Marriage & Divorce - 3 July 2007

2007-07-03 15:41:39 · 20 answers · asked by amethyst 1

2007-07-03 15:34:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey I was just wondering what i should do.. Im 19 and my parents are getting divorced after 27 years of marriage.. and im at the age where I dont want to move out with either of them.. but since im still in school i have no idea what to do.. should i just quit school move out by myself and keep on working at club price for the rest of my life .. what would u do in my position..has anyone been able to go to school work and pay for rent?

2007-07-03 15:32:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He seems unable to leave his exgirlfriend although she abuses him and his mother. I AM PREFERRED BY HIS MOTHER AND BROTHERS. i am the one who gets invited to major family events i.e awards and weddings.

He wants me there but is still seeing the girl.

2007-07-03 15:31:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

many different times my father inlaw has yelled at me to the point where i cry. He yells at my children, tells me i am a bad mother and is always making fat jokes towards me. My husband never stands up for me and i'm dealing with that, but i have now decided to not see my father inlaw anymore, is that wrong or do i have that right because of the way he treats me? My husband is worried that it will effect their relationship but i am not stopping my husband from seeing him. It may be weird at first, but i think its weirder when i'm crying and hes yelling at me...someone help me.......

2007-07-03 15:06:35 · 36 answers · asked by Jessica B 1

2007-07-03 14:54:22 · 27 answers · asked by beatlegal 4

My wife is on the other side of the world with my son for business and to find herself and there's the nascent possibility of a flirtation I have w/ a good looking woman I have a connection with here. I know it's SO wrong so how do I avoid the temptation of committing infidelity while there's this void of my family gone for months on end? How do I keep the love of my wife and family strong in absentia? I keep busy but I work close to this woman and it's easy to find a connection here when my wife's absence leaves me with none. So how do I get over this and move on until my wife and son return?

2007-07-03 14:41:00 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He says they are just friends but everywhere I turn there's myspace, emails a few calls on his cell phone and work call log. He says nothing is going on and she is his ex for a reason, he can be nice to anyone and forgive anyone and that there is is no reason to shun anyone, no matter who they are. Dispite my voiceing my concerns, she seems to pop up every now and then...should i be concerned?

2007-07-03 14:27:38 · 18 answers · asked by Teena R 1

Is it common for them to withdraw from their friends and to be mean to others? Do they like to be alone and to not talk about what is going on? How can one show them support?

2007-07-03 14:03:17 · 7 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

My dad's been text messaging this lady he claims was seeking marital advice. The lady is supposed to be in an abusive marriage and she doesn't know what to do. Since my father is kind of active in church, she thought he would be a good place to look for advice, but in turn she' actually ruining my parents' marriage.

My mum had always been a suspicious person. This isn't the first time she's accused father of such nonsense. I say "nonsense" because I believe my dad is just doing his "Christian duty".

What should I do to make things better between them? I'd appreciate your help, thanks.

2007-07-03 13:46:31 · 15 answers · asked by Ms Ghost 6

How do I get her to STOP!
It has been 6 years.
I ask nicely, I scream I yell I beg.
I can't take it.

2007-07-03 12:23:57 · 25 answers · asked by Mr&Mrs W 1

We have been happily married for almost 8 years and have done some pretty wild things together sexually during our marriage. We're not jealous people and we get quite turned on when we see each other get hit on.

I thought she was joking around with me about this until she recently asked one of her girlfriends to "recruit" some potential partners for me. If she's pushing for this, should I let it happen?

2007-07-03 12:06:57 · 81 answers · asked by forbudt4u 1

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2007-07-03 11:47:43 · 10 answers · asked by lululove2005 1

She has already been married and divorced twice!

2007-07-03 11:47:35 · 17 answers · asked by AsianPersuasion :) 7

Im married 25 years and having a 14 year affair with a married woman from work. It used to work out very well, but now I feel like its such a mess. I have finally found my conscience.... what should I do ?

2007-07-03 11:17:24 · 22 answers · asked by jimmy Mac 1

i recently found out i was pregnant right after my bf left me i told him the news but he want me to get rid of it coz i think he has another girl im under so much stress i dont wanna get rid of it and i didnt tell my parents coz i live with them and they dont like him please advice me wat to do??

2007-07-03 10:58:52 · 27 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4

So, ..... What's the craziest / kinkiest place you've ever gotten it on with someone ? Not just made out - the full deal ? Come on lets hear it..... !

2007-07-03 10:56:03 · 8 answers · asked by aa889d 5

Why do girls find it so wrong for their man to look at porn? My husband does and i don't really care whats the big deal the only time i cared was when i asked him to do something and instead of doing it he looked at porn but i was more mad he didn't do what i asked. Should i care that he looks at porn it doesn't stop his interest in me any.

2007-07-03 10:54:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been unofficially seperated from my husband for 4 months. I am sure that we are headed for divorce but we go back and forth on trying again or ending it all. At the moment he wants try again but i think i am all out of tries. Now throw this into the mix- I am in deep with his ex friend. Our families were once close but in the past year we have all moved appart (they are divorcing- not because of us). My husband and I have had major issues through out our marriage- you name it we have pretty much "tried'' get past it. But our past has never been something that we can get over. I feel like when i started "relating" to my new man is when I realized that I was not going to be happy in my marriage, ever. We have no trust, my love for him is nomore, he does not want to deal with any issues. I am scared though. I dont know how to tell him I want a divorce- he is so minipulating and he some how gets me to feel bad for him or he cries and I am not a mean hearted person so I crumble.

2007-07-03 10:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sun of the Dark 1

I would think that people who view porn feel they need a sexual release. Wouldn't having more sex with your spouse provide this release and therefore remove the desire to view porn. Wouldn't it be healthier to give a spouse an outlet like sex than just telling them that viewing porn makes you feel bad? Shouldn't the sexual needs of the spouse be accounted for?
Is it as simple as have more sex with your spouse to avoid them from watching porn?
If your spouse does prefer to watch porn over actual sex what does that suggest of your skills as a lover?
Can increased sex with one's spouse get rid of the desire to watch porn?

2007-07-03 10:41:09 · 43 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

Does this sound right?

2007-07-03 10:36:05 · 24 answers · asked by Hicktown girl66 6

2007-07-03 10:36:00 · 45 answers · asked by David L 1

I've been seeing this wonderful man for the last 7 weeks. We've known each other for about 3 months. Talked for a month and then met in person and have been dating and seeing each other once a week every week since.
We were talking yesterday early evening and all is perfectly fine, I was asking him about 4th of July Fireworks plans, he said "sorry, Wolfy has first dibs"...Wolfy is his 7 year old son from this previous marriage of his. He's currently separated from his "Whacko" Ex Wife. They've been separated 2 + years and she refuses to sign the divorce papers because she wants to squeeze every penny out of him as best as she can even though he's the one who pays for everything, his sons clothes, toys, school (private school), medical bills, etc etc. He's very active and involved in his sons life. I haven't met the kid yet...but here's the problem.

So I thought Wolfy had first dibs on going to see fireworks his father, thats all fine and good, i'm not jealous of the boys time

2007-07-03 10:22:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife left me months ago. And my girlfriend after the separation broke up with me. I thought we were both really happy and did not see her as a rebound but I guess I was wrong. It was abrupt for her to leave and I don't know why. I did everything I knew to do and if I had known she was unhappy I would have tried to change that. Now I can not seem to get over the pain. I have not hurt like this ever before and I can not function or see any hope.

2007-07-03 10:18:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 10:06:18 · 28 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6

...I guess children all feel strange after their parents are divorced, (and I'm 13 myself)... but I don't know if this is just me being pitiful... but would anybody mind sharing?

I know I'm not the only one out there.

2007-07-03 10:04:25 · 4 answers · asked by moonii 3

exwife thinks my new wife should have no say/involment with our child and should take a back seat to everything.All school/discipline/discussions about my son should be between me and my ex and my new wife should NEVER be involved.My new wife feels the only time i should talk to my exwife is if there is an emergency or a major problem with our son not for everything thing that comes up.Plus my new wife feels left out when i talk to only to my ex about a issue with my son(exampe school problem/sickness).She feels i should tell her the same stuff i tell my exwife but then my ex gets pissed as she feels its none of her concern.The bottom line is they hate each other so much all they can think about is how to make the other one miserable.

2007-07-03 10:01:38 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

During the evening a girl calls for your husband asking for him by name and ask if he is home and when you say no who is this she hangs up on you immediately without saying another word..This happened to my friend over a yr ago she never got another call like it again.

2007-07-03 09:58:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-07-03 09:43:17 · 28 answers · asked by djson69 1

ok here are some examples for my b-day we went "dutch" on diner but on his i paid for both of us.On our up comming honnymoon he wanted to go as cheap as possible(red eye flight/cheap hotel ect) but thinks nothing of spending 2-3k on "toys" for himself which by the way is more than our honnymoon.

2007-07-03 09:37:53 · 37 answers · asked by stacey v 1