I have been having weird dreams about my ex husband we have been divorced 26 years what could this be from?

Question

My ex- husband and I divorced many years ago, now I find myself having thought of him all the time, We were only married 3 years my parents and family did not like him, his family all hated me.I found out while we were married he had numerous affairs with other women. I left him for another man it's really complcated I had a baby by the man I left him for.He has been married several times and has several children by all his other wives. He wrote me after he found out I had my child who will be 25 in August and asked me to come back to him. I told him no but in the back of my mind I still have feelings for him, I have found out the man I left him for is no better than he was He has also ran around on me. I have been given Clamidia by him at least 10 times. But do to my health and the crap this man has done I am afraid to leave him. Because I can't keep a job my health is not good enough I work one day end up in bed for several.Have tried for disability but turned down there.

Answer 1

Sounds to me like you should just steer clear of men for awhile.

Answer 2

One of the funny things about memory is that over time the bad ones fade and the good ones linger. When life is not going well, it's natural to think back to better times. Despite your problems with your ex, you had some good times and, as you said, you still have feelings for him. It's natural to be groping, even unconsciously, for some way to make your life better. We dream what we know. Maybe you'd really like to meet a nice, reliable, loyal, healthy man, who will take care of you and love you. But you don't know who that might be. So you're mind works with the material it has, whcih is the good memories of your ex.

Your situation sounds really tough. I hope you can find some help soon. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

To dream approximately your ex-boyfriend indicates that some thing or any person to your present existence is bringing out equivalent emotions to those you felt within the courting along with your ex. The dream is also some way of alerting you to the identical or equivalent habits in a present courting. What you discovered from that prior courting would possibly have got to be carried out to the gift one in order that you don't repeat the identical mistake. If you dreamed of having again along with an ex, see "Reuniting."

Answer 4

With the problems you are experiencing at home, your mind turns back to your last love. Why, I haven't a clue, but it always does. I would divorce him, take what I could and then get help from elsewhere. There are many agencies that will help in situations like these. You have proof that he has run around on you, and due to your health, you are likely to get spousal support from him.

Answer 5

It means you are wanting a better life and you think that guy could have given it to you, even though it would have been the same as your life is now because you ran out and married the same type of guy.

Answer 6

he might have been the best lay you ever had,, people put too much stock in dreams, I still think about my College love and my HS love, it is pretty common to have a brain during sleep think of things that were past, after all we are what we have learned to become,,

leave the man you are with, if you are not happy, , because only you can make you happy,, no one else can do it,

Answer 7

You have deep regrets in your life and you are trying to find the point when it turned in the direction it went. This is not about your ex or your current man. It's about you and your self respect. You've failed yourself and your subconscious mind is trying to make you see that so you can change it.