Marriage & Divorce - 29 June 2007

He works at a hospital between 8 and 12 hours a day which leaves me home alone all that time unless I am working. When he gets home from work he gives me a kiss then he head right into the computer room to play World Of Warcraft the only time he comes out is to get a drink or to eat supper then hes back in there until sometimes 11 at night. When I ask him to come out and sit with me he gets upset. This has been going on for almost a month now. Even when we both have the day off which rarely happens he is playing the game all day and leaves me in the living room to watch tv. What can I do to make him spend more time with me. I get really lonely when hes working all day and then comes home to play the computer. I spend more time with my cats then him. Please help me

2007-06-29 15:46:25 · 18 answers · asked by AngelEyes24 2

please give me some ideas
(open for either sex to reply)

2007-06-29 15:45:10 · 2 answers · asked by sweet_nikkiboo 1

My husband work full time and i work full time.. he thinks because he is the bread winner and makes more money then i do he doesn't have to help around the house.. I am doing it all the lawn, garbage. kids everything.. I just don't think it's fair, he said most marriage are like this.. so tell me ? is this fair?

2007-06-29 15:40:07 · 19 answers · asked by gonecrzy70 2

I love my wife as she is great with our home and business realistic about life and problems.
I love my gf because we have fun times together and always laugh.
I love another gf because we really have fun in bed together.
does this seem normal???

2007-06-29 15:38:48 · 18 answers · asked by Ric C 3

2007-06-29 15:27:35 · 8 answers · asked by brainbox 4

2007-06-29 15:18:12 · 20 answers · asked by MEMO 1

She says that but she is as fit as they come and believe me other Guys do stare. So, should she tell me the truth and should I spill the beans about my past.

2007-06-29 15:16:59 · 23 answers · asked by Redmonk 6

we all were having a few drinks and everyone was having a good time until my husb co-workers were taliking about porn, since at my husb job they also sell satellite dish. anyway they were teasing my husb for accidently scrolling through the porn that didnt upset me what upset me was that one of the girls that he works with told him" ws it hard porn or soft porn" and my husb responds it was "soft for me" and wll everyone laughed so after we all went home I told him that was not right he apologized to me, but I cannot help thinking that if they ll speak that way infront me how do they talk at work I didnt like the fact that the girl had such freedom to speak 2 him in that way can someone please give me some advice please?

2007-06-29 15:12:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

But, she is having a hard time with it. She lays in bed, unmovable. She can't deal with it. Advice?

2007-06-29 14:30:54 · 21 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2

My husband and I got into a discussion about love being equal between the two people in a relationship. He believes that in any relationship one person is always more in love than the other. Do you guys think this is true or not. With your answer include if you're married, single etc..... and for how long. We're both curious to see what others think.

Thanks :)

2007-06-29 14:14:25 · 12 answers · asked by Christine 4

I've been married almost 4 years and known my wife 7 years. I was head over heals when we first met. Our relationship was pretty good until our daughter was born, two years ago. We both work full-time or more. Since our daughter was born we only have sex about once month to once every 3 or 4 months. I do most all cooking, laundry and cleaning, fix everything around the house, take care of our pets. We seldom ever do anything fun together as just the two of us, always some excuse. I am all about hygene, I shower daily. She showers just once every 3 or 4 days which she never used to be this bad, but I find it gross. I've made remarks about this and she just gets mad at me for "keeping track." I find it hard to initiate sex, because of the showering thing & the fact that I do everything else. She hardly ever initiates the sex. I have a fairly high sex drive and am becoming very frustrated. We become very short with one another too. She complains that I don't do nice things for her.

2007-06-29 13:46:40 · 16 answers · asked by Ryan M 1

Hello. i need some help asap.
Ok, I was with my ex for about 5 years. She joined the army and i was going to school. everything was going good. then she gets moved to New York and i am in Ohio. things started to get dicey and we ended up breaking up. Soon after we broke up, she meet someone up there and they got married. they only knowing eacher for 2 months tops. Soon after they was married she calls me up telling me she is pregnant and its more than likey mine. She is around 20+ weeks pregnant. and everything shows that its mine.

This is where i need help, I need to know what rights i have. I want everything to do with this child of mine. It will be my first child. Can anyone help me what the first steps i should take. I want all my rights and i do not know if she is considered a resident of New York or Ohio being in the army and all. What would i look up for find the laws in my situation.

2007-06-29 13:35:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is something wrong with me or is it him??

2007-06-29 13:21:41 · 19 answers · asked by ponchabrava 1

I love my girlfriend dearly. I can't imagine a day without her. We've been together six years. People keep asking me why we are not married. She is divorced and I got burned real bad. So I just don't want to ever get divorced. And she says she won't marry again. We are getting by the way we are and we seem to both agree that marriage is not for us. Or should I just tell people that we are married, so they will not ask so many questions? Technically we are common law married.

2007-06-29 13:01:19 · 21 answers · asked by laid back brainstormer 2

2007-06-29 12:55:19 · 31 answers · asked by Cori 4

You
a) Ask that she leave before you get the manager,
b) Smile & look the other way.
c) Make small talk.
d) Stand up & walk away.

2007-06-29 12:47:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Again, read my other questions to see my background please.... Recently, my fiance wrote me letter saying how I am the most beautiful, mature, wonderful, caring, strongest (and any other fabulous word you could think of) woman he has ever met. Well if I am all of these wonderful things, which I believe myself to be, why doesn't all of him want to be with me? Why would he risk losing me because he is so very scared of commitment right now? Why did he even ask me to marry him and plan our wedding if he was freaking out? This is so out of character for him. I can't even believe it. How do you go from loving and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone and them having your children to "I am scared because every married person in the world gets divorced" - that's his quote. So, really I want to know guys/girls, if I am all of these wonderful things, why does he not want it????

2007-06-29 12:04:01 · 19 answers · asked by BrusselSprouts 2

CAn anyone give me an answer. This relates to an earlier question of mine, and yes, all the advice is very good, and I should practice, but it still doesn't answer y I'm so insecure about a relationship that hasn't even begun yet, and is in the infant stages. I'm taking a lot of males stereotypes and applying them to my relationship, when i know I shouldn't since every guy is different. I know this is silly, which is y I want these doubts gone, but I guess I just wanna be prepared for when sh*t does go wrong. I know it's wrong of me to think like this so soon w/o any provocation, but I've heard of arranged marriages gone bad once the spouse reaches the states. ANy ideas of getting rid of my ridiculous paranoia that doesn't include counseling? Theres' no reason for any of this from my partner, just from society and what I've seen and heard about marriage in general, especially the arranged kind. Plz help, I'm going nuts!

2007-06-29 11:49:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I make this a better situation. I am one of her bosses and I do not want to make this uncomfortable. I have been told to just let it be, but I have a beautiful wife at home and I feel that it is not fair to her to have this woman just hitting on me all the time.

I think she is a great worker, and is married too! I know she was having some problems at home and I think this is all how it started. I listened to her, a lot, and I think she has turned it in to something else.

Any advice on what to say nicely. I am not the kind of person who enjoys hurting someones feelings.

Thanks.

2007-06-29 11:44:15 · 50 answers · asked by geo 1

2007-06-29 11:39:39 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-29 11:14:10 · 29 answers · asked by Nickie P 1

I can't pick one thing...there are quite a few that are up there on the list.........

2007-06-29 11:06:32 · 31 answers · asked by Sassafrass 6

I love this man i've been seeing . i've been trying to see him off and on he is not married. but my husband has cheated on me before i started seeing this man when my husband was cheating on me my husband and i had seperated from my husband for awhile and then we got back together but the feelings that i have for my husband is not there i saw the other man the other day i the feeling that i have for him is very strong and mutual its a feeling i can't explain please help i'm confused . my husband also used to abuse me and also has a child outside our marriage who is about fourteen years old.but my husband says if i leave him iwould have to pay child support this child is not even mine he did this while we were married how do i get out of this.

2007-06-29 11:05:10 · 25 answers · asked by lil tootie 42 1

His ex makes excuses to keep the child from him. She continues to harass my son. My son pays child support, child care and medical and looks forward to being with his child. Does he need to take her back to court? What are his rights? His ex continues to leave threatening messages on his voicemail. He has another child outside of his previous marriage and the ex does not want the other child around her child. After all, they are sister and brother. My son loves both his children unconditionally. He is an excellent father to both his children. He has followed all the conditions of the court order. He travels 40 miles to pick up his child from his ex and delivers the child back to his ex. Now his ex is trying to cut his visitation down to one day every two weeks b/c she has enrolled the child in activity which requires the child to participate every weekend. That shortens my son visits with his child. My son tries to comply with the ex's demands.

2007-06-29 10:59:15 · 23 answers · asked by Toni P 2

Everytime we make love my husband asks if I had an orgasm. So far I've lied to him. I don't think I've had an orgasm yet. Should I tell him the truth next time he asks? I'm afraid this will hurt his ego. Help!

2007-06-29 10:52:25 · 27 answers · asked by Cookie Monster 1

Just got married on the 16th. The honeymoon was going really well until one day we were making love and he didn't finish. He was going at it for 45mins and he couldn't finish. Should I be offended by this? Am I doing something wrong? Is it possible to be able to hold out that long if nothing's wrong?

2007-06-29 10:42:40 · 26 answers · asked by Cookie Monster 1

too much.

2007-06-29 10:40:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She likes going out and closes the bars. Picks up a new guy the same night she dumps the old one. She dumps them because they wise up and cut off the money. She had multiple partners during the last year of marriage. She lies on a daily basis. Mentally incapable of telling the truth. These are facts ,not personal opinions.

2007-06-29 10:38:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heard that I have to keep paying until he graduates, which would make him 18 and 5 onths old

2007-06-29 10:27:05 · 18 answers · asked by VINCENT W 1

he smelled like he had been drinking. I didn't say anything to my husband. When the Pastor left, my husband said, now what was that smell? I don't know what to do, we are so turned off now. BTW sometimes preaches about this same subject. OMG I have lost something for him. Should we leave? He will never admit it if we confront him.

2007-06-29 10:18:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous