Is something wrong with me or is it him??
2007-06-29 13:21:41 · 19 answers · asked by ponchabrava 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd try talking to him outside the bedroom about it. He could be stressed, not feeling well, upset about something that you have long since forgot about or any number of things. Find some time when you are both feeling okay with each other and bring it up casually.
2007-06-29 13:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by indydst8 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats the saying... "if hes not getting it from you hes getting it from someone else"? That or something like it. I have never met a man that would go 6 months without sex. There is nothing wrong with you but I'm willing to bet hes having some serious problems.
2007-06-29 20:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by gagirl01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either having an affair emotional or physical. Also
some men are shallow jerks who won't sleep with you if
you don't look like you did when they first met you.
Try to seduce him a differrent way this time something wild!
IF it doesn't work start being more socially active see if he
gets worried. Last ditch start checking phone records he
may be up to no good.
Get the love you deserve and good Luck
2007-06-29 20:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by dragonness36 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not to sound too stereotypical, but one of two things come to mind:
1) He's gay.
2) He's found someone else, who's gay with him.
Sounds harsh, but it could be true. He just needs to be a man (or as much of one as he can be hiding in the closet) and confront you about it.
Another thing to ponder: are you absolutely sure the pass you made on him was obvious? Some women think they're being sexy but they come across goofy or sarcastic.
2007-06-29 20:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Spudnic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a little of both. I know you said you made a pass at him, but have you full blown thrown yourself at him? Don't know if that would make a difference or not. I doubt that it has anything to do with you thought, maybe he has some sorta medical problem, has this been looked into? Good luck.
2007-06-29 20:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by LOS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's him. Get help.Did something happen 6 months ago or did things just start to slow down?This does'nt mean that he's cheating..I wonder if he's older and he's losing his sex drive?Could even be problems outside the bedroom more likely..good luck to you
2007-06-29 21:20:25 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Melissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dear nothing is wrong with you.
is either his occupied his brain on something or busy with work but still is not and excuse to neglect you.
so my advise to you instant of wanting to get in bed with him, why can't you find what is troubling him not to notice your effort.
The only way is to sit down and talk about the problem and find a solution to what ever is taking his time off you.
Good luck be strong
2007-06-29 20:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by maxin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for the both of you to have an talk before this problem get out of hand, like maybe an third person.If he is not willing too talk then you do the talking and tell him the consequences of his action.That should get an respond from him.
2007-06-29 20:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by lavell 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Review how many times he asked or made a pass and you said:
"Not now."
"Not tonight."
"I'm tired."
"I have a headache."
"Later."
"How can you think about sex now? It's [Flag Day, Columbus Day, Groundhog Day] for chrissakes."
"I feel fat."
And then just figure it's all starting to balance out now - if you have the right to say no, he has the right to say no.
Why is it okay for you to turn him down, but not the other way around? Exactly.
2007-06-29 21:49:27 · answer #9 · answered by salacious_crumb 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to him because sex is not everything to some people it maybe but, what realy matters is love. work and stress may not make him feel like having sex. just set and talk don't let anyone tell you he does not want you no more. try and work things out good luck
2007-06-29 20:32:10 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋