2007-07-03 16:50:14 · 24 answers · asked by broken heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OH YEA, it is definately possible! It's also possible to live the rest of your born days regretting it. It's possible that quilt will make you a very miserable person. It's possible that you could also lose the one who really cares for you and once you are free and readily avalible, your lover will move on to someone else since the ego trip of having what belongs to someone else is gone. All the possibilities would make most intelligent women realize that they are far better off without ever crossing that line but first and foremost, most are committed to the vows they took.
2007-07-03 17:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sidney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course its possible to have a lover and be married. My x-husband did it and that is why he is my ex. You should never have a relationship outside of your marriage. If your marriage is in trouble or you are not happy, fix it in your marriage first. If you can't fix it or you don't want to try to fix it then you should consider separating to see if that is really what you want. Believe me when I say that the grass may look greener on the other side but once you get there you find out it is only mud spray painted green. Everything looks better from a distance but it isn't fair to put your spouse through that.
2007-07-03 23:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely possible, for if there is something lacking, yet all else is good , then you are entitled to be happy, as long as you and the lover realize that there there are no chains that bind and your situation other than the reason that you all are getting it on means nothing more than a moment of pleasure that you cannot get at home, I have been there and done that from both ends of the stick. so therefore I am imminently qualified to talk this type of scenerio!!!
2007-07-04 00:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by john j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if that lover is your spouse. But I'm assuming you are talking about infidelity and while it is certainly physically possible it is not a good option and considered immoral . Infidelity is is against the whole reason for marrying and wrong. It is also grounds for divorce.
2007-07-03 23:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by victoria m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your lover is your husband that your married to, but if it someone else...you might want to get a divorce before you bring someone else into a trouble situation.
2007-07-03 23:58:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible, it's called phucking around or "adultery" or cheating on your marriage. That is unless your lover is the one you are married to.
2007-07-04 03:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong, so wrong.
But it's possible.
Best is if you're married to your lover. Highly recommended!
2007-07-04 00:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is my lover.
If you think you need more you need to get out and not bring grief on everyone.
2007-07-03 23:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by hazel b grand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your lover is your husband!
2007-07-03 23:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. That is only if your spouse is your one and only lover.
2007-07-04 00:00:07 · answer #10 · answered by Winne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋