He has not admitted to it but i can't trust him anymore. i have no feelings for the guy. I am also pregnant 5 months pregnant by him. I see him everyday as we work at the same place. We no longer live together and i am thinking og divorce after 7 months of marriage. My daughter is is doing excellent in school and is very happy when he is not at home. She is not his child, how do i go about keeping him from coming to spend the weekend every fortnight?
2007-07-03 07:07:17 · 31 answers · asked by beautyfulrose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Since she's not his child, there's no reason he should spend ANY time with her. As for how to keep him from spending the night... get a restraining order! Tell him you want nothing to do with him and he needs to stay away.
I'd bring charges against him. If your daughter can talk to a counselor and express what this man did to her, that will help in you retaining full custody of this child you're carrying. You should not allow him to get away with this! He's a child abuser/ sex offender and he needs to be put away before he hurts another child. These people DO NOT get better. They are dangerous. If you protect him, you are potentially hurting other children (maybe even your daughter) as well.
2007-07-03 07:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
1.) Take your daughter to a doctor to see if your suspicions can be confirmed.
2.) If so, file charges against him. That will for certain keep him from wanting to spend the weekend every fortnight.
3.) Divorce him and make sure to yank his balls as hard as possible as you are doing it.
That said, if you don't do any of the above.. At least take your daughter to stay at your mother's ( or the like ) at any time when that man will be in your house. Your daughter and any other children that may be in the vicinity of this potential predator.
2007-07-03 07:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? This must be a joke question. The guy MOLESTED your little girl and you are asking "how" you can stop him from coming to your house? Here's a thought, first cut his wanker off then blow his brains out! I will never understand white women, never. You women consistently choose your man over your child. You dismiss the lies the man tells you and you put your child at repeated risk of molestation and abuse. I know you are white because black women don't play this. I wish a man would touch my daughter (or son) he's dead meat. I don't care if I have to serve life in prison, I'd kill him...but I'd take my time and kill him slowly.
2007-07-03 07:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you think this and NOT have done something about it? What you are writing and what you are saying may have happened do not jive in any way. You are in very dangerous waters to be casting slurs like this if you have no real reason to think this. You sound as if you are letting your dislike for the guy interfere with your reason. A simple trip to the doctors will give you the answer, yet you have done nothing here....it sounds more like you are in a mode to punish your husband with a made up excuse to me.
2007-07-03 07:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is obviously a bullshit story, if you were a real parent your concern would be for your child and getting her help and making sure your husband wouldn't be able to "bother" you again. You would have called CPS and turned him in and had him jailed. That would take care of his spending the weekend every two weeks.
2007-07-03 08:58:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea...........press charges for what he did to your child. I can't even believe you have trouble keeping him away. As soon as I found out what he did, the very first thing I would have done was called the police and the second would have been my divorce attorney. If he did it to your kid, chances are it isn't the first time he's done this and it won't be the last.
2007-07-03 07:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the authorities, get a restraining order, and have him brought up on charges. As far as YOU are concerned, you need to wise up. You have a 4 year old from one failed relationship and you're now pregnant with a child from a guy that mollested your daughter. WISE UP!
2007-07-03 07:14:53 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Contact the authorities NOW. Take of your daughter. You shouldn't even be here asking questions, you should be acting like a mother. Your child needs immediate attention.
2007-07-03 07:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Comancheria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the got dam police! Are you crazy???? His *** should be under the dam jail! You seriously don't know what to do??? Kick his *** to the curb. Get an Order of protection and keep YOUR child away from that molester!
2007-07-03 07:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, a restraining order? Moving away? Don't think about a divorce go get one!! Report his behind to the authorities. Do a Lorena Bobbitt on him. Obviously he doesn't know what and who he should use his "sausage" on...or should I say in?
2007-07-03 07:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Arleen J 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋