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2007-06-29 11:14:10 · 29 answers · asked by Nickie P 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

29 answers

yup and nope. depends on the guy

2007-06-29 11:17:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

It depends on the man and how much he is willing to pay for. It helps for a man to have morals and respect for his woman but .....All the drinking and nudity and other men making things feel that it is perfectly normal can affect and has affect even a man with better judgement! The women are there to arrouse them and men are very visual. Depending on the type of girl that is ordered they will and do entice the men to make the most money. If the men care to want this type of temptation what do you expect them to do? Do you think that anyone of them are going to tell on each other. Some guys have lap dances that get off from dry sex because they are so excited.....some think this does not constitute cheating because there was no penetration. Some men think that oral sex isn't cheating because it wasn't intrercourse. Honestly it all depends on what the guy views as whats cheating and not cheating! Anything can happen under the infuence when you are not thinking straight and the opportunity is there and available. If these women can expose them selves and show a bunch of strange men what they got they are up for most anything. Many marriages have been broken up over these parties before the marriage has ever gotten off the ground and have taken afew friends marriages along with them to! They are imature and very dangerous in my oppinion....but it's just an oppinion right. Look up things on the net about them and get advice from relationships that were affected by them and knowing your man and all his friends you might find your answer.

2007-06-29 18:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lindsey 4 · 0 0

Uhhh...Not only have I heard that they cheat, but I heard that they think of it as not being a big deal because it's just a "fling" before the wedding and is meaningless. ***** This is just what I've heard from other men, it doesn't happen at EVERY bachelor party. I have also heard of the ever so popular "feed the kitty" game where the guys INCLUDING the bachelor put a sucker in their mouth with the candy part sticking up, I'm assuming their holding on with their teeth by the stick....but they lay down with the sucker sticking up and the girl picks up the candy with her KITTY! Nice bachelor parties huh girls??? LOL Makes you wanna say go ahead babe, knock yourself out!.....NOT.....I'm just sharing the stories I've heard from guy friends, so this isn't what happens at EVERY bachelor party. I also know of some that were NORMAL. In short....it just depends on how far the bachelor will let the party go. If women can trust their man, then this won't be a problem : )

2007-06-29 18:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0 0

That's a hard question to ask, but you really need to be asking yourself. You know your fiance and what he is and is not capable of. If he has always acted like kind of a lech towards other women, there is a possibility. If he's a class act, then you're probably safe. Only you know for sure. And sometimes even the good guys make mistakes. Copious amounts of alcohol and naked women are never a good mix when it comes to bachelors. You can't plan his bachelor party for him, but just tell him how you feel and remind him how much you love him. If he has a conscience, most likely nothing will happen. If you're still really unsure, have a Jack and Jill Party. Celebrate together!

2007-06-29 18:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by pixie22406 3 · 0 0

No, I think that's a myth. I've been to quite a few bachelor parties and nowadays, depending on how classy the guy is, these are mostly golf outings, trips to sporting events, a night of video games and pizza, and stuff like that. I have never been invited to a strip club or anything for a bachelor party, nor has a stripper ever shown up. It's mostly just a guys night out; it doesn't have to involve other women.

2007-06-29 18:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by Yogi 6 · 1 0

if you were going to cheat, why make a huge deal out of it and do it when everyone knows? there is always a little simp rat boyfriend of a brides mate amongst the guys at a bachelor party...

2007-06-29 18:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by kevbeer2003 4 · 0 1

Some have taken the opportunity to have that one last fling before walking down the aisle. Some people pass out at their parties. There's no universal rule here.

2007-06-29 18:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Deep Thought 5 · 0 0

yes, it is encouraged by other bachelors. I do't know if we should call it cheat, but the do flirt and have free sex - sometimes witha female stripper that was employed for the party

2007-06-29 18:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i never cheated and i never had a bachelor party.

2007-06-29 18:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 2 0

someone who would cheat at his bachelor party would cheat anyway, regardless.

2007-06-29 18:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by writenimage 4 · 2 0

Not all the time. But I think there are some men that do.

2007-06-29 18:17:01 · answer #11 · answered by island girl 3 · 1 0

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