Okay, my guy came by this morning and surprised me, got me all worked up, then ran out the door to work... Here's the link: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjWJaTErReTvu8R9VlaXtJDsy6IX?qid=20070703065355AAKE1Ar
SO, HOW DO I RETURN THE FAVOR - IDEAS TO MAKE HIM HOT AND LEAVE HIM WANTING MORE...
Please email suggestions that might be a little suggestive for answers.
2007-07-03 03:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by onehotmama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL.. I'm 30, and now what to do in the bedroom... but when I posted what he did this morning, all the gals wished they were me! (not the sex part, the scenario).. now, I'm looking for a similar setup.. not specifics in the bedroom.. got that .. obviously if you read my earlier post.. but something like he did with surprising me, getting me all worked up, and running off to work.. then calling me throughout the day about it... :) What from a guy's stand point would be just as "surprising and lingering?"
2007-07-03 03:34:47 · update #1
sorry perhaps my wording made it sound like I was being hostile.. no actually, I am extremely happy and want to make him feel as loved as I do right now.
2007-07-03 03:38:13 · update #2
You are a lucky girl!! :) He sounds like a keeper!!
As far as "returning the favor".... something that I did for my husband was take "stripping" lessons (from a DVD LOL) Once I had learned a few moves I found the perfect song and made up a routine that would work in our house. Then I went out, got an "outfit" and all that good stuff, ... and one night (without warning) I sat him down on the couch and said that I had a surprise for him... Then I went upstairs, got dressed (I even got some "stripper heels!"). I had already put the cd in our stereo and had the remote w/ me. So as I came down the stairs I hit the play button. Then I proceded to do about a 5 minute strip tease!
I REFUSED to let him TOUCH me though (which drove him NUTS) and when I was done I picked up my clothes and said... "There ya go!" and started walking off!!
He was like, "WHAT?!?!" But I kept on walking (making him think that he wasnt going to get anything else.)
I knew he would pout for a few minutes (and think I would come back down) but I didnt. Instead I got into yet ANOTHER outfit upstairs (one that had some "accessability" to it!), lit some candles in our bedroom, put on some nice romantic music and simply WAITED until he came looking for me!!
It took him a good 20 MINUTES to finally come looking (I think he was waiting for me!) and when he found me I just said, "What took you so long!?".... you can imagine what happened next!!
This was about 4 months ago.... I think its SOOO important to keep doing things like this to keep the romance alive in a relationship! My husband and I have been married for 6 yrs and have 3 kids... and we are still VERY much in love AND lust for one another... it makes life WONDERFUL!!
Anyway... hope that helps!! Dont let this guy go either... he really sounds like he THINKS not only about sex, but also about YOU and turning YOU on... thats GREAT!!
Good luck "getting him back!!"
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TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO RESPONDED ABOUT HER BEING "CHILDISH" OR WHATNOT:
Do you all not realize that when she says she wants to "get even" she is NOT meaning that she is upset or mad!?! She's wanting ideas to leave HIM wanting more and PLAYFULLY leaving him "hanging" (so to speak).
Why is it that so many ppl on here are SO negative, when they THEMSELVES are the ones just not "getting it!?!"
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(Sorry for that... but I really got irritated w/ all the "answers" saying that you were being childish and immature and a spoiled brat... and all that other crap! They obviously just dont understand)
2007-07-03 03:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is possible, show up to where he works, let him slide his hand up under your skirt where he will discover you are not wearing any underwear. Lean over to whisper in his ear and just grab a handful of his unit and tell him that you really need it, a quick bite on his neck, and a smack on his butt and tell him you will see him later. Turn around and walk off, stop look back at him (he will be looking at you I promise), give him a seductive wink and head out the door with a smile...
2007-07-03 11:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why get even? There is something to be said about leaving somone wanting more. Tell the man how much you enjoyed the morning surprise and that you thought about him all day. I personally would probably be thinking about the sex to come and not even worry about it.
2007-07-03 10:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you are being a spoiled baby to be honest. and that is putting it nicely. I read the other question and replied, but the fact that you want to get back at him is immature. be happy your guy wants you that much that he stops by in the morning. instead of being a b---ch about it, and if it made you that "ready" you could have finished it yourself, or just let the excitement build until you saw him again.
2007-07-03 10:36:06 · answer #4 · answered by brandi 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, quite simple.. Call im on the phone and keep making like sex noises and like be like I'll go into the shower now and you know. BE VERY DETAILED... He'll get hot and horny and once you sense you got him horny enough to be hard, hang up..
2007-07-03 10:53:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trenchcoat, high heels, nothing else.
Show up to his work, give him a peek, hand him a small wrapped package with a pair of panties in it, and leave.
Congrats girl!
2007-07-03 10:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the hostility about with getting even? Learn how to play..
2007-07-03 10:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Playfully tie him to the bed. Play with him, but stop just short of allowing him to "finish" (if you catch my meaning). Do this for as long as you want. 4 or 5 times, minimum.
He won't be able to "take matters into his own hands", he won't be able to touch you - just look at you, and he won't be able to cover himself from your stare. All very sexy and frustrating by themselves, but combine them, and he's putty in your hands.
2007-07-03 10:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by Becka Gal 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay, this is getting kind of old now......
If you don't have a clue how to make him "hot", it's not going to work when you try our suggestions.
2007-07-03 10:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Give him the cold shoulder. Guys like hard to get.
2007-07-03 10:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jingius 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋