2007-07-03 03:09:04 · 11 answers · asked by paraordinate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Start improving your self esteem and/or correct aspects of your personality that are deficient. Why don't you feel you deserve her? Do you treat her badly? Do you treat her worse than someone else would? What does she have to "put up with" with you?
My guess is that the only thing she has to put up with is a guy that isn't confident enough in himself, and that IS a problem.
Until you realize that you have a lot to offer someone and that the person you are with has flaws just as you do, you are NOT ready to get married. Seriously.
And that's coming from a guy who has been married for a month to a WONDERFUL woman, but one who has flaws. I don't have the issues you do, because I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that NO ONE appreciates her the way that I do, and no one would treat her better.
2007-07-03 03:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, don't worry if you don't think you deserve her. I'm sure you do. As long as you're a faithful guy who thinks her happiness is important, that's all that matters. Just know that she loves you and finds you a very deserving guy or else she wouldn't be with you. Be with her and be happy =)
2007-07-03 03:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Bats 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi....
if you are engaged, then apparently, she thinks YOU are wonderful... otherwise she'd not have accepted.
if you feel "not good enough" in several aspects of your life, you might consider counseling. you could also do a websearch for SELF-ESTEEM on the internet.
sometimes we are a little down on ourselves, and it's not very healthy.
i am sure you are a very good person..... and i hope you will be able to look upon yourself as such one day very soon.
take care of you and enjoy your fiancee.... take care.
2007-07-03 03:20:42 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set this goal: make yourself into the kind of man worthy of your fiance. Then, follow through every day of your life. When you wake up each morning, ask yourself, "What can I do today to make myself into a better man?" Come up with something specific and then do it. If you follow through with this idea, you will become progressively happier with yourself, your self-esteem will increase, and your fiance's love for you will deepen.
2007-07-03 03:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Happy-2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strive every day to be the great man she deserves. Before you know it, you will truly be worthy
2007-07-03 03:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is with you, you deserve her, as long as she is happy. Just be thankful you found her and be sure to keep on keeping on - because you must be doin' somethin' right! ;)
2007-07-03 03:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So long as you continue to think this way about her, you'll always love her and not take her for granted. And that's a good thing.
2007-07-03 03:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't think you can treat her right and be 100% faithful, cut her loose.
2007-07-03 03:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by Indiana Jones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remenber how you feel in ten years .never tell somone you adore them show them
2007-07-03 03:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by henryredwons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right,you don't,so dump her!!!
2007-07-03 04:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋