:03:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He have been cheating for over 7 years. I have had a stroke and quadtruple bypass, which my doctor say came from stress. What should I do?

2007-07-03 16:03:21 · 21 answers · asked by rubyhurting 1

I have been married for 12 years. Several years ago my husband and I were having some difficulties and we separated for a few months. During this time, the wife of my husband's best friend introduced my H to another woman. My H began seeing the woman. I know it wasn't a serious relationship, but I was still deeply hurt. I was also hurt because the best friend's wife has/is always been VERY rude to me and I don't know why. Fast forward to present day, my husband and I are getting along and trying to put the past behind us. However, he continues to hang around with his bf, bf's wife and many of the people who used to know the other woman. I don't know what to do because this makes me very uncomfortable. I try to be pleasant whenever I am around these people, but I always feel embarassed. I often find myself starting an argument with my husband so I don't have to attend any of his friends's parties/trips..and ultimately I just end up alone. should I just get over it..wwyd..thanks

2007-07-03 15:57:18 · 8 answers · asked by Molly 1

Ok so I was married for about 6 years and recently the divorce was final. We separated for about 2+ years before we finalized it. now that its final and my ex and I both have other relationships he wants to hang out and calls me a few times a week. We have no children and didnt talk the whole time we were separtated with a few exceptions. Why all of a sudden is he wanting to be buddy buddy? I like him as a person but am confused...

2007-07-03 15:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by Miranda's Mommy 5

I'm engaged to a really great guy. We've had our issues in the past, but we are working through them. Recently, however, I've seemed to be attracted to the lure of other guys. Especially a close friend that I was involved with a few years ago. I ended the relationship with him, and I've never, ever looked back...until recently. Though we share a unique history, I thought I was done with him. Lately, I've become so attracted to him, and it appears to be mutual. I want to spend more time around him and just be near him. This feels like a crush, and I haaven't had one of those in years! I don't want to do anything to hurt my fiance, and I don't want to be physically involved with this other guy; I just want to be in his company...I enjoy being near him. I'm shocked at myself because I hardly ever have a "crush"...I don't even look at other guys...but I feel so overwhelmed when I think of this guy. How do I get him off of my mind?

2007-07-03 15:50:58 · 10 answers · asked by Missy 3

OK, so I have made up my mind to divorce my husband of 11 years. We have been heading toward this for years. The thing is, he won't leave the house. We are living in it rent free, thanks to my parents. And he has gotten accustomed to my money paying for all the bills and all and his money going toward his hobbies. When I asked a law enforcer what I could do, he said nothing really because we were married. Thing is, I have filed for divorce, but he won't sign (or hasn't yet). How can I get him to leave my house. Because it is kinda like a drug addiction, I can't live with the drug and expect me to stay away. And he makes all these promises, like he has a million times before, but for some sick twisted reason, I get weak and want to believe him! I have 3 kids also. Help!!

2007-07-03 15:45:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous