Marriage & Divorce - 3 July 2007

My wife and i are currently getting a divorce. She is staying at her moms house and we have shared custody right now. My wife is great at taking care of my daughter. She views the same back. My wife has a brother who has a violent history. Recently he was evicted from his apartment and my wifes mom is letting him move back in. My daughter is 2 and she likes to do a playful scream sometimes. Its loud but she likes hearing herself. The brother (her uncle) thought we should discipline her for making the scream. But my wife and i both agreed on no spanking or anything violent for discipline. Yesterday during when she was doing her little screamies. My wife and the brother got into an arguement. And during he the brother muzzled my daughter to get her to stop screaming. Then my wife tried to get him to stop. But he pushed her down and my daughter started crying. He wouldnt let my daughter go. Finally my wifes mom (his mom) came in and he let go. Does this qualify for him breaking any law??

2007-07-03 03:05:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 03:01:29 · 22 answers · asked by tisya 4

Okay. I'm 27, known my husband 16 months, got married last oct, got a house in november and i've been miserable ever since. I left him on june 6th for two days and went back thinking it might be a wake up call. Yeah right. He has no desire for sex and said that's his antidepressants. But he hasn't made an apt to get them changed. He has an apt with a urologist to talk about that problem. He can't get it up. We've tried Viagra and that doens't work every time. Then when it does he said he doesn't feel anything anyway so why do it! On top of that.. he's disabled with ms, he is not in a wheel chair, he doesn't work. So he said he's be mr mom. (there's no kids). Well its a fight usually to get him to even vacuum the living room. He thinks the marriage can work without intamacy. I work 8-5 and he sleep most of the day and is up half the night. He never goes to bed with me. anyway.. i went to a lawyer last night and filed for an anulment! how do i tell him? I'm going to the shore

2007-07-03 02:31:18 · 47 answers · asked by catdogpenny 3

The contract would be like for one year, three years or five years and if things aren't working so great at the end of the contract you just shake hands and walk away. If things are working out fairly well but there are things that one partner wants to change that could be negotiated in the new contract negotiations.

Seems to me that this would make for much healthier relationships and eliminate the way people become complacent, unloving and lazy after marrage.

So would you like this arrangement better?

2007-07-03 02:30:35 · 10 answers · asked by ninebadthings 7

My boyfriend recently started a new job. He works full time, goes to school at night and spends the majority of his weekends working on his business. This leaves very little free time for the two of us to spend together. Well, he is off of school this week. We spoke yesterday during work & both planned to be home shortly after work. I called him 30 after he got off. He did not answer his phone either time. I went home to work out & called him back 2 hours after he was supposed to be off of work. He finally answers & says he is hanging out with his boss & will be home later. The story seemed fishy to me & I was angry. Why not answer your phone if you are just hanging out with another guy? Or at least call back to say that you will be late? He gets home & tells me that I have no right to be mad. That I am immature & possessive. He then tells me that his boss has invited him to go to a bar tonight. To be continued.......

2007-07-03 02:21:12 · 14 answers · asked by Sophie 3

ok, here is my life story..lol. I have 4 children and I am pregnant with number 5. I was with my kids father for 8 years and we were happy and wanted a big family..then he cheated on me...so anyways i left him and then ran into an old school friend. We reconnected from there. We have been together for 18 months now. I am also 5 months pregnant with his baby. Things were and have been going great until last month when he started hanging out with "bad' people at work. They are single and really just party all the time. He started drinking which he hasnt done in 10 years. Once he took that first drink he has not been able to stop. He has been lying and decieving me ever since. Well 2 weeks ago he slept with another girl he met at a bar. He told me he was drunk and when he sobered up he realized what he had done, etc. BUt he still does what he wants but begs me to stay. his mom is blaming it all on me?? what should I do?

2007-07-03 02:16:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 02:04:06 · 13 answers · asked by Damodar Kalani 1

My husband and I have both been married previously, we both have children with our ex's, but none together. Does any one find it odd that My husbands ex wife took pictures of my kids (which has nothing to do with her and she lives in another state) off of my 360 blog and put on her myspace page? Why would she possibly want to, and she even put under my son's picture her own childs name???? How should I handle this or should I say anything at all?

2007-07-03 01:49:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 01:43:56 · 19 answers · asked by tbm5 5

They appear as a loving couple in public. He act as a caring person, he talks to his clients how great she is. But then she calls me and tells me he's indifferent at home, he can come home late, doesn't explain where he's been, doesn't do stuff around the house except for when company is supposed to be over and she had enough and refuses to be a slave in the house so he can have fun with friends. I have reasons to believe her, because I've known her since hight school. She had a nice career, but when they got marriedand had kids he wanted to become the provider, and she didn't go back to her great job. Now she's also financially dependent. He got credit cards in her name and ran them all up. He went and helped his sister to paint her house (what a nice guy) and then came home and got drunk. He calls her names and hits her so that there are no bruises. She's afraid to call the police because she's afraid to make him mad. Plus she was told that they will take her to shelter and not him

2007-07-03 00:31:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should a wife feel it is acceptable for her husband to travel for a week to see his children in another state - staying in a "hotel" or with his Ex-wife that is not married, which ever one actually happens. And he wants to do this traveling 1-2 times a year.

2007-07-03 00:28:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous