Marriage & Divorce - 3 July 2007

still friends she just fell out of love I guess.

2007-07-03 07:07:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has not admitted to it but i can't trust him anymore. i have no feelings for the guy. I am also pregnant 5 months pregnant by him. I see him everyday as we work at the same place. We no longer live together and i am thinking og divorce after 7 months of marriage. My daughter is is doing excellent in school and is very happy when he is not at home. She is not his child, how do i go about keeping him from coming to spend the weekend every fortnight?

2007-07-03 07:07:17 · 31 answers · asked by beautyfulrose 1

2007-07-03 07:03:26 · 39 answers · asked by wisdom 3

does he play computer games every night or does he not just seem bothered about romance anymore ha blooming ha

2007-07-03 06:54:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love foreplay and would like to spend hours doing it but after a couple of min. she wants sex. She won't even let me give her oral for more than a couple of min. What's the deal, most women fuss about not enough foreplay and my wife won't let me do it. Ladies how can I get more foreplay?

2007-07-03 06:41:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just read another posting and thought yet again about the changes in today's thinking..

Most men wouldn't want their woman with another man, yet at least here it seems that they are turned on by two women... Men - what do you think?

Women - seems these days more women are interested in other women and think its more okay to be with a woman than a man (while in a relationship with a man)... What do you think?

2007-07-03 06:41:33 · 28 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

My ex was able to. He moved on from a 28 year relationship when he fell in love with somebody else. He turned stoned cold to me the day he told me he was leaving. And to this day he remains stone cold with no sign of the love he had for me. I look into his eyes and it's gone. For those of you who have been able to do this, how did you? It's been a year for me and the love is still there deep in my heart. And it causes me nothing but pain now.

2007-07-03 06:37:35 · 20 answers · asked by wc2ketey 3

2007-07-03 06:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by bris 3

My husband is still in touch with two or three girls that he has dated, tho none that he's slept with (that I know of LOL) and we've even gone to one girl's wedding. I know a lot of women that can't handle their husbands or boyfriends talking to their exes. What is up with this? If you're happy, in love, and feel the same is reciprocated, what does it matter if they still talk?

2007-07-03 06:23:25 · 18 answers · asked by UpsideDownGirl 1

We've been together a long time so all of our debt is OURS. About $35,000 plus our mortgage with no equity. What do I do to get out of this?!?

2007-07-03 06:10:14 · 18 answers · asked by mary rachel 1

would you handle the situation? Your wife belittles you in front of everyone and you have a couple of good friends, one of which is a female (friendz only). She is jealous and wants you to not talk to your girl-friend anymore. What would you do? I'm on the friend end here and I'm also married. There's no reason to be jealous b/c we're all friends but she ruins everything with her attitude. She's almost bi-polar (ish). It has been this way since before we all became friends according to "him". She doesn't have to work and he does everything in his power to please her and she treats him like dirt. I want to help but I don't want to be in the middle of a bad situation. Sorry if this sounds like I'm rambling but I'm working and trying to hide the fact I'm in Y/A! LOl!

2007-07-03 06:09:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 06:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by ICHKHAN H 2

Let me start off by saying that I am truly in love with my wife, but I have always had a minor attraction to her sister (2 years younger). It was never anything serious, but lately, I have been fantasizing about her. Whenever she is around I keep checking her out. There are even times when she initiates sexual playful banter with me.

She is unmarried and right now is not seeing anyone. So she is over at our house a lot. I'm getting to the point where it is harder for me to be around her because I'm afraid something might happen.

Am I worried about nothing or do you guys think this is a real problem? What should I do? Has anyone experienced a situation like this?

Serious advice please!

2007-07-03 05:59:33 · 26 answers · asked by C-243 2

My husband and I have been growing apart for some time now. We don't have sex. He doesn't give me any attention at all, unless we are fighting. I have developed a crush on a friend of ours, ( i wIll not persue him). Our friend has a crush on me also and it feels nice to have a man attracted to me. How do I get back to a good marriage with my husband so I can feel good about myself with my husband? I know for a fact that I would not be attracted to this friend If my husband and I had a somewhat good marriage. He will not go to councilling

2007-07-03 05:45:34 · 25 answers · asked by Marygoroun(d) 6

I am staying home temporarily (for a few months) and am a homemaker at this point. I am not very disciplined at getting things done. It has caused a lot of conflict between me and my spouse. I get very bored and lonely during the day and a lot of times don't accomplish most of the housework.

2007-07-03 05:25:25 · 13 answers · asked by ar_cross1 1

I recently stepped out side of my marriage to be with an old love who i haven't seen in many years. When we were younger his family moved to another state. This person was the love of my life, my first love, the person i gave my virginity to and i had always said that if i ever seen him again i wouldn't let him get away. unfortunately because it's been 10 years i got married to someone else. after seeing this person i realize i still love him. i have no plans on leaving my husband because now there are children involved. I do love my husband but i want to stay in contact with this person. What are your thoughts? I know cheating is wrong and all that other stuff a lot of people on here like to say but my feelings and emotions are out of control. I need some realistic advice.

2007-07-03 05:19:48 · 23 answers · asked by Mouthwatering 1 1

when he got engaged the first time he gave this woman a ring of $5.500.00, but they never got married he broke up with her and asked her the ring back, when he asked me to marry him he gave me a nice ring but it cost $1.100.00 no even half of hers. What can I do to don't feel so much anger because of that?

2007-07-03 05:03:51 · 32 answers · asked by bridgettestefan680 3

Would you say hello, walk out or sit down and dont take notice of them at all?

Would it make you jealous in any way or perhaps your ex is dressed in such a way which shows they put effort into themselves but never did when they were with you?

Would any of these things bother you atall? Has this ever happend to you?

2007-07-03 04:39:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was in a very abbusuve marrige will i ever be happy again its been a few years ?

2007-07-03 04:30:20 · 13 answers · asked by cynthia ? 2

my soon to be ex is a little psycho. she has a mental disorder that she refused to get help with. after she left, she kept coming into the house and getting things. i changed the locks because things kept disappearing. now i'm telling her let the attorneys sort it out to get what you want. give me a list, i'll move all if it out in the garage and that will be that. she wants in the house for some reason. this woman is an emotional wreck. she also wants to come over and be there alone with me while she picks up the stuff. i told the attorney no i don't trust her, she'll claim abuse if i'm with her alone. she already did that for no reason. she is now freaking out and wants me to be there with her and wants in the house. I said no, this is standard when i can't trust you not to clean me out or claim abuse. normally i would not do this but like i said she has a disorder. is this the right thing to do? she seems to want anything on me to justify her behavior. she has hit me before.

2007-07-03 04:27:00 · 13 answers · asked by survivor 1

we have been together nearly 2 years and been living together in my house since january .he also has his own house that he rents out ( mortage paid) i have 2 children not his. we sat down and worked out what he would give me each month for bills excluding the mortage but still havent got anything from him.i did have savings but they are going down with paying for all the bills plus the childrens stuff and all the extras that come with being a couple. i am on a little more money than him but do you think i should still approch this subject and well how to do it.

2007-07-03 04:10:30 · 42 answers · asked by helen l 1

If it's really separate, then why do you mind if your wife or girlfriend sees someone else?

Ladies' replies are very welcome as well.

2007-07-03 03:59:50 · 13 answers · asked by Wretched Bonsai 2

2007-07-03 03:55:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I were married at the beginning of this year, after dating for about a year and a half. We've known each other nearly all of our lives - we had lost contact for nearly 20 years. About a month after we married we found out she was pregnant - it will be my first, her fourth. Since then her feelings for me have apparently changed and now she can barely stand the sight of me. I realize she is dealing with a difficult pregnancy (we're both a little older), and I hear that her hormones are all over the place. She told me that she's lost respect for me (I lost my job after 10 years 2 weeks after we married, though I have a good job now), that she doesn't think I'm funny at all (though everyone else in my life does), and that I'm "too much of a woman" because I express my emotions (I lost my sister 6 months ago and had a health scare myself a month after we married, so I'm a little stressed). She still talks to her ex every day and sees no problem with it -I'm just at a loss.

2007-07-03 03:42:03 · 13 answers · asked by cornbreadsalad 2

2007-07-03 03:32:00 · 35 answers · asked by Wisdom 4

My ex- husband and I divorced many years ago, now I find myself having thought of him all the time, We were only married 3 years my parents and family did not like him, his family all hated me.I found out while we were married he had numerous affairs with other women. I left him for another man it's really complcated I had a baby by the man I left him for.He has been married several times and has several children by all his other wives. He wrote me after he found out I had my child who will be 25 in August and asked me to come back to him. I told him no but in the back of my mind I still have feelings for him, I have found out the man I left him for is no better than he was He has also ran around on me. I have been given Clamidia by him at least 10 times. But do to my health and the crap this man has done I am afraid to leave him. Because I can't keep a job my health is not good enough I work one day end up in bed for several.Have tried for disability but turned down there.

2007-07-03 03:29:41 · 7 answers · asked by bjwill72961 2

Okay, my guy came by this morning and surprised me, got me all worked up, then ran out the door to work... Here's the link: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjWJaTErReTvu8R9VlaXtJDsy6IX?qid=20070703065355AAKE1Ar

SO, HOW DO I RETURN THE FAVOR - IDEAS TO MAKE HIM HOT AND LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE...

Please email suggestions that might be a little suggestive for answers.

2007-07-03 03:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by onehotmama 1

I have always worked, ever since he was 3 months old. I am now only working 3 days but leaving in the morning on those days. He starts crying the night before i have to work, telling me how much he will miss me. He wakes up all night long those nights and then in the morning seems to know right when i am leaving and jumps out of bed and chases me to the car, crying hysterically. I am not sure what to do anymore but it is affecting his sleep and my work status. Not sure what to do anymore!!!

2007-07-03 03:26:05 · 17 answers · asked by Kerry D 1

me n my hubby took rides together but there were some rides on which i felt scared my husband went away with his friend's wife.As he is fond of scary rides n so is his friend's wife they both went to all the scary rides together.I wanted to go to the less scary one and my husband didn't take interest going there n he took me everywhre after he was done his rides with the lady.I can't tell you but I was so furious on that.I hope u understand why?Is it normal 4 me to feel like that or I was wrong there is nothing to feel bad about this.I ask u all men n women.And when we came home we had a big fight.What u guys think?

2007-07-03 03:11:29 · 16 answers · asked by dimpy 1

2007-07-03 03:09:04 · 11 answers · asked by paraordinate 2