i was in a very abbusuve marrige will i ever be happy again its been a few years ?
2007-07-03 04:30:20 · 13 answers · asked by cynthia ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There’s a difference between a regular guy, and a decent guy. A regular guy treats you like a beautiful flower, one that smells nice, and is very attractive and desirable. A decent guy will treat you like a princess, and obey as he interacts with you. Remember, the princess will one day rule, a flower wilts and dies.
Decent guys like it when you’re blunt. There are a few of us out there. Give us time, one of us will find you and make you smile again.
2007-07-03 04:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you will. Have you thought about getting some counseling to help you resolve your feelings? It helped me tremendously.
My ex-husband was physically, emotionally, psychologically, and sexually abusive, and when I finally worked up the courage to leave him, he kidnapped our son!
Counseling helped me get all of my anger and trust issues addressed, along with learning how to recognize that "type" of person, so that I never became involved with another psycho like that.
It took me 10 years, but I'm married to a great man, who is NOTHING like my ex-husband, and while not every day is a "10," very few of them are below a "5."
Good luck.
2007-07-03 04:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes honey - you will. It will take time and some nurturing from yourself. You did not deserve to be abused and I am glad for you that you are no longer with him. Do things that make you happy and things that will make you feel good about yourself. Get strong so that you no longer accept any abuse in a relationship. You will make it - good luck!!!!
2007-07-03 04:46:06 · answer #3 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be happy now if you are not in the abusive situation any more. Only you can make you happy. You don't need another person to do that, another person can complete you and help you but not "make" you happy. Trust your instincts and yourself.
2007-07-03 04:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by hootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy just to get him out of your life! Glad you did! Still, you may need to speak with someone because once you have experienced this, it leaves a whole lot of emotional scarring! It will take time for it to lessen.
2007-07-03 04:35:15 · answer #5 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be happy again!! Plus now you will be able to spot an abusive relationship before it goes south.
2007-07-03 04:35:02 · answer #6 · answered by JoJo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will happen. give it time. maybe look into counseling. i'm sure it's hard to trust after such a relationship and a therapist who deals with such things can help.not all guys are like that. not by a long shot.
2007-07-03 04:35:09 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure u will. U'll b careful and not as easily fooled this time around. Good luck
2007-07-03 04:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,
2007-07-03 04:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you start dating me , I'm the man you been looking for all alone . All you got to do is call me you have my number .......Dear.
2007-07-03 09:06:44 · answer #10 · answered by samb2468 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋