Would you say hello, walk out or sit down and dont take notice of them at all?
Would it make you jealous in any way or perhaps your ex is dressed in such a way which shows they put effort into themselves but never did when they were with you?
Would any of these things bother you atall? Has this ever happend to you?
2007-07-03 04:39:29 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't take notice. They are your ex, and who cares what THEY are doing now that they aren't with you. Move along
2007-07-03 04:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Faither 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear J Mc. If I saw my ex with another man, I would do nothing except give a polite hello in passing, then take a seat and eat my lunch. Becoming jealous is not my way of life, if someone no longer wants to be with me that is there loss, I know the qualities I can and all are good. As for clothing, well at least she put her hand into her own pocket and brought a decent set of clothes. This would not bother me in any way, I would continue my lunch as if they weren't there,
Good Luck>>>David
2007-07-03 07:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by David Wilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would imagine that it would depend on the nature of the relationship and how it ended. Also on how I still felt about him. Though I am now married I have an ex that I was very much in love with, and still honestly care very much for him. If I saw him having lunch with someone I have to admit I think I'd have a twinge of painful jealousy, then I'd have to remember what a wonderful and loving husband I have. If I were single then I imagine it would hurt much much more. Even still, I'd probably walk over and say hi to them both. Never let em see you sweat you know? Act as if.
2007-07-03 05:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart would jump out of my chest and I am not sure if i would leave or go say hi. I think I would see my self walking out without saying hello. Unless I know I look good today, or if I have a sex man with me. lol. I would be jealous but I know that I moved on and doing great and I am proud of my life and where its at so I think I would have the confidence to say hello and know that i have a better man know and it's his lost. Plus I know she will never be the person I was nice, smart, sweet, caring, and not a hoe or a cheater. He is the pass and that's all to it.
2007-07-03 04:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by gia00601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore them and go on with myself or if seeing them bothered me I would just leave as soon as possible. He is your ex now and I have no controll over what he is doing in his life as well as he has no controll over mine. I would not allow him any power in my life anymore or give him the satisfaction of knowing that he could get to me in any way. Even if seeing this could bother me I would never let him know that. My ex done this to me one time .....my sister died and he brought his new girlfriend with him to the funneral. She had never met my sister and there the two of them were. I was feeling so down that day and just let it all go. I was nice thanked him for coming and made it look as if he didn't bother me there at all. I think that behavior gets to them more than anything when you show you don't care about him one way or another. Best wishes sweetie.
2007-07-03 05:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that he must have either gotten her drunk, drugged her or paid her to accompany him to lunch, lol. Would it bother me? Not even remotely.:) Although I would feel sorry for the new girl. After being with him for six years..I know how he treats women. Personally, I would be happy to see that he had found someone else to obsess about.:)
2007-07-03 05:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be an adult about it...if contact is made, I would say hello and move on to my table...maybe send them a drink...the past is the past...do you want to be the butthole ex boyfriend or the nice guy that sent them a drink/desert?
2007-07-03 04:45:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say hi. After all, at one time we were very close, so treat him with the common courtesy of any other person.
It wouldn't make me jealous or bother me...and yes I've had this happen to me.
2007-07-03 04:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say hello whilst passing them or give a wave, and then I wouldn't take any notice. I'd be happy for him/her and I wouldn't be jealours because they became my ex for a reason.
2007-07-03 05:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, cause thats my Ex for a reason,
I may say hello to be pollite but nothing more than that.
and I probally would not even do that, maybe if he seen me.
2007-07-03 12:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by Delightful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well depends how u split up in the first place,if u split up on good terms then u could say hi but if tht would be too hard the n take no notice
2007-07-03 05:27:57 · answer #11 · answered by jlo31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋