I dont drink, hang out in bars, dont physically or mentally abuse, I am not bad looking. I do travel alittle. I do more than half the house work. I just dont understand.
2007-06-29 08:57:11 · 14 answers · asked by Rodg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is a normal, genetic response. She subconsicously desires another baby and she feels it will not happen with her current mate. When was the last time she had a baby?
2007-06-29 09:26:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sinatra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My gawwd man, she's bored! Give her something to bi*ch about! Your too easy.
Back to reality here. Change your life style. Do some crazy thing that you did 20 years ago. She's looking for spice but in the wrong places. Its up to you to let her relive some fun and exciting pasts or even come up with some new ones. Get out of that old routine. If she still hasn't changed her ways by a couple months of this, then let her go as she's already started her own interests.
2007-06-29 16:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's generally something inside the relationship. Perhaps she doesn't feel mentally or emotionally connected to you anymore. She may feel she is in a different life stage than you are and that you both have grown apart. 17 is very young to marry.
2007-06-29 16:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's to general of a question. People cheat for a variety of reasons. She might be bored, lonely or just can say no. Either way a cheat is a cheat and they all have their own reasons.
2007-06-29 16:19:25 · answer #4 · answered by harold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive her and make it work or else, get a divorce and move on. The whole 'saintly and perfect' image of women is as bad as the old 'troublemaker-devil' image of the past. Neither is true. Some women make bad choices or have personal problems. Don't blame yourself. She has to deal with it.
2007-06-29 16:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think people cheat because it's a thrill for them. To them they are being naughty and it turns them on doing that. But I think that some people feel as though they are getting something from the person they're cheating with that they aren't getting at home.
2007-06-29 16:02:19 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It happens, it's nature and there's no explanation for it. She probably can't explain it either.
If you still love her, forgive her, you won't forget but, try and not bring it up, She's probably just as sorry it happen as you that it happen. You said you had twenty years, try and make it another twenty. Good luck
2007-06-29 16:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your problem is you married her when she was a baby. she was only 17. dude she wants to see and feel other men in her. she wants to know if you are the shiznit or the pits. she is craving other phalluses in her. she needs to feel the different shapes and sizes. thats why i say for a good marriage you have to marry an experienced woman
2007-06-29 16:04:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
who knows man. my wife did the same to me.we been together 16yrs.we are trying to work it out but the things i know she did and the things i suspect she did are raelly playing with my mind and self image.hope you fare better!
2007-06-29 16:16:31 · answer #9 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was 17 when you got married. Maybe she thinks she missed her youth. How old were you?
2007-06-29 16:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋